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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 2:03:09 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I have dated hispanic and black men (well one Hispanic guy and one Black guy). I liked both of them, but we only dated casually, and this was years ago. As I have gotten older I have dated white men that have similiar cultural background to myself. I do look for people that have a similiar background in regard to religion, parental status (meaning are their parents divorced and whatnot), what part of the country they are from (yes this makes a huge cultural diff and I am thinking I should date only Californians).

I would involve myself with other cultures/ethnicities if I felt strongly pulled in that direction by an individual, but my preference is to try to be with someone closer to my age and background at this point. Love is love no matter where it comes from though.

That aside, I have received emails from so-called "Black Stud Masters" who have claimed it is their right to subjugate all "White sluts" and that we all needed and wanted to be owned by a "Black Master". I have had more than one email with this theme in it from more than one Black man. Now their kink is just as valid as my kink, but I am astonished by the rudeness of it... The idea of race as a form of humiliation on either side isnt my kink I guess...lol

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 2:38:04 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 2:45:35 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		Skin color is completely unimportant to me when considering a sub.  Unless of course they are bright orange from the use of tanning creams or so tanned they look like a leather saddle bag. 
 
Race or ethnicity still completely unimportant.  All that said, I love accents.  My mouse has the most sexy british accent, as well as providing Me with hours of entertainment when she says certain words....

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 3:09:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......



IB, it would not make a difference to me. I wish I had a harem of varied beauties!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 3:38:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have never been approached by a black man, the only ones who approach me are white men...

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 4:00:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

 I love accents.  My mouse has the most sexy british accent, as well as providing Me with hours of entertainment when she says certain words....


Oh yessssss lol. I love accents, especially british ones. A woman with a soft voice, that just sets my kettle to whistling.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 4:14:23 PM   
BreakingGlass


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Status: offline 		What will my eyes wander to first?  White guys...to me, that is exotic.  

But that's just a superficial look...actually, I'm more inclined to notice women more than men, and when it comes to women I really have no preference.  Why?  Who can say.

But everybody looks the same when I close my eyes.  Ultimately it has everything to do with how compatible we are, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 5:49:44 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		That's the first time I've ever heard anything like that.  Why do you prefer Californians?

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

what part of the country they are from (yes this makes a huge cultural diff and I am thinking I should date only Californians).

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:10:47 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Because we are arrogant and think we are superior to everyone else... we are very friendly though (as long as we are not driving). Many of us are free spirits. Also what I noticed is that people from other states tend to dislike us... so I think I am better off with my own kind. I mostly say that because I am not going to move from this state most likely, and I really like it here, so I should date people that feel that way too.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:12:37 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:15:43 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Yes, but  they are not as arrogant nor as conceitedly liberal as I am.,....BTW I am not a liberal, I am a radical... I am radically against war... Liberals are much better than "progressives" (damn I hate that word).... But liberal I ain't... I do hug trees, but that is usually due to the ropes around my wrists holding me there (oh yeah, that is another story...lol)

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:18:52 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		oh don't think it's just white women they say that rude crap to juliaoceania....I am black and I am Domme, and they send me emails saying how dom they are and how it's their right to dominate me.  oh please.

Jerks are jerks no matter what color

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:22:06 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		Oh I"m with you on that one Tress....I'm a accent junkie myself....LOL   spanish first and british second...yummmmmm

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:24:22 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Absolutely true TxBlkMistress! I have had more rude white men send me pics of their privates than Black... I was just referencing the only ethnic propositions that had been made me, and I bet if I was a Black or a Latina sub there would have been White men who made ethnic comments...I have no problem if people are into ethnic kinks, I am just not into that. BTW, I have had many wonderful Black men email me too.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:24:54 PM   
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What were you doing in Hong Kong?


screwing the british... pretty good euro population there ya know = )

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:29:45 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		Actually, with the majority of guys that want to automatically submit to me on the first email,  I get the I want an ebony domme, blk women are this and that, yadda yadda yadda...those are the ones that automatically get dismissed.  Number one, because it clearly says in my profile to NOT come to me with the "color" talk, so they show they can't follow instructions. 

I am not a piece of clothing, you don't shop for a mate by color,  you should be with me because you want to be with me as a person.

