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VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:50:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheHeretic Hmmm. Something to look forward to with my Friday morning coffee. [:)] You know all that bad karma you've built up? I'm it. There are times I really need to steal your sig line.[;)]

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:50:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha You have mail, submissive, since you seem to want to communicate with Me so much, and it is addressed to YOU, since you seem to want to bring it on these boards. If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. If so, all bets are off on strikes for this, if that is what you want. 3 things: 1) i edited by above post, so please review and approve it. 2) of course i want to communicate with you. i think a lack of communication is the source of any problems that we had. i assumed based on my experience on other boards that moderation was reserved for worst case scenarios. i also assumed that i would be warned when i came close to having problematic conduct. if i would have known you had problems with me, i would definitely have found a way to make it right. 3) im not sure what you mean exactly, but of course i want a true picture. i know there were a handful of people i offended early on inadvertantly, but for the most part i feel like i contributed in the way of new threads and interesting discussions. sorry tried to quote and hit edit but guarantee i didnt change a word.-Alpha

CalifChick -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:51:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. edit: that means that ANYONE, modded or not, will be free to tell you. I would think about this carefully,,,,,,[sm=modxiiswatching.gif] It is wrong, morally wrong, ethically wrong, wrong in a schadenfreude sort of way, that I keep hitting the F5 key to refresh to see what is going to happen next?? Cali

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:57:04 PM)
What would be even worse was when a moderator was hitting the little arrows making the circle in their browser to refresh because they didnt know about F5[sm=ofcourse.gif]

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:59:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha You have mail, submissive, since you seem to want to communicate with Me so much, and it is addressed to YOU, since you seem to want to bring it on these boards. If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. If so, all bets are off on strikes for this, if that is what you want. 3 things: 1) i edited by above post, so please review and approve it. 2) of course i want to communicate with you. i think a lack of communication is the source of any problems that we had. i assumed based on my experience on other boards that moderation was reserved for worst case scenarios. i also assumed that i would be warned when i came close to having problematic conduct. if i would have known you had problems with me, i would definitely have found a way to make it right. 3) im not sure what you mean exactly, but of course i want a true picture. i know there were a handful of people i offended early on inadvertantly, but for the most part i feel like i contributed in the way of new threads and interesting discussions. sorry tried to quote and hit edit but guarantee i didnt change a word.-Alpha How about instead of editting this post 3 times, yhou just add on to what you said, instead of removing your insightful comments?

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 10:59:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. edit: that means that ANYONE, modded or not, will be free to tell you. I would think about this carefully,,,,,,[sm=modxiiswatching.gif] honestly, i truly think most people here like me. as i said, i made a lot of mistakes and lacked tact upon arriving, but for the most part i have rehabilitated myself and made a lot of friends. i would have no desire to post on a board where i didn't feel that i was welcomed. if more than half the board wished me gone, i would invite you to permanently ban me (but only if you were willing to unblock me in the converse)

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:03:42 PM)
Oh i guarantee for this thread you will be approved IMMEDIATELY as will everyone else if I have to stay up all night and do it Myself, just so you get the true picture..... goes and makes coffee

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:04:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha You have mail, submissive, since you seem to want to communicate with Me so much, and it is addressed to YOU, since you seem to want to bring it on these boards. If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. If so, all bets are off on strikes for this, if that is what you want. 3 things: 1) i edited by above post, so please review and approve it. 2) of course i want to communicate with you. i think a lack of communication is the source of any problems that we had. i assumed based on my experience on other boards that moderation was reserved for worst case scenarios. i also assumed that i would be warned when i came close to having problematic conduct. if i would have known you had problems with me, i would definitely have found a way to make it right. 3) im not sure what you mean exactly, but of course i want a true picture. i know there were a handful of people i offended early on inadvertantly, but for the most part i feel like i contributed in the way of new threads and interesting discussions. sorry tried to quote and hit edit but guarantee i didnt change a word.-Alpha How about instead of editting this post 3 times, yhou just add on to what you said, instead of removing your insightful comments? ok, i can do that. the reason i edited is because we have had communication issues in the past, and i just wanted to make sure i had my words calibrated in a way that my true intent was going to be understood. i want to post here, i want to contribute, and i want to make nice with everyone. at the same time, i know this is collarme.com, but dont expect me to live on my knees. it is a discussion board for adults... i was never threatening or personal with anyone. at worst, i was annoying to some who i felt warranted it. i know the mistakes that i made, and i really dont intend to make them again.

