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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/14/2010 6:53:22 AM

wife4sharing

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not sure if did reply right as never responded to a specific person before- anyways in response to xxblushesxx , i have not been shared yet and he has actually said he wouldnt be comfortable allowing use of that area(lets say the one that could lead to pregnancy), however i am not sure if it is 100% due to this issue. i have no doubt about him being the father of course, and wouldnt ever want take the chance of becoming pregnant by anyone else (and he would Never desire this either) But yes, as you mentioned about protection, use of other area would require protection as well and he is far from reckless in the safety and health concerns area/s. not to be off topic at all, but had to respond to your question :) i just didnt want to get into specifics when i posted, as i was more looking for others' take on being shared in general.
and thanks for the congrats we are both Verrrry excited and can't wait for her to get here :D

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/14/2010 6:59:58 AM

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Awesome!

Please keep in mind that any area that is shared sexually can give and/or receive an std. Some of those std's can be transferred from one type of area to another. Such as, if you suck a herpe's infected cock, you could get it in your mouth. That mouth could someday spread it to your master's cock, and then to your other "areas".

The only way to do this at all safely is for everyone to be tested. Even that isn't 100 percent but it's a heck of a lot better.

Sorry for hi-jacking your thread.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/16/2010 10:47:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: wife4sharing

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
does this make you feel closer to her that she is obedient enough to fulfill something like serving another male dominant? or do you think less of her because she did it, meaning if you owned her and you told her to do it and she did so, would you view her differently?(yes even though you ordered her to do so) also if you are married and are speaking of your slave wife, does this make you think she would ever cheat on you/serve another dom/master without you telling her to do so?
** i do know many here use different words for thier situations, hence slave/bottom/property/'it' and so on as well as top/master/owner/dom and so on so please understand am merely trying to get general idea and information on this subject. thank you very much

I'm a slave married to master. First rule is my vagina and anus are his alone. His view and mine. But I have had other parts of my body shared and only to one longterm close friend of his. It was a mutual decision, actually mine for his friend who was in a rough patch. but I have spent time with him on subsequent visits.

The rules are simple, we have dinner, after dinner I clean up, they retire to lounge or spa, when finished I join. Depending on location what I wear, but obviously sexy easily removed and underneath one heavy stainless steel CB to protect my lower orifices. I am to give pleasure, not receive (well not the good stuff). When master is ready he goes to bed and that's my cue. Once neither was ready and we decided to go out and I dressed as his slutty GF.

When finished I shower and join master and wake him up and usually he releases my cage and I get to be pleasured.

I am currently happy with this arrangement and assume master is as if he said no it would stop. The CB is my hard limit.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/16/2010 10:57:21 AM

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I feel that your Master is pleased that you obey his commands and give another Dom pleasure if instructed to do so. It also makes him feel good and look good to others , that he has that control over you. It is probably part of his fantasy to see his wife with another man. Master Kevin

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/17/2010 4:12:10 AM

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As an owner of property I wat and keep only the best of that property. My slave is very use to following my every comand and desire. I think some of the post above have merit. Desase is a very real consideration. My slave is care for and taken car of just as I do my car or any other property. I would consider sex with another dominate but I would take care to insure my porperty was still as i wish her to be after the event.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/17/2010 1:47:11 PM

HisLadyAlways67

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Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE? Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY? If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want. I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works. If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend. Why do women have to try to romantify everything? Let ME make this real clear for you okay. I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you. I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.

Whaaa??!!! WoW That is very angry...and unusual...and not quite the way it works....

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/20/2010 1:57:49 AM

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quote:

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?
does this make you feel closer to her that she is obedient enough to fulfill something like serving another male dominant? or do you think less of her because she did it, meaning if you owned her and you told her to do it and she did so, would you view her differently?(yes even though you ordered her to do so) also if you are married and are speaking of your slave wife, does this make you think she would ever cheat on you/serve another dom/master without you telling her to do so?

say your post on the forums, and while I have no personal experience with it (I'm a bit greedy that way) I have given the matter some thought.

First off the why's:

Let's face it we live in a predominantly monogamous culture and that affects us deeply, so it's a big taboo, so that can be a a factor all on its own. Some people find it hot to break taboos.

Second there is the obedience factor. This plays off the predominantly monogamous culture, ordering you to break the taboo, and thereby testing the limits of your obedience.

Then there is the property dynamic. His choosing your partner for what we generally consider the most intimate and private of acts can be very effective at reinforcing the idea that your body, even at it's most private, is no longer yours to control but his.

All of these can play well in the right relationship.

Now to risks.
Sometimes when fantasy and reality collide, reality sucks. He might be thrilled by what happened, or he might find himself really bothered, think les of you or be fearful of a loss of commitment to your relationship. You might be thrilled at having done something difficult for you to please him, or you might be crushed and feel used (not in a good way). These are just a couple of possible negative reactions.

Sharing is pretty much a mind game, and like all mind games, the risks are a lot less clear than we think they are. Often we think we know ourselves well, only to be surprised by reactions we did not think we would have to a situation.

If thing go badly wrong, the two of you may have a lot of relationship work to do just to get back to where you were before.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 6/20/2010 5:01:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterGoad88

Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE? Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY? If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want. I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works. If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend. Why do women have to try to romantify everything? Let ME make this real clear for you okay. I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you. I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.

As a sidenote to this discussion,
After reading the post of this "Dom", I decided to have a look for myself, and found I was appauled at what I saw. Please do not think I go around trolling guys like this, because I don't, however, I feel on this occasion a reality check was in order before someone got severely hurt (I know a lot of subs are smart, however those new to the scene who are desparate to find a Dom may jump in with this kind of "Dom" and get very hurt.).

So, I neither know, nor care if MasterGoad88 has had messages like this before, however, I sent him this;

quote:

To be honest,
Guys who try and assert their masculinity this much are probably compensating for something. However this is not the point in hand. The fact that you use THAT many caps; it's not emphasis, it's like you're jacked up on something or have severe anger issues.

Further more, you call yourself a Proud American, then shun a mass of the populous with you biggotry. The women who do look at your profile, probably see it and mark it down as an example of a bad Dom, the guys who look at it may be gay, however, I looked at it and laughed.

Most intelligent subs/slaves/bottoms/pets (you see where I'm going here?) know that "Doms" like you are control freaks who just want to make people suffer ecuase of their inadequecies.

If you ever do find a slave, I suspect she would not stay with you long when she realises this. A slave submits willingly to a Master who they respect and trust. Yes you may treat them like property, however it is still a relationship with people's feeling involved. If you feel closer to a car then you do to someone you're in a relationship with, then there's something seriously wrong, and given the chance, I would advise your partner of this followed by advice to leave because she could evidently do better.

In summary, you're an emotionaly stunted angry biggot who probably beats women when he's had one too many with a severe dellusion of self importance.