Kindandcruel
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This is always an interesting thread... it is true that one so young (25 or even 27) has not really had much time around to get a more in-depth understanding of life itself let alone the underlying currents of being a slave. No disrespect intended, but the vast majority of people are a summation of their social and cultural programming regardless of the path they ultimately take. This does reference that the religious right are just as socially programmed as the extreme liberal left.
I don't speak of this lightly or just as an opinion, I speak of it from studying social programming and behavioral psychology for 30 years. This is not just reading books but from living in a multitude of countries for extended lengths of time (more than a year each).
Most that believe they are a slave in reality are playing a reality fantasy of being a slave. It is play that they enjoy and have fun at (there is nothing wrong with that either). The vast majority of women that advertise as being slaves are enamored about the fantasy from reading books or just their imagination itself that is so tillitating. Something that they see as a sexual adventure for their own selfish play. There is no question that today’s culture and society teach women that there is a high price for that hole between their legs... they are taught that it can command men to do things they normally wouldn't and that they can make great material gains id they use that hole properly... but if a woman just uses it just for fun and gives it away, she is then labeled a slut by other women that demand a price for theirs.
The one thing about being a submissive or a slave is that psychologically you have to actually give that up. In addition, you give up control of your self and your life to another person to have total responsibility for you. Ultimately, even though you have the so called final say of leaving, you cannot be a slave if you hold that option close to your heart. Seeing that as an ultimate option within itself takes away the deeper core attribute and psychology of being a slave. I can't say how many newer slaves have dropped out of my house when they realized that I would and did take total control from them... even thought it was their greatest dream or fantasy when faced with the reality they experienced dissociative cognizance and rather than working through the programming patterns they ended up running elsewhere to find a Master they can manipulate. Yet, even after going to multitudes of Masters they would give up and claim their are no so called "real" dominants because they were not willing to break their own myopic and dysfunctional behavior.
In order to be like this as a slave, it is, and can no longer be a game or a fantasy. If you really want the depth and range of being a slave you first have to understand the attitude that is required from within yourself. It can no longer be something that you play with for a while (like a self deluded game) and then drop it, or stay with a master for a few years until you get board or leave. Of course there is a whole lot more to say but this gets across the basic points I hope.
Now, if you are just in it to play, or be used, or whatever with the design that you can always leave... then just be honest with yourself and the Master you are going to be with. In this way you will both have a far greater and more enjoyable experience together.
What is it that I (in my opinion) that makes a consensual slave? That is the overall belief of a person that once committed regardless of what happens good or bad, they are committed. What does being committed mean? Being committed means that they give up all control of their life and being to another person without reservation and without recourse.
How many men are able to handle this kind of commitment? Unfortunately a paltry few. Since the 70's men have been turned into girls, they have been pushed to not exhibit masculine behaviors to the point that they have been put on drugs by the schools to take away their masculinity. Most men today have no clue as to what it is to be a Man. They become abusers, manipulators, they use this avenue to vent their frustration and prey upon women. They have never been shown what honor is, they have not been taught how to be responsible or to stand up for what is right. In fact they haven't even been given any concept of what right and wrong is... this has all been programmed by the public schools that have diminished the genders and dispelled the natural organization of life.
Many will disagree, yet you are only talking from the very programming that I have been speaking about. You will yell and flame and so forth, but is still comes from that same programming. The only saving grace that I can claim on the programming aspect is that while growing up, I moved from country to country every 9 months to a year... I was never long enough in one place to be programmed; but long enough to understand the culture norms. Later in life I traveled specifically to understand these very programming queues that are found in each and every culture. Regardless if it is a religious culture like Iraq or Israel, or something more closer to the earth via the Lakota Sioux, or either that of Nigeria or even South Africa. The programming is there and it is significant. In fact just about everybody will agree about the programming aspect but they cannot see that within themselves as it does cause cognitive dissonance.
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