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:05:38 PM)
submissivemale22, I genuinely think you eventually went looking for fights. Some of your views were agressive and that is fine but they tended to be indicitive of taunting.... It just always looked like you were asking for a fight. Just my nickle. QSM

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:08:22 PM)
quote: the reason i edited is because we have had communication issues in the past, and i just wanted to make sure i had my words calibrated in a way that my true intent was going to be understood. i want to post here, i want to contribute, and i want to make nice with everyone. THIS, you do this BEFORE you hit the OK Button. Saves you a LOT of work and Misunderstanding.

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:09:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha Oh i guarantee for this thread you will be approved IMMEDIATELY as will everyone else if I have to stay up all night and do it Myself, just so you get the true picture..... goes and makes coffee im glad to hear that, because i still have a majority of posts that i 'made' during my last moderation period pending. and im not even mad about it, but i did go to some effort on some of them. all i want is what everyone else on this forum has: a chance to voice their opinion and collect information.

BentUnit -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:10:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha If you would like, I can let everyone respond to you freely with their thoughts about you and your posts?If you want a true picture after all. edit: that means that ANYONE, modded or not, will be free to tell you. I would think about this carefully,,,,,,[sm=modxiiswatching.gif] honestly, i truly think most people here like me. as i said, i made a lot of mistakes and lacked tact upon arriving, but for the most part i have rehabilitated myself and made a lot of friends. i would have no desire to post on a board where i didn't feel that i was welcomed. if more than half the board wished me gone, i would invite you to permanently ban me (but only if you were willing to unblock me in the converse) What a load of pure unmitigated drivel! You were placed in <awaiting approval> hell and even though the other posters couldn't read a bloody word of what you wrote you still felt a need to interject in the thread. Honestly even S.Not wasn't that stupid or that ignorant or was it pure arrogance that made you continue to contribute in spite of it.

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:13:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan submissivemale22, I genuinely think you eventually went looking for fights. Some of your views were agressive and that is fine but they tended to be indicitive of taunting.... It just always looked like you were asking for a fight. Just my nickle. QSM i appreciate you chiming in, but i have to ask what specifically are you talking about here? The only time that i was aggressive (after being moderated) was when people other than the designated target would respond to my threads and thus derail them. i had some personal questions that i was very interested in learning about, and i saw outside opinion as a potential source of detraction from the continuity. and that might have been inappropriate at times on my part... but i thought that that was the intended system here at collarme. why else would we have forums sub-categorized by orientation?

WyldHrt -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:17:28 PM)
quote: honestly, i truly think most people here like me. You are VERY wrong about that. quote: as i said, i made a lot of mistakes and lacked tact upon arriving, but for the most part i have rehabilitated myself and made a lot of friends. No, you have been the same passive aggressive little twatwaffle you always were. Little hint- STOP TRYING TO TELL PEOPLE WHERE AND WHAT THEY CAN OR CANNOT POST! Seriously dude, it's obvious to anyone who isn't you that you have a fucking agenda that says "Male Doms are abusive bastards, men should NOT hit women!!!!" Well fuck you, because some of us ENJOY that kind of thing! Get over it already! quote: i would have no desire to post on a board where i didn't feel that i was welcomed. if more than half the board wished me gone, i would invite you to permanently ban me (but only if you were willing to unblock me in the converse) bad idea, dude.... seriously.

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:21:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan submissivemale22, I genuinely think you eventually went looking for fights. Some of your views were agressive and that is fine but they tended to be indicitive of taunting.... It just always looked like you were asking for a fight. Just my nickle. QSM i appreciate you chiming in, but i have to ask what specifically are you talking about here? The only time that i was aggressive (after being moderated) was when people other than the designated target would respond to my threads and thus derail them. i had some personal questions that i was very interested in learning about, and i saw outside opinion as a potential source of detraction from the continuity. and that might have been inappropriate at times on my part... but i thought that that was the intended system here at collarme. why else would we have forums sub-categorized by orientation? This is two different things. Personally I thought the question you asked about people with Kids was a good one, That being said you didn't ask MY demographic either, I posted because I had an opinion on the question... That is Allowed here, No one is RESTRICTED from posting anywhere, as long as what they post addresses the Main point or continues on the topic at hand. De-railing happens it is unavoidable, but to say I only want the opinions of female subs with masters under a certain age is not something you are ever going to get. I refer specifically to your comments in the Sumission and Feminism thread, mostly toward Plasticine... I really think you were trying to make him angry so you could argue his point and call him names... The Point I am trying to make to you is do you really think there was nothing wrong with your posts before moderation? Do you think honestly that what you say and how you say it is said with the idea of discussion in mind? Because if you cannot see where you rub people the wrong way to the degree that they complain about your posting then I don't see any need for contined discussion on this because you don't see that anything is wrong in the first place. QSM

