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Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:05:05 AM

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Im new to the scene what is the difference of being a Slave and Submissive?:)

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:08:26 AM

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Im new to the scene what is the difference of being a Slave and Submissive?:)

You will get two main responses...

Check the 'search' feature.

And, what's the difference?... it's up to the people involved really.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:31:08 AM

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Slaves generally have more signs of wear and tear, less teeth and a few more scars.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:36:08 AM

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quote:

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Check the 'search' feature.

What the dark one said.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:46:56 AM

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A slave is a submissive who identifies as a slave; a submissive is a slave who identifies as a submissive. Six of one/half-a-dozen of the other.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 11:53:18 AM

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Im new to the scene what is the difference of being a Slave and Submissive?:)

Google submissive collar and then Google slave collar.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 12:34:07 PM

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~tiptoes away from the fragmentation~

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 12:38:38 PM

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CEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 12:39:31 PM

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 12:53:22 PM

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Im new to the scene what is the difference of being a Slave and Submissive?:)

A submissive usually has self-respect.

A slave usually has naked photos.

*Stare*

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:15:04 PM

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NOT MUCH DIFFERENCE EXCEPT A SUB HAS SOME SAY IN THE DEPTH OF HER SUBMISSION WHILE A SLAVE HAS GIVING UP ALL OF HER RIGHTS, JUST THE VIEWS OF THIS OL; MASTER...BOUNTY

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:17:26 PM

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Degree and expanse of submission.

If you're new, you'll find that the differentiations are controversial and everyone inevitably applies whatever definition they want anyhow. Consequently, the question has become a catalyst for comedy (which isn't itself bad, but can be confusing for the person asking).

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:17:34 PM

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quote:

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Im new to the scene what is the difference of being a Slave and Submissive?:)

Submissive has 10 letters, slave has 5 letters.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:19:22 PM

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we are so kind to new people...

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:28:52 PM

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we are so kind to new people...

People tend to be solipsistic thinkers. Sometimes it's funny to see how a percentage of the people that respond with humor are only doing so because it's an internet rite of passage for them to be at a level of experience that they can chuckle at the Level 1 Noob questions.

Not every silly response is an example of this, surely, but it's much more fun a game to find out who the Level 2 Noobs with delusions of grandeur are than actually engaging in the jokes about a question that we hear ad infinitum (I was tempted to say ad nauseam, but it's become a cliche offering from some of the very same Level 2 types. Except they usually spell it incorrectly).

< Message edited by NihilusZero -- 3/2/2011 1:30:49 PM >

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:35:55 PM

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NZ you are tip-toeing on the sacred line of TMI for the 7th house of the 7th level of the 7th newb.

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ETA: You really should have misspelled sumthin, anything really.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:42:41 PM

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we are so kind to new people...

Yes. Isn't it a shame that some folks ignored the OP's question completely?

OP, along with the answers that you did receive, I'll add one more. A submissive is someone in a D/s dynamic. A slave is someone in a M/s dynamic.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:49:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

NZ you are tip-toeing on the sacred line of TMI for the 7th house of the 7th level of the 7th newb.

SLURP~

ETA: You really should have misspelled sumthin, anything really.

Rule #7 of the 7th house of the 7th level of the 7th newb:

Never misspell sumthin in a post which is referencing the misspelling of another.

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:49:39 PM

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Sunny quote of the day
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NihilusZero

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People tend to be solipsistic thinkers.

(I can hear the dictionary pages turning from all the way over here!)

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RE: Difference Between Submissive & Slave?. - 3/2/2011 1:58:03 PM

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Submissives typically have some say in what goes on in their relationship, slaves have given up that right - and there will always be exceptions to that statement, in that, every one has a different relationship.

and there are a lot of people on cm that would take exception to the phrase "the scene" - because they don't feel that what they are living is a scene - its just life. Word to the internet wise.