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asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 9:14:07 AM   
wife4sharing


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have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
does this make you feel closer to her that she is obedient enough to fulfill something like serving another male dominant? or do you think less of her because she did it, meaning if you owned her and you told her to do it and she did so, would you view her differently?(yes even though you ordered her to do so) also if you are married and are speaking of your slave wife, does this make you think she would ever cheat on you/serve another dom/master without you telling her to do so?
** i do know many here use different words for thier situations, hence slave/bottom/property/'it' and so on as well as top/master/owner/dom and so on so please understand am merely trying to get general idea and information on this subject. thank you very much
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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 9:41:33 AM   
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Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE?  Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY?  If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want.  I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works.  If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend.  Why do women have to try to romantify everything?  Let ME make this real clear for you okay.  I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you.  I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:04:38 AM   
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Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE?  Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY?  If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want.  I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works.  If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend.  Why do women have to try to romantify everything?  Let ME make this real clear for you okay.  I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you.  I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.


Wow. The bolded portions are one more reason i'd never be a slave..... Plus, i hear a lot of anger there.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:19:28 AM   
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I have a feeling he hasnt ever left the computer.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:22:44 AM   
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Not all masters are pissants who in order to feel masculine need tiny weak women. Some of prefer more powerful prey.

Some share their women as a test, hoping their woman will refuse in order to reafirm their bond, others do so in order to gain approval from friends, some of us, like myself, do so on occasion because it can be fucking hot.

I shared a partner of mine with another woman this weekend at a dungeon in LA and my pants were covered in female ejaculate and it was a gloriously hot time for all of us. I have shared partners with friends and had great times, other times less so.

This isn't one of those "this is how it works" sort of questions because there are reasons that make it hot, others that can make it a disaster, still more than can make it emotionall uplifting or destructive.

As for cheating, if you can't tell your partner about it openly...probably either shouldn't be doing it or you should find a different partner.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:24:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterGoad88

Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE?  Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY?  If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want.  I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works. 

Sorry Goad...it is you who does not understand how it works. If you had the slightest semblance of a clue, you cage would not be empty, now would it?


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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:26:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957


quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterGoad88

Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE?  Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY?  If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want.  I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works.  If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend.  Why do women have to try to romantify everything?  Let ME make this real clear for you okay.  I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you.  I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.


Wow. The bolded portions are one more reason i'd never be a slave..... Plus, i hear a lot of anger there.

~sweetsub~


Uh, not sure how to tell you this, but he does not represent the views of all the master out there that own slaves. In fact I have never met anyone like him in the real world and I have met a lot of people at lot of places.

Oh but I totally agree on the anger thing. His posts and profile drip with it. Makes me wonder who he really is.


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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:29:05 AM   
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How about if we answer the OP and the topic she presented?

Thanks!

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:29:30 AM   
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Nah...goat-boy is not real...he's a profile created by someone to stir things up a little.

At least that's what I'm hoping!


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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:35:27 AM   
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quote:

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
I am a submissive, married to my Master, but allow me to answer anyway.
We discussed and are aware of how the other feels about sharing prior to committing to our relationship. I am his, and he does not share. He is aware that i feel the same and do not want to be with anyone but him. He respects me, himself and our relationship far too much to ever order me to do something that he knows i am not willing to do.


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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:53:37 AM   
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Mod,

If you are interested in keeping the thread on topic, why not delete the dipshits posts so we don't have to get sick each time we have to scroll past it? A post that was not only idiotic, but was as off topic as the posts you are whining about?

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 10:58:20 AM   
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So far all Masters I met were not willing to share and personally I am also a 1:1 person so I doubt it would go well if I would be shared against my will. My current date makes it pretty clear (he is also active in public scenes) that sharing only takes place if the Master and the sub or slave are both comfortable with it...if that isn't the case then neither would he want to share a girl from someone else nor would he put his own girl through it.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 11:02:42 AM   
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I've toyed with sharing Carol (who is not a swinger and not poly). But I don't mean "share" as in "find some random stranger". I just imagine I might find myself in a situation wherein I would want her to perform sexually in some way for someone. In my mind, there are lot's of "what about disease" red flags all over this one, but if I did somehow come into a situation where I thought it would work out, I'd give the command and she would obey.

