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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 9:49:24 AM

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What was the question?

It was about "dirty laundry"

Speaking of which, I once heard that you can get red wine stains out with white wine

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 9:52:37 AM

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Oxi-clean tends to work pretty well for me and doesn't seem as risky as using wine...club soda works too.

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 9:55:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I have to tell you that I am very much seeing porcelaine's view on this right now. This is very much different than I felt on the subject when I encouraged clip to join this site just under three years ago. At the current time, I'd probably approach things in a much different way. For something to be a resource, a person has to weigh the value of quality that it presents. Very much like the example that you stated. If someone comes to a forum such as this for advice on such a situation, but all they get are ideas on what other people think they would do, rather than those who have had to actually come to that decision of what they really did when they were faced with that situation, you'll get a quantity of opinion, rather than a quality of experience.

Exactly. Always consider the source.

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Where I will say your anology is good, especially tied in with the original, is that in some cases when the turmoil is just rampent on the boards is the 'best thinking got it here' anology. Piss poor methods, lack of education, and void of knowledge are the root causes for the troubles in some areas where the dirty laundry gets aired to begin with. Go to another thread and the same prescription for failure is being given by the same person as advice to somebody who comes here with a different problem. I'm not trying to be a shit here. At the same time, maybe, just maybe, if you (general you) are sitting in the position where your life is such a mess that your dysfunctional dynamic is all over the boards, unless you know that someone else's current problem is an area where you've had success, you might want to not pass along what didn't work.

As my father said, "Self got you in, self has to get you out."

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There are still some valuable resources here on these boards, but they really have become fewer. Any person coming here now with a situation that is difficult for them to handle really needs to find a way to form an opinion on how to proceed. Not all advice is coming from good sources and I think folks should keep that in mind.

Well stated. Thank you for weighing in.

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 9:56:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Oxi-clean tends to work pretty well for me and doesn't seem as risky as using wine...club soda works too.

Nature's Miracle! My last dom was a notorious wine slob. He spilled the stuff everywhere. Me, being the service oriented sub I am, used nature's miracle to get it out.... very effective

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 9:59:28 AM

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Nature's Miracle, the pet stain stuff?

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 10:00:48 AM

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Nature's Miracle, the pet stain stuff?

Yes, it works on chocolate too. I have not found it helpful for coffee, though

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 10:04:42 AM

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the pet stain stuff?

"pet stain".... that's so cute how polite it is....

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/28/2010 2:48:27 PM

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I dont really mix this site with other people I know. So that way there is some space-

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 1:15:09 AM

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the pet stain stuff?

"pet stain".... that's so cute how polite it is....

(blushing a little) Thanks, BoiJen!

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 6:50:35 AM

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Let me channel Ron or DG to fully express how I feel.

I would beat the fuck out of any twat that dared air my personal business on here.

However, I find it sadistically delightful to read when others do. I have zero respect for the parties involved, but it brightens my day none the less.

Damn LaT, you remind me of me!

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 6:59:21 AM

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OK... what if the OP posted something truely horrible like..... he dude was drinking beer through a straw?

Are we supposed to just ignore that? What other advice is there except "LEAVE HIM NOW!"

sheeesh....i am surprised you didn't say that to Jim when i poured his beer down the drain (hey...i thought he was done with it!)

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 7:00:27 AM

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so thats why you ended up at the bottom of the stairs, I knew there was more to it.

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 7:11:27 AM

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so thats why you ended up at the bottom of the stairs, I knew there was more to it.

It's just beer, fella's

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RE: Publicly airing your dirty laundry - 7/30/2010 7:16:18 AM

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I mean the ones that actually say my guy cannot get it up, or air every relationship issue in detail, especially when only one party is present for and consents to that disclosure.

I am much too private a person to discuss problems in my relationship with anyone other than a few close friends. And if i ever did bring an issue to the boards, it would be a serious breach of trust between Jim and myself.

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