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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 6:58:06 PM   
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A girl who would freak out or not come over because she might run into my brown brother is most definitely not someone I can be friends with. But you of course do what works for you. M


arg you are making this one cranky!  Who the hell said that?  Do you know that this one was one of the FEW white ppl who had no problems walking in the all black neighborhoods in DC?  Just cos everyone was cool with her.. and she was cool with them.  Suppose if you are "right" in assuming that you read what she said then it'd be impossible to walk into a house, knowing her male "black" friend only barely and surround herself and her little one by many many other black folks.  Suppose.. if she did put herself in a situation like she'd of gotten her ass kicked majorly as its pretty easy to spot.  Predjudice. 

Black women rock tho.. specially old ones = )  They got this no nonsense, put you in place, gonna wack you sideways, with wicked smarts, and quick wit.  But maybe thats all just the ones she knows?  Dunno. 

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:00:47 PM   
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what part of the country they are from (yes this makes a huge cultural diff and I am thinking I should date only Californians).



uhhhhhhhh you and your "prejudice" better step off!  Sorta native californian here.. and we're not different.. cept we just arent as uptight, snobby as the east coasters.  HUH.   = )  (yeah and half the family is native east coast )

ummmmmm and yall are pissing one off with your ILLITERACY.  See if you'd stop a minute and actually READ  (thats R E  A D).. sound it out now.. and not assume (yall did make an ass out of "u" and "me") and read into what she wrote.. ug.  Course, not suprised, as its abit of a sensitive subject and of course everyone is gonna throw in their own feelings into her writing instead of trying to figure out what she ment....  UG

Hows this.. make it easy = )

this slave hates EVERYONE equally = )

Americans.. ug closeminded - unworldly loudmouths
rednecks - ignorant unschooled, closeminded, unwashed....  bah plus they use racial slang.. ug

Anyone ever seen the Stand up comic Carlos Mencia?  His message is YES WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT.. there is nothing wrong with that.. That ALSO means there is good and bad in every culture.  Now one could of mentioned those that she would jump on.. but then thats a big list.  Of course unless they digust her.. which sort of goes for everyone..

Never ment a mongolian ya know.  Or an Icelander.. or a ... But wouldnt date swedes.. their blonde.. dont like blondes..

predjudice against blondes.. bet thats a new one for ya = )


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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:16:26 PM   
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May its that the majority of black men have really HUGE penis's and being a really small person.. and knowing that overly large penis's hurt.. Maybe thats why she's afraid of em.... 

Oh yeah.. and she's prejudice against men with big ol penis's.. This one dude whipped out like a 12 incher or something.. and she did NOT stick around to find out if he was a "cool" guy.  HECK NO.  Didnt care who he was, or how great he could be or even if he was her soul mate.  He had a BIG Penis.  Havent spoken to him since........

ya know what.. on second thought.  If thats what you all want to believe, so be it.  Really retarded to argue over something like her personal preferences when it comes to relationships.  Screw it.. the only thing she likes is Tall Italian men, with dark - almost black hair, beautiful bronzish skin and hazel eyes.  All ELSE SUCKS.


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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:31:41 PM   
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Because we are arrogant and think we are superior to everyone else



You also forgot to add that we all surf, all the time, even when we don't live by the coast.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:32:26 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:34:53 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:47:54 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 7:52:15 PM   
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THEY DO though!!  Ya know and there are black men that are as sexy as all get out.......  LOL dunno why they scare the tar out of her.. Think it might have to be that they just seem "tougher"  stronger more dominant then white men.  More dominance then she'd know what to do with.
Riot things wouldn't have derailed so badly if you said "I'm a little intimidated by black men'  and probably would not prefer one as my master...  All you said was that you feared black men, later explaining that it may be because of their physical features or other stereotypes, which of course is your prerogative, and not that offensive in and of itself.    M


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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 8:00:07 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 8:03:27 PM   
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My only hope, is that before death, I can spend some time in a world where topics like this never come up.
You have a better chance of seeing Jesus, but I'm hoping right along with you.
I mean there are so many other legitimate reasons to hate people of all races equally, lol.   M

P.S.  Is there something you're trying to tell us with your new Avatar Caitlyn?

