leadership527
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I've toyed with sharing Carol (who is not a swinger and not poly). But I don't mean "share" as in "find some random stranger". I just imagine I might find myself in a situation wherein I would want her to perform sexually in some way for someone. In my mind, there are lot's of "what about disease" red flags all over this one, but if I did somehow come into a situation where I thought it would work out, I'd give the command and she would obey. I certainly wouldn't feel any "less" about her. Matter of fact, given that this particular command would go strongly against her natural inclinations, I'd expect to feel very positive about her -- as you suggested, pleased with her obedience. This has nothing to do with cheating (and yes, Carol is my wife). She would be performing against her natural inclinations on my command, nothing more, nothing less.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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