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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/13/2010 9:37:21 AM

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I own 97 acres more or less, when I walk all over my property, or piss on it, I feel a sense of pride, I miss it when I am away from it, and I guess I can't see how you wouldn't want to be close to your property, especially if it comes equipped with ass, gash, and mouth, right out of the box as it were.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/13/2010 9:41:38 AM

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Now there speaks a wise man. Well said sir.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/13/2010 9:43:07 AM

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thank you, IB.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/13/2010 11:58:56 AM

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Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE? Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY? If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want. I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works. If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend. Why do women have to try to romantify everything? Let ME make this real clear for you okay. I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you. I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.

Everybody is diferent.You can have a Master and be in love and He can loves u not only like his property, like a human been. I always wanted all in this life and a real Master knows how to put u down but knows too how to rebuild your confidence. and a real Master help u to love yourself and gives u strenght to face anything in life...

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/13/2010 6:41:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterGoad88

Feel CLOSE to a SLAVE? Why on GOD'S green earth woudl I feel close to my PROPERTY? If I choose to share MY slave it is becauase she is MY property to DO WITH as I want. I feel CLOSER to my car than I hyave to any slavething.

I think you don't understand how SLAVERY works. If you want a sisffied little pissant to feel close to you than go find a boyfriend. Why do women have to try to romantify everything? Let ME make this real clear for you okay. I am NOT a white knight on a whiet horse come to save you. I am a DRAGON come to eat you up.

You make me laugh. Really. Romantify? Did you make that word up? Dear god. Pitiful..I don't want a "whiet" horse either. Get spellcheck junior.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/14/2010 2:15:30 PM

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White horses are too difficult to keep clean when they roll in their stalls. Black hides the stains better.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/14/2010 7:45:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

White horses are too difficult to keep clean when they roll in their stalls. Black hides the stains better.

. Something tells me he has a lot of stains, ewww. ;)

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/21/2010 1:38:28 PM

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There seems to be a lot of emphasis on sharing being a bad thing here.
I can only guess it has to do with the different points of view regarding what does and does not constitue a "slave".
Whether or not you agree with their mindset, there are some who believe very literally that once they give over control, they do so completely.

And too, dont you have to factor in being shared as a test of precisely how deep a slave's committment is to her chosen position?

Knocking a slave for committing to this level is as wrong as knocking others for NOT taking it to this level.
As is knocking someone for asking why the hell would they "feel" anything about their "property" dont you think?
It takes all kinds, right?

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/21/2010 1:58:57 PM

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My partner is pleased when I obey. Period. If he gave an order and it affected him in a negative way after the fact, that's his problem and it would not affect the way he viewed me. He would be pleased that I did as told without question. As close to hesitation as I would get would be asking if he was sure, especially if it did seem out of turn for what I know of him. If he confirmed that is what he wanted, then so be it. What kind of dominant person is going to look down on their submissive other half for obeying THEIR OWN order? Maybe the person might have some shame in themselves for asking it or even regret doing so. That is to be expected if one has made a mistake. To put those negative reactions (which neither of you necessarily expected) upon someone else for complying is just cowardly and weak. Just my opinion.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/21/2010 4:44:18 PM

DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: DaddyPlay

And too, dont you have to factor in being shared as a test of precisely how deep a slave's committment is to her chosen position?

I know very few people who commit to a position, they commit to a person instead.
Again, this can, and frequently is the reason why slaves leave. He's going to be a very silly owner ordering thin air to refill his drink if he does something she can't live with.

It is not generally considered appropriate to break your toys. And this is one of those things that does break them. Better to find out ahead. In fact it would have been much more honest to have told her before the commitment that you would do this. So as to find someone compatible instead of lying by omission.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/21/2010 6:09:33 PM

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Hello? *smiles as she enters and sighs feeling much MUCH MUCH more at home here....* I WOULD discribe what I'm wearing and what I look like, but it's really not a necessity. *winks* Lets just say that if you're on here in these forums and you've ever been to the new video chat room, chances are you've seen me on cam once or twice. ;) You know, I'm the decent one that look good and has short curly back hair with beautiful hazle green eyes and... Oh... Sorry. *grins wickedly* I went into to much detail! *winks in a coy manner* heh.... .... .... ;) Okay, so moving on, I read everyone's posts here and they were phenominal. :D You're all wonderful people and I love you all tremendously. Holly, I know you!!! I remember! ;) I used to post here a long time ago and then got on one of the really amazing threads you were on and we hit it off!