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 9:05:33 PM   
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You have a brother huh? *grins all big n slips off whistlin innocent like*

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/21/2006 10:39:50 PM   
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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 12:02:56 AM   
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Because we are arrogant and think we are superior to everyone else


Apparently, you never been to New York huh? LOL

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 12:18:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		The Race does not matter at all to me. Ethnic values and communication and fetish behavior can differ a lot a lot from my own. There is no sterotype that explains or excuses the need for enhanced communication and lots of words to be sure that each understands the other well. I have no preference given that satisfactory communication occurs. Good manners can be universal. LdyS

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 12:55:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well the sun is shining here and it's warm enough to take a walk naked which is unusual here for this early in the year. However, decorum had me put on jeans, tee shirt and sandals and I sat on my balcony over looking the road with a coffee and watched the women go by.

I live in a very mixed area, there are only about six houses owned by whites on my street that I know of (and its a loooong street), the rest of the people are Carribean, Turks, Arabs, Indonesians, sub Saharan Africans, Sourth Americans. Hell I don't know, its a big seaport and I love it.

To the point. I was thinking about colour since its such a contentious issue so I took particular note of the attributes of all the young women that went by (purely for research you understand). Some know me enough to give me a wave. Now I can't figure out why anyone has a preference. My preference was always the one that was walking past at the time, with a little added attraction if she looked up and smiles and gives me a wave.

I know people who won't come to this area because of the crime and think I was mad for buying an appartment here when I could afford a 'better' area. I keep telling them there is no crime to speak of but I know what the problem is, groups of young men hang around outside and chat and because of their size they can be intimidating. I've twice left my keys in my front door, once when I was in and someone knocked on the door to tell me and once when I was out, when someone locked my door and gave my keys to my neighbour to look after. Sheesh, I sound like I'm going senile.

Back to watching the women go by.  Research of course!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 1:06:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		That's a huge pet peeve of mine. Like Dommes come out of factories or something. What's worse is that after serving one black mistress, there's a mold all other black Dominas should fit into. Sooooo irritating

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Actually, with the majority of guys that want to automatically submit to me on the first email,  I get the I want an ebony domme, blk women are this and that, yadda yadda yadda...those are the ones that automatically get dismissed.  Number one, because it clearly says in my profile to NOT come to me with the "color" talk, so they show they can't follow instructions. 

I am not a piece of clothing, you don't shop for a mate by color,  you should be with me because you want to be with me as a person.

Second, I'm looking for a slave, period...talking about what color we are is totally a waste of good time.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 4:33:52 AM   
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Riot things wouldn't have derailed so badly if you said "I'm a little intimidated by black men' and probably would not prefer one as my master... All you said was that you feared black men, later explaining that it may be because of their physical features or other stereotypes, which of course is your prerogative, and not that offensive in and of itself. M



lololololol aye derailed.  Bad use of words.  Ah well.  Well, the thread is basically on relationships - one expected that was what the thread was about, so the answer was about preference for relationships.  It pertained to relationships as that was what the question was about.  Generally the reply was just about preference.  Which is why one added a few other preferences on the opposite side of the spectrum so maybe the "point" would get across.  Size is generally speaking and it was ment purely as a joke.  Unfortunetly it wasnt taken that way.  Not all swedes are blonde, aye?  Hopefully some ppl understood as it sees others didnt.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 5:22:59 AM   
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Oh and riot girl, it seems that you have a lot of predjuices going on. Take some time and get to know people aside from their race. Not all are the stereotype. Your post was very confusing. You mention all these negatives about specific races of people then you say "you love everyone" Come on girl...figure it out and stop your unfounded predjudices.


Ug AGAIN.  Um.. UG.  Close minded too damn sensitive.  Always take ppl for who they are.  Always.  Like when one was 16 in hong kong, she disliked philiphino women cos everyone she ran into was a slut, liar, dumb, and well.. you get the point.  Didnt stop her from becoming friends with a girl from the philiphines.  Tho the fact that she had two fiances (on in the UK and one in the US) and a boyfriend in HK and was going out the clubs with one to pick up guys.. WELL.  LOL  But always always take ppl for who they are.  Dated an asian once actually...  he was kind of cute.

Sure one has opionons.. doesnt make em right and doesnt make it true across the board.  But one does love everyone for who they are.  Just cos alot of the folks in the south are dumb, ignorant, unwordly rednecks doesnt mean EVERY redneck is the same.  You know all Crackers arent like solid white.

