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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/9/2011 8:52:41 PM   
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William Shakespeare Sonnet 18
Shall I compare thee to a Summer's day?

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou growest:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this and this gives life to thee.

http://www.william-shakespeare.info/william-shakespeare-sonnet-18.htm

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 6:51:31 AM   
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I pretty much avoided this thread after my initial answer...now, I am glad I did.

I have never seen an OP go to so much trouble to defend himself. Interesting.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 10:23:38 AM   
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I am puzzled by the lack of goodness.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 10:29:50 AM   
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Then you need to get out of your mom's basement and get up into real life, it is a cold cruel world out there, and most folks are gonna feel like they don't owe you a livin'.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 11:13:41 AM   
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How in the hell did I miss this convoluted treasure of a thread?????

It's as though BoOb and Domiguy got together, did some LSD, had a baby and named him Bene.


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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 11:25:02 AM   
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How in the hell did I miss this convoluted treasure of a thread?????

It's as though BoOb and Domiguy got together, did some LSD, had a baby and named him Bene.

OMG...some warning PLEASE....I snorted coffee out my nose thanks to you

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 11:27:08 AM   
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...Want my opinion? A lot of women because they are women feel they have the right to lie. Us men have got to get some self-respect. This sort of behavior isn't healthy for them or us.


What a load of crap. Some women lie, some men lie.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 11:29:06 AM   
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Offers hlen some Inconvenient Love.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 11:33:15 AM   
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BenevolentM,
If you are not getting something of value back out of relationship for what you are putting into it, then something is a little off.

It might take years for water to wear down and reshape stone. Personally, I've come to a point with something being "Just good enough", does not have to be perfect but it has to be good enough.

Think of it like this, if you gotta put 10 years worth of work into to make things work.. why do it?

Not when there is somebody else out there, who would be better for you to begin with?

just my thoughts.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 12:17:33 PM   
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Offers hlen some Inconvenient Love.


Thank you, Poise!!




Where did you get those cool bouncy hearts??

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 1:38:15 PM   
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If anyone messes with this post, it will be censorship.

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BenevolentM,
If you are not getting something of value back out of relationship for what you are putting into it, then something is a little off.

It might take years for water to wear down and reshape stone. Personally, I've come to a point with something being "Just good enough", does not have to be perfect but it has to be good enough.

Think of it like this, if you gotta put 10 years worth of work into to make things work.. why do it?

Not when there is somebody else out there, who would be better for you to begin with?

just my thoughts.


I feel that this was the most thoughtful of the recent posts even though it takes a position contrary to mine. It's called respect. There has been an intellectual revolution, but not all is well. The chief casualty of this revolution is love. When you thinking about what you are going to be getting out of something, love is not in the forefront of your imagination because love is fundamentally irrational. Because it is fundamentally irrational, it is inherently inconvenient.

Love has become genuinely inconvenient. Why? Because in a sense we got off the gold standard. In a letter to Termyn8or I wrote:

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I suspect the suppression of pride is by design. It would help atomize people. Why atomize people? Since the models are inaccurate instead of bringing the model into conformance with reality, you cause people to conform to the model. Game theory has nothing to do with logic since it has nothing to do with truth.


What I'm saying is that Termyn8or is not in step with the times. There is a relationship between love and truth as outrageous as that might seem to some. This relationship was known in ancient times. On 20 January 2011 I wrote:

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For further background see the following threads:

A rant about deliberately fuzzy math.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3525695/mpage_1/tm.htm

Raising the debt ceiling
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3523034/mpage_1/tm.htm

The ancient Greeks were looking for this one God when they encountered Christianity. Their reply was, Eureka! As odd as it may seem faith and reason are not as incompatible as it may seem to some. The ancient Greeks came to similar conclusions independently via an earnest search for the truth. They knew that the one God would have certain properties. For example, they knew he would be peace loving. Just think Socrates. They also knew that there would be a Christ with a capital C. I spoke earlier about the christ of statistics.


Here is something that I wrote on 27 January 2011. The post now appears missing. Some moron apparently thought it was redundant:

The following is a copy of several consecutive posts from another thread that has bearing on the topic being discussed here, namely God and Atheism. See

Raising the debt ceiling
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3523034/mpage_1/tm.htm

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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

I never said that I was only interested in pussy. What I seek is a select few who possess what is known as a pussy. Admittedly, dick is a disqualifying factor. One must view a pussy holistically. A pussy has a mind. A pussy has a body whose sole use isn't sex by the way. Pussy even has a soul. Pussy also has needs. Pussy needs love and pussy needs praise. If she is willing to be more than a mere sex organ, more specifically a thing worthy of love, I am prepared to refer to her as a female. Typically, females do have a pussy.


Yeah, and how is that working out for you?


Honestly, I think women should cross dress online more so they can see what they are like. Since women are not men the picture they would get would not be entirely accurate, but it might clue them in on something. A great many women feel they are so wonderful and such victims that they could not possibly be monsters.

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Didnt think it was working too well. And you proved me right.


Are you not admitting that you may be one of these monsters?

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Not at all.. But I prefer a man who has the ability to stomp on my leash... not one who will beg me to walk him.


I noticed that I've been misspelling debt as debit as in deb-it! You must be willing to at least admit that I need a secretary, that is a little subbie to take care of these submissive details for me? It is a shame for a man such as myself to be subject to such petty mockery. It is a crime against all that is holy. I see it offends you as well.