Second, I'm looking for a slave, period...talking about what color we are is totally a waste of good time.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:34:46 PM   
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Damn RiotGirl, I wish I hadn't read this from you today or ever. M


THEY DO though!!  Ya know and there are black men that are as sexy as all get out.......  LOL dunno why they scare the tar out of her.. Think it might have to be that they just seem "tougher"  stronger more dominant then white men.  More dominance then she'd know what to do with.

Ya know, just realised how you might of took that.  Its not like a "bad" fear.. nor a stereotypical one.  And granted if the man seems like a pussy LOL.  Plus they're usually Bigger, with More muscle.  LOL  Not that one doesnt like men big.... dunno what it is.  Not scared to be friends, or to hang out.. Nothing like.  Infact a really really really good friend is black man.  One of its "peoples"  Some one you can call up no matter what and its a given that you got their back. 

Now black women dont scare the crap out of me = )  With them big ol booties and big ol titties = )  lololol  plus generally tend to be envious of the whole butt thing.  Envious of a lot actually....... <wanders off day dreaming of having a big ol bootie>

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:38:39 PM   
RiotGirl


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The only things that came to mind reading that were.... wow a serious shock to the system, and while atleast you are honest I think you should take some time to figure this dislike of all black men out.


UG - You folks need to stop reading what you want to read and read whats written.  NEVER said one DISLIKES black men.  Ug.  LOL  Like them quite fine.. they just scarey.  Course, one always conjures up a Huge, completely muscled black man with this look in his eye like ya just dont want to mess with him and one likes to mess with ppl.  Course it could be really hot too...... LOL  Now like denzel.. he seems the quiet type.. he'd be just fine.. and not so dominant. 

Whys it gots to be a negative thing?  huh huh huh. 

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:40:53 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		Don't think you are shallow meatcleaver....everyone has a preference.  What get's me is when someone wants to "choose" me because of it.  I get guys that want to submit on the first email just because of what color I am, forget there is a person here.  But I can say the same that only want attractive, or large, or slim, etc.

I'm saying everyone has a preference, but why voice it....just go to it.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:50:50 PM   
RiotGirl


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Oh and riot girl, it seems that you have a lot of predjuices going on. Take some time and get to know people aside from their race. Not all are the stereotype. Your post was very confusing. You mention all these negatives about specific races of people then you say "you love everyone" Come on girl...figure it out and stop your unfounded predjudices.


Ug AGAIN.  Um.. UG.  Close minded too damn sensitive.  Always take ppl for who they are.  Always.  Like when one was 16 in hong kong, she disliked philiphino women cos everyone she ran into was a slut, liar, dumb, and well.. you get the point.  Didnt stop her from becoming friends with a girl from the philiphines.  Tho the fact that she had two fiances (on in the UK and one in the US) and a boyfriend in HK and was going out the clubs with one to pick up guys.. WELL.  LOL  But always always take ppl for who they are.  Dated an asian once actually...  he was kind of cute.

Sure one has opionons.. doesnt make em right and doesnt make it true across the board.  But one does love everyone for who they are.  Just cos alot of the folks in the south are dumb, ignorant, unwordly rednecks doesnt mean EVERY redneck is the same.  You know all Crackers arent like solid white.

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I think it was an honest statement.  She's not saying that black men are evil or even that they're inherently scary.  She's just saying that SHE is afraid of them for some reason that she doesn't even understand.  If more people were that open and honest about their instinctive responses, we'd have a lot LESS bigotry.


Thank you LAM!!!!!!!  Geez.. atleast some one got it.  But its not like afraid to hang out, or invite over, or be friends with.. its to have a relatinship with. 

Oh and just to smack you all stupid for thinking thats what she said.. HER DAUGHTER IS BI RACIAL.  Doh.  Half latin and half me.  Beautiful little girl, with dark/olive skin, brown eyes and easily spotted as latin.   Ug, so JEALOUS of her and her beautifully brown skin that one has to tan for ages upon ages to get.  Plus she's got LIPS and this Cracker hasnt got any lips.  the brat.

ug, screw yall and your predjudices.. Just cos some cracker girl spots some differences and says "yeah it rings true for most of what she's seen, but doesnt make it true across the board" and generally her preferences goes on attraction.  Yet no matter what race/colour ect if they're attractive.. they're attractive and thats all that matters.

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