I certainly wouldn't feel any "less" about her. Matter of fact, given that this particular command would go strongly against her natural inclinations, I'd expect to feel very positive about her -- as you suggested, pleased with her obedience. This has nothing to do with cheating (and yes, Carol is my wife). She would be performing against her natural inclinations on my command, nothing more, nothing less.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 11:14:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Mod,

If you are interested in keeping the thread on topic, why not delete the dipshits posts so we don't have to get sick each time we have to scroll past it? A post that was not only idiotic, but was as off topic as the posts you are whining about?


We shall take your concerns under advisement. 

In the meantime, if you have not already discovered it, there is a button that takes you directly to the first unread post.  It's a little page symbol immediately to the left of the thread title.  If you hover over it, you will see a box pop up that says "go to first unread post".  If you click that, you will bypass previous posts that may bring your intestinal fortitude into question.



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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 11:20:50 AM   
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While I try to never say never, sharing is something that doesn't really sit well with me. Having said that...We have discussed the idea from time to time.
If I were to decide I wanted to share my little girl, I'm 100% sure that she would obey. Would I think less of her for doing so? Absolutely not. She obeys me without hesitation, no matter what I ask of her and that's one of the many reasons I claimed her and one of the many reasons I love her.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 12:18:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Mod,

If you are interested in keeping the thread on topic, why not delete the dipshits posts so we don't have to get sick each time we have to scroll past it? A post that was not only idiotic, but was as off topic as the posts you are whining about?


We shall take your concerns under advisement. 

In the meantime, if you have not already discovered it, there is a button that takes you directly to the first unread post.  It's a little page symbol immediately to the left of the thread title.  If you hover over it, you will see a box pop up that says "go to first unread post".  If you click that, you will bypass previous posts that may bring your intestinal fortitude into question.




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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 4:38:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
I am a submissive, married to my Master, but allow me to answer anyway.
We discussed and are aware of how the other feels about sharing prior to committing to our relationship. I am his, and he does not share. He is aware that i feel the same and do not want to be with anyone but him. He respects me, himself and our relationship far too much to ever order me to do something that he knows i am not willing to do.



holly is not even allowed to share her cookies with others. 


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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 4:53:09 PM   
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If you would be interested in those opinions where the Dominant is female and has shared her male slave, let Me know.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 5:26:44 PM   
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1. Perhaps they share because they can. Sharing works best when everybody agrees.
2. I really can't be certain however, because I'm only "shared" with other females as a top or a co sub, never as a submissive to another of either gender. I wouldn't belong to anyone who wanted to loan me out willy nilly.
3. I also wouldn't belong to anyone who hadn't achieved a certain level of closeness. If I just want to be used, I could find that at any bar or club around last call on a Saturday night. Wouldn't have to fuss with any belonging business either.
4. Maybe I'm not a weal twue sub though, as I'll share my cookies with whomever I please :)

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/11/2010 5:48:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: wife4sharing

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
does this make you feel closer to her that she is obedient enough to fulfill something like serving another male dominant? or do you think less of her because she did it, meaning if you owned her and you told her to do it and she did so, would you view her differently?(yes even though you ordered her to do so) also if you are married and are speaking of your slave wife, does this make you think she would ever cheat on you/serve another dom/master without you telling her to do so?
** i do know many here use different words for thier situations, hence slave/bottom/property/'it' and so on as well as top/master/owner/dom and so on so please understand am merely trying to get general idea and information on this subject. thank you very much

I'm very much into an ownership dynamic, which means my property is mine to do with as I please. So yeah, I have the right to share her around or have jump off a cliff or in front of a speeding truck.

But *would* I do any of the above? Absolutely NOT - I don't need it just to feel all powerful or whatever.... If you're concerned about being shared, then you make that a hard limit *before* you get involved with someone.

And welcome to the Forums... :)

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