See, (and here's a little back ground history about me. ;) ... For your entertainment. heh. ;) (Totally an Adam Lambert reference there. :D XD *SQUEES cutely!!!*) I started out in this life style as a submissive. I've been to Lord Colms web site called Castle Realm WAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYY back in the day when you could still go there. And when I entered Jabde Colms sectoion called, "sub space", I FLIPPED OUT!!! I was SO ecited that someone else on the face of the planet felt the same way that I do. And see, I had to learn how to write a journal and keep all my thoughts because my lifes' always been very difficulut. Emotionally, mentally, and other things besides. *sighs* .................... But I digress.... So I even keep a journal like she does. And believe you me, when you're going through a rough time, that journal is your saving grace! LOL You can write ANYTHING you want to in it and NO ONE can take that from you! Like right now, I have certain... *ahem* living conditions that prevent me from having total privacy. And the person that I live with is a bitch. Not just sometimes, not just part of the time, not even just ocassionally. EVERY DAMNED day she comes home from work doing less than I do in a day, and then bitches about how the dishes aren't done when she gets home ect. But yet she takes advantage of my natural submission. Non only because she reads my body language and my total and undevided ability to please anyone no matter what the situation calls for, but also because she litterally THINKS that it's HER fucking house to do with what she pleases, and because of that, she has the right to treat me like shit. I DON'T THINK SO! But that's a different story....

Getting back on point, the jist of the matter is this; I am a natural submissive, BUT! I am every other aspect, or representation of this lifestlye too. I've recently learned, and very quickly might I add, how to stand up for myself even at work, at home, or with anyone, female or male. So, using rational deduction, that would tell you that I'm also naturally Dominate and that, given that, I would also be naturally a Switch! ;) See where I'm going with this? *grins*

So yeah, I've ran the full gambit of every aspect of this lifestyle. And I now belong to a natually Dominate switch male. And we're getting married soon and children will be on the way. *beams* *a tear comes to her eye and rolls down her soft and silken procilen cheek* Ah... Sweet realease... I've always wanted to be a mother, but I've never thought that I would. The first reason was because my father was very emotionally, physically, and mentally abusive when I was a child. It was the worst case sinario in every situation that you've heard of on CIS, Law and Order shows, COPs, ect. I've been though it all. Plus I just got over Melenoma Cancer, Clark Lv. 4, so I've already had my brush with death. *smiles* I have no fear now. And the benifit to my experince over the last 8 1/2 years, is that I run the full course of kinks as well. I'm a sick twisted ... well, you get the idea. Every thing, even medical play, facinates me. And if I could stick someone with a needle.... *grins* I'd be an RN right now. heheh ;) But I can't. And if I see to much of my own blood, I get queezy. Anyways... So yeah. That's MY expereince with this lifestyle.

And as you can tell, over those last few years, I've been come very calm and submissive and docile. I can already have the best of both worlds... So why would I want to fuck that up???

*smiles*

I love you all and can't wait to get to know each and every one of you. ;) Except for dick head that is. :D

Bright blesssings,

Lady

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/21/2010 6:17:51 PM

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/22/2010 12:21:44 PM

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thanks to all who responded with insight/opinions ( to 'lady' i have no idea what your post is about...) anyways thanks everyone and lovingpet i suppose that is way i view things as well thanks :)

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/22/2010 12:27:31 PM

DesFIP

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

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My partner is pleased when I obey. Period. If he gave an order and it affected him in a negative way after the fact, that's his problem and it would not affect the way he viewed me. He would be pleased that I did as told without question. As close to hesitation as I would get would be asking if he was sure, especially if it did seem out of turn for what I know of him. If he confirmed that is what he wanted, then so be it. What kind of dominant person is going to look down on their submissive other half for obeying THEIR OWN order? Maybe the person might have some shame in themselves for asking it or even regret doing so. That is to be expected if one has made a mistake. To put those negative reactions (which neither of you necessarily expected) upon someone else for complying is just cowardly and weak. Just my opinion.

lovingpet

No disagreement except it does happen. Men have been known to become upset when she announces his best friend is so fabulous in bed, and gave her two dozen orgasms when his best was four.