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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

I want her goodness to amaze me and express itself as a well with no bottom. Love is mysterious because it is such a well. Her wetness continues to flow in the absence of any truly rational explanation for it to do so.


What I require is love that is real. I am not a lesser man to desire or accept anything less. She must be truly beautiful. Is such a request unreasonable? What you wrote is not truly beautiful. It is a shameless declaration that you have a selfish desire.

Does your wetness flow in the absence of any truly rational explanation for it to do so?

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And the one who holds my leash is the only set of eyes i have to worry about.


I am familiar with the logical underpinnings of what you wrote. Notice my use of the term "rational explanation". The problem is you are all a product of rational design and is the reason why many of you cannot grasp the idea that a God exists. In rational design there is no such a thing as love. Why does the sky not fall or the economy collapse? There is no rational explanation for it. God loves us. Do not seek a rational explanation for it, because there is none.

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Uh, there is a hell of a lot more rational explanation of why the sky doesn't fall than a god, angular momentum, space-time and gravity, celestial mechanics, and the fact that it sort of does fall, but theres so damn much of it, there isn't any more room for it, only 5 pounds of shit to a 5 pound sack.  the weight of the atmosphere at sea level is greater than that of the weight at 1 mile high, you don't need a god to understand simple shit like that.

And well--- define collapse, I mean even junk has a value, so collapsing is in the eye of the beholder, not in the eye of a god.


Since I am an oracle of sorts I suppose it is incumbent upon me to answer your question. I notice that you got the spelling of damn right when I didn't. You must, damn things more often than I do.

It appears that I need to develop a list of English homophones for me to consult and become more familiar with. It would be nice to have a little subbie to help me with secretarial chores, but one must do with what one has, namely a humble spell checker demon that only gets it right half the time.

Making myself comfortable on a satin pillow. I thought the conversation was headed toward, What is the virtue of love? There are those who would challenge me on that one as well. Its more familiar form is religion verses the welfare state. To discuss love briefly, many are bewildered by the apparent obsessive interest religion has to encourage a thing that almost does not exist in this world, namely love; "Its intrusion interferes with our models. It is best done away with altogether." The atheists will argue why not concern yourself with things that matter? Things that will make this place a better world. When the illusion that love in this world exists in abundance is removed, either love becomes a thing that has betrayed you and you want to stomp it out or you realize that it is precious. Religion usually takes the later path. Those who rebel usually take the former.

I mentioned earlier that many important fields that humanity depends on are not structurally sound, which includes economics. The proponents of rational design realize this, however. Most everyone else does not. It is actually a profound intellectual achievement to recognize this simple fact. Ancient man realized this and is the reason he made offerings to, for example, a sun god. It is curious that the sky does not fall, but this also continues to be true in our day and age of rational design.

The problem with rational design is that there is a missing ingredient when you do away with what appear to be irrational superstitions. You manage to get much of it right, but a crucial ingredient is missing and so what you end up with is malnutrition despite having gotten most of it right. When you do away with love or meaning and so-called subjective things such as these.

Love is a ghost that belongs to the realm of the subtle and almost non-existent worlds.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:02:30 PM   
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What a fuckin waste of oxygen, I asked no question.  I don't know why every buncombe artist who nearly got a bachelors in communication from some minor seat of learning like dismal seepage juco in ypsilanti gotta come out here and hep us to their wisdom.

The reason that ancient man in the middle east and mediterranian areas worshipped a sun god is because they lived and died by the motherfucker, its the prominent natural feature out that way. By example, the scandinavians had no sun god, they had winter gods and sea gods.......because that is what they struggled with.  It was a matter of man struggling against nature and not any fuckin bullshit regarding a rational design.

Further, why are you taking some clippings of MY post out of politics and religion and sticking it inline here, as if it is part and parcel of this asswipe?  I do not give you leave to use my words, regarding a totally different concept in the middle of your sitewide inchoate babble (which by the way is stolen in drive bys from other sites and glued here, since it is plainly not written by you) and then got the goddamn gall to tell me you are an oracle.

Grow up, pillow princess.  Get a fuckin sack.  

  

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:08:25 PM   
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Maybe he gets paid by the word posting?

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:09:28 PM   
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I don't know why every buncombe artist who nearly got a bachelors in communication from some minor seat of learning like dismal seepage juco in ypsilanti gotta come out here and hep us to their wisdom.



Ron I adore you!


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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:11:07 PM   
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*Sigh*

It looks like I may have to read the whole thread to see if any censorship is needed. I did have other plans, so I hope I get a few laughs along the modpath of moderating a long thread!

I will keep in mind that love is inconvenient sometimes, but its a good thing I love you all!

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:11:59 PM   
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OK, new and WAY more compelling question.

Who cares if love is inconvenient? Most of us are stuck with it anyway. My question is whether Ron is inconvenient.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:13:36 PM   
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I am an inconvienient truth.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:15:29 PM   
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:22:37 PM   
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*waves hi and sends hugs to Theta*

I havent read the thread (the OP was enough to put me off0

but.. in response to the thread title.. all I can say is that LIFE is inconvenient.  Why should love be any different?

deal with it.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:29:46 PM   
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*Sigh*

It looks like I may have to read the whole thread to see if any censorship is needed. I did have other plans, so I hope I get a few laughs along the modpath of moderating a long thread!

I will keep in mind that love is inconvenient sometimes, but its a good thing I love you all!


I seriously wouldn't bother.


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