BentUnit -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:22:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: honestly, i truly think most people here like me. You are VERY wrong about that. quote: as i said, i made a lot of mistakes and lacked tact upon arriving, but for the most part i have rehabilitated myself and made a lot of friends. No, you have been the same passive aggressive little twatwaffle you always were. Little hint- STOP TRYING TO TELL PEOPLE WHERE AND WHAT THEY CAN OR CANNOT POST! Seriously dude, it's obvious to anyone who isn't you that you have a fucking agenda that says "Male Doms are abusive bastards, men should NOT hit women!!!!" Well fuck you, because some of us ENJOY that kind of thing! Get over it already! quote: i would have no desire to post on a board where i didn't feel that i was welcomed. if more than half the board wished me gone, i would invite you to permanently ban me (but only if you were willing to unblock me in the converse) bad idea, dude.... seriously. Quoted as Truth.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:27:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 the original poster (ladypact) implied that my desire here is to disrupt- that is absurd. my desire here is the same as the majority of people: to contribute to a dialogue and extract information. the stuff discussed here is very relevant to my life, and is the only place that i can really get this kind of interaction. because of this, being banned 2 months on a technicality is all the more frustrating. i know if given that chance i could fit in very well. It wasn't a technicality, unless you consider repeated and apparently deliberate trolling to be a technicality. It's possible that you don't actually have a desire to be disruptive on purpose, in which case I strongly recommend you work harder on your social and perceptual skills. Whether you wish to be or not, you definitely have been, and it was a consistent enough pattern of behavior that moderated status was the only reasonable choice, IMO. If you want to participate in a community, you will need to learn a bit more about how to interact peaceably with that community. What you were doing was, unfortunately, not very socially successful. And it definitely was disruptive.

CalifChick -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:28:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: honestly, i truly think most people here like me. You are VERY wrong about that. Is anyone tallying how many of us agree with WyldHrt? quote: as i said, i made a lot of mistakes and lacked tact upon arriving, but for the most part i have rehabilitated myself If by "rehabilitate myself" you mean, continue to post personal attacks to huge numbers of users and continue to push a "dominant men and sadists are abusers" agenda, then yeah. quote: and made a lot of friends. Name three. Hell, name ONE. Cali

submissivemale22 -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:32:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt No, you have been the same passive aggressive little twatwaffle you always were. Little hint- STOP TRYING TO TELL PEOPLE WHERE AND WHAT THEY CAN OR CANNOT POST! Seriously dude, it's obvious to anyone who isn't you that you have a fucking agenda that says "Male Doms are abusive bastards, men should NOT hit women!!!!" Well fuck you, because some of us ENJOY that kind of thing! Get over it already! i appreciate you sharing that perspective, but im sorry you have that conclusion. as far as telling people not to post in the threads ive started, i apologize to anyone who was offended by that. generally speaking i love a diversity in opinion... in those specific threads though i had intentionally narrowly tailored my questions to my intended audience, so i was a little frustrated by outside participation. but as i have since learned that is apparently the custom on this board and i can accept that. as far as the male doms thing... im honestly at peace with all of that stuff. i had my motivations for posting what i did, but even now i can readily admit that there were some flaws in not only my approach, but also my feelings. i never posted about that after being moderated, and if unmoderated i never intend to again.

Rule -> RE: How Many Strikes? (7/8/2010 11:34:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage Well, I didn't think it was too much to ask, this person continually talks about me in posts and rarely addresses me personally. And when they do, they take a very condescending tone and I don't appreciate it. I didn't run to mods about it, I just up and decided to say something to the person for once and I guess they couldn't handle it. There is a Hide button for precisely such cases.

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