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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 6:36:38 PM   
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Except LanceHughes, he reminds me of a British TV comedy about the French Resistance during WWII, but I can't remember the name. It had guys with mustaches, costumes and waitresses in a restaurant.


Lance is *nothing* like anyone from 'Allo 'Allo, Twoshoes!  Gawd's sake!

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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 6:45:15 PM   
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<snipped for lack of any real content>

A-hem!!

QFT

However, this thread reminds me of "Loser" by Beck. I hadn't heard that song in years, but it has a very memorable riff (not to mention, it's not 100% PC).

Everything reminds me of a song I've heard.

Except LanceHughes, he reminds me of a British TV comedy about the French Resistance during WWII, but I can't remember the name. It had guys with mustaches, costumes and waitresses in a restaurant.

VERY good thread-kill . . .  Naw, I'd say GREAT thread kill... and only 804 posts to your credit!

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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 6:48:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
Except LanceHughes, he reminds me of a British TV comedy about the French Resistance during WWII, but I can't remember the name. It had guys with mustaches, costumes and waitresses in a restaurant.

Lance is *nothing* like anyone from 'Allo 'Allo, Twoshoes!  Gawd's sake!

Thanks, Peon.  I was going to ask "To whom are you refering?"  But that'd just give this <almost dead> thread a new life........




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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 7:06:02 PM   
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If there's anything true about doms from this site is that they are a defensive lot. While it seems like insecurity, I think in many cases it has to do with pride. As for desperation, I think most people get desperate at some point, whether it's for one afternoon, for a week, or for a couple of years. Sometimes you want something that you can't have, often regardless of what is offered to you.


I'll give you part of this.  I actually am somewhat defensive of some of the stereotyping and propaganda that this particular OP has tried to convince people of in this and prior material.  The reason for this is that, while some males might be slapping the Dominant label on themselves thinking it means easy sex, I think that it isn't by any means the majority.

I can't say if I agree with you or not on your thought about desperation.  My reasoning doesn't work that way.  I don't see the majority of folks on the site as being desperate.  I'm sure there might be some people who really aren't good relationship material, but there's a solution for that in most cases. 


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Good point, this one thread of three pages proves me wrong about a generalization against the whole site. Thank goodness there's a rational mind here to keep me in check.


Yes.  This one thread.  However, it's not the first thread that this particular OP has decided to strike out a crusade against male Dominants and male sadists in particular.  It's been evident through his many posts, something he, himself has admitted to in the past.  Please keep in mind that it is only against males in particular.  This pattern is well known amongst those of us familiar with this OP. 


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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 7:13:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks, knowledgeable British folk (crazyml & Peon). I've been trying to remember the name so I can get reacquainted with some episodes.
They ran the series in Canadia-land ~5 years ago when I was learning French, so it's linked to special memories.

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Lance is *nothing* like anyone from 'Allo 'Allo, Twoshoes!  Gawd's sake!


Costumes! And mustaches! And being hilarious! Oh, all right, he isn't like anyone from that show.

My mind likes to chaotically associate things together.

(For example: 'String' or 'Pasta' theory always reminds me of an OCD person cooking spaghetti; it just keeps getting more and more complicated as we get hungrier and hungrier. )

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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 7:58:18 PM   
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My mind likes to chaotically associate things together.


Ah - I see now why you and VC get on so well.  She likes to do something similar with hairstyles. 

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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 8:35:26 PM   
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I'm gonna burn down the house, close my corporation, gamble away all my money, kick everhope out, tear up my little black book, give myself a silly haircut and put on some unattractive clothing.  Then I'm gonna' eat a bag of Viagra, drink a fifth of scotch and go to the nearest cyber cafe so I can log into CollarMe as a desperate horny Dom . . . just so I can relate to this thread and the people replying to it as if it wasn't a joke.

Please make sure to bring along your web cam.....you know...so we can all better relate.

You just want to watch the house fire I bet?



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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/4/2010 8:42:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the mainstream perception of BDSmers is that we are all horny (granted) and sexually loose (maybe not so much). It's one thing to be sexually open, another to be sexually desperate.

I am sure there are those who slap the label of dom on their forehead looking for easy sex.  Just like I am sure there are people in all culture sub sets who look for the low hanging fruit. Easy pickings are out there.

Those who are interested in quality take a very different approach and it's apparent early on. Which basically means some poeple are desperate for sex, and some not. I think most of these desperate people are male only b/c a reasonably attractive female does not need to be desperate, it's way to easy to just get laid.

I am not sure what any of the above (or the OP's post for that matter) has to do with BDSM. Oh yeah, we're all people.


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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/5/2010 11:39:35 AM   
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(For example: 'String' or 'Pasta' theory always reminds me of an OCD person cooking spaghetti; it just keeps getting more and more complicated as we get hungrier and hungrier. )

The only string theory your liable to be remotely familair with is that of tying your own shoes. I'm not sure by your own admissions your too good at that either.

BTW..Your transparent.


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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/5/2010 11:53:11 AM   
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BTW..Your transparent.


Well, that is true, sadly. I'm gonna go learn to be quiet, I guess.

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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/5/2010 1:03:14 PM   
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BTW..Your transparent.


Well, that is true, sadly. I'm gonna go learn to be quiet, I guess.

I'm sure that will stick.


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RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? - 10/6/2010 4:47:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I'm gonna burn down the house, close my corporation, gamble away all my money, kick everhope out, tear up my little black book, give myself a silly haircut and put on some unattractive clothing.  Then I'm gonna' eat a bag of Viagra, drink a fifth of scotch and go to the nearest cyber cafe so I can log into CollarMe as a desperate horny Dom . . . just so I can relate to this thread and the people replying to it as if it wasn't a joke.

Please make sure to bring along your web cam.....you know...so we can all better relate.

You just want to watch the house fire I bet?




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