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I think it was an honest statement.  She's not saying that black men are evil or even that they're inherently scary.  She's just saying that SHE is afraid of them for some reason that she doesn't even understand.  If more people were that open and honest about their instinctive responses, we'd have a lot LESS bigotry.


Thank you LAM!!!!!!!  Geez.. atleast some one got it.  But its not like afraid to hang out, or invite over, or be friends with.. its to have a relatinship with. 

Oh and just to smack you all stupid for thinking thats what she said.. HER DAUGHTER IS BI RACIAL.  Doh.  Half latin and half me.  Beautiful little girl, with dark/olive skin, brown eyes and easily spotted as latin.   Ug, so JEALOUS of her and her beautifully brown skin that one has to tan for ages upon ages to get.  Plus she's got LIPS and this Cracker hasnt got any lips.  the brat.

ug, screw yall and your predjudices.. Just cos some cracker girl spots some differences and says "yeah it rings true for most of what she's seen, but doesnt make it true across the board" and generally her preferences goes on attraction.  Yet no matter what race/colour ect if they're attractive.. they're attractive and thats all that matters.



For the record, I am not closed minded nor sensitive about racial matters, had you explained your stance more clearly less feathers would have gotten ruffled.  It seems you want to blame everyone else for misunderstanding you.  Remember dear we don't truely know you and we are not all wandering around in your head so we don't know what makes you tick.  We can only take you at face value.  If you don't want to be misunderstood, make sure your stance is crystal clear with no room for doubt

Not sure why you made the analogy about southerners....I am native Californian....that one fell flat on me. 

The fact that you have a bi-racial daughter has nothing to do with the irrational fear you have of men with Muscles, DOMINANT ways and Brown Skin not of latino decent

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 7:10:33 AM   
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The fact that you have a bi-racial daughter has nothing to do with the irrational fear you have of men with Muscles, DOMINANT ways and Brown Skin not of latino decent
I agree.
 
Riot, no one really cares with whom you sleep or reproduce.  You may have noticed that 4-5pages before you posted, people had stated their preferences for whom they'd enjoy a relationship with.
 
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Black men scare the daylights out of this one.  heh.  Dunno why.. they just do.. so a relationship is out of the question. 
Generally the race or whatever isnt important.. its whether she's attracted to them. 
Granted, unfortunetly no matter if she's attracted to a black man or not.. she could never.  They scare the crap out of her
That is your prerogative, and at least you say it's irrational.   M

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 5/22/2006 8:46:38 AM   
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I live in a very mixed area, there are only about six houses owned by whites on my street that I know of (and its a loooong street), the rest of the people are Carribean, Turks, Arabs, Indonesians, sub Saharan Africans, Sourth Americans


Now those are nice neighborhoods.. one of the nicer things about living in Hong Kong and even miami.  The variety of culture.  Course americanized culture isnt the same thing...  Any chance you've noticed that mainly white american neighborhoods there isnt much of a community?  No matter where one goes it seem to be prevailent.  Up in N Va, the only reason one knew the ppl in her apartment complex was cos she sat on the steps and spoke to every one that passed.. yet they didnt know each other very well.  Living in Miami the neighborhood was mainly south americans... knew almost everyone in that neighborhood (boy could they party) except for the white folks.  Few white families and no one really knew them all that well...  Even in the neighborhood living now, one knows about 3 families, yet a few others in the neighborhood. (who are of course not white).  Maybe its just overall lack of culture in american and those from other places bring their community here?  Dunno.. spoke to a chick from south america on a plane recently and she seemed to notice the difference too.  Puerto Rico has more of a "community" then here.. atleast thats what she said. 

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had you explained your stance more clearly less feathers would have gotten ruffled.


prolly right, any chance exshaustion is a good excuse?

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we are not all wandering around in your head so we don't know what makes you tick.


then why....  does one keep hearing everyone in her head..  at the grocery store today LAM disagreed with the type of pea's one was buying..  Boy he's picky.  <grins>

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Not sure why you made the analogy about southerners....I am native Californian....that one fell flat on me.


Eh, moving to the south is abit shocking.  Especially from cities or places where everyone is more intergrated.  Definetly shocking.  Twas more just a statement of frustration.  Plus one was trying to make another obscure point.... 

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That is your prerogative, and at least you say it's irrational.   M


of course it is.  They are no different from other men.  The thing about the reproduction was to try and convey a point.. LOL not that one cared if others cared. 

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