The fact that it shows him up to be an ass doesn't change the fact. Just makes it worse.

Unfortunately, humans aren't logic based creatures, we are many times driven by our emotions. So if this hits a hidden emotional trigger in him, it could still cause problems.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/22/2010 5:03:48 PM

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You sound like some one who crowned himself "master" and is a legend in his own mind.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/24/2010 6:08:13 PM

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My master is willing to share me, but I am not willing to share myself. I feel like if a master is willing to share his slave, he doesn't treasure her. Lots of fights on this one, but in the end, he agrees he won't share me.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/24/2010 7:35:12 PM

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In some cases forsaken. you may well be correct. However, and I do realise you are stating your opinion, your comment is a global one and can not cover every M/s relationship. There are those slaves who love being shared. There are also in some cases a good reason for sharing (judiciously mind you), to help keep a relationship strong. If you tread my post on this thread you will see precisely I share a slave girl with an elite group of men who I trust to treat my property with care and who understand that NO means no. As one girl commented to me, she loves being not only a slut but a whore for me. She came from a swinging marriage and enjoyed the variety of sexual encounters. I understood this because my second wife and I used to swing and we had the attitude it was just sex and nothing to do with love. It worked for us as it does for a number of couples I know very well. My point being,

quote:

I feel like if a master is willing to share his slave, he doesn't treasure her.

This is not always the case thus you are incorrect in believing your statement to be true no matter how true it is for you.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/25/2010 10:54:31 AM

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Long-term swinger couples exist, and there are certain dynamics that work for them, but its not for everyone. Adding master/slave may alter that a little bit, but I think its a good place to start when looking at those dynamics & implications. Spend a few nights at a fetish friendly swinger club if you want to see a broad range of those dynamics, good and bad ...

ETA - the clubs aren't the only dynamic, but it is a drink from the fire hose

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/25/2010 2:42:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: wife4sharing

have a question for those who do share their slaves i wanted to get opinions on how you feel about this as far as way you see her?

I have been shared. He sees me as a REALLY good friend. He has the utmost respect for me and appreciates everything I do for him.

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ORIGINAL: wife4sharing

does this make you feel closer to her that she is obedient enough to fulfill something like serving another male dominant? or do you think less of her because she did it, meaning if you owned her and you told her to do it and she did so, would you view her differently?(yes even though you ordered her to do so)

Though he is not normally very affectionate and cuddly, he took care to make sure I felt his approval during and afterwards with both words and actions.

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ORIGINAL: wife4sharing

also if you are married and are speaking of your slave wife, does this make you think she would ever cheat on you/serve another dom/master without you telling her to do so?

We're not married nor do we live together. He's not monogamous, but I've always been until now. I'm free to fuck whomever I choose since he won't impose something on me that he won't agree to himself. He doesn't associate sex with intimacy.

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RE: asking Male Masters who 'share' their slave(s) - 5/25/2010 6:34:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

In some cases forsaken. you may well be correct. However, and I do realise you are stating your opinion, your comment is a global one and can not cover every M/s relationship. There are those slaves who love being shared. There are also in some cases a good reason for sharing (judiciously mind you), to help keep a relationship strong. If you tread my post on this thread you will see precisely I share a slave girl with an elite group of men who I trust to treat my property with care and who understand that NO means no. As one girl commented to me, she loves being not only a slut but a whore for me. She came from a swinging marriage and enjoyed the variety of sexual encounters. I understood this because my second wife and I used to swing and we had the attitude it was just sex and nothing to do with love. It worked for us as it does for a number of couples I know very well. My point being,

I believe in mutual agreement in any sort of relationship, so I'm not saying it's not possible for swinging couples to be truly in love, as long as it's mutual agreement. I probably wasn't clear though, I meant if your master insist on sharing you despite you not wanting to be shared, and the master expects total obedience to include anyone and anybody he chooses to play with your body, I have met doms like that, and it annoys me, seems tantamount to real rape. My master's previous slave was shared very often and allowed to be used by others often, but that's because his previous slave enjoyed it.

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