DomYngBlk
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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia Aynne88, the only time I hear the "N" word is...from black people...and in rap music...usually blared from cars while someone is cleaning them or gossiping with a neighbor, and wants to share the music with the whole neighborhood for 1-3 hours. I've lived in California, Florida, Texas, West Virginia, Ohio, Washington, and Wyoming. My friends and I, or even acquaintences, do not drive by in cars and sling that word around. I also do not call my "white" friends honkeys or whitey (I leave that to my step brothers, who are all black), and I have never called a hispanic a spick or an Italian a dago or whatever. We have better things to do. quote:
Lastly, as a feminist and a liberal white woman, let me tell ya, I wouldn't want to trade places in the discrimination challenge with any brown skinned male anytime soon. I am not stupid, I see the carte blanche my caucasian-ness gets me. I don't see how any white person can say without being intellectually dishonest that they face any amount of racism in comparison. I'm a "white person" though I prefer to be called caucasian, and yes, I have been in the position of being a MINORITY many times. I lived in Van Nuys, California where hispanics were the majority in my neighborhood and in all the stores in any given direction. I also spent a year in Dayton, Ohio, where I was definitely a member of a teeny minority where "blacks" were the hands down majority. Roots played, so my little gradeschool ass got kicked to get even for all the oppression of the people and to pay back the damage done to Kunta Kinte. Please do not presume to call anyone "intellectually dishonest" who has faced racism and chose to...be gracious and turn the other cheek. You have your experiences, and I have mine. I feel sorry for anyone who has to deal with racism...but there's a time to realize something about enemies when one grows up. The old adage of...being careful not to become just like them. Someone treating me in a prejudiced manner will not force me to become just like them and act like turnabout is fair play. I will be so kind to them that they feel like the jackass that they are...isn't this something like MLK and Ghandi talked about? And all that has what to do with me being called black or african american?
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