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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 6:03:39 PM

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I'm sorry, Darling. There is a real difference between kinky fun--which is awesome!--and a female led relationship. I've come to find that I want more parity in life partner sorts of relationships, but I am still a DOM. I will be a dom if my toybag never gets opened again. *I love playing*, but on MY terms. If it's not happening, it's just NOT, and no pouty poutersons from the other party! (Yes, for me this generally works both ways)

The OP started by asking if we "cater to slaves". No, we don't. If the question was something like, "what's the most fun & outlandish thing you've been asked to do", the responses would have been different.

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 8:50:22 PM

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I'm sorry, Darling. There is a real difference between kinky fun--which is awesome!--and a female led relationship. I've come to find that I want more parity in life partner sorts of relationships, but I am still a DOM. I will be a dom if my toybag never gets opened again. *I love playing*, but on MY terms. If it's not happening, it's just NOT, and no pouty poutersons from the other party! (Yes, for me this generally works both ways)

The OP started by asking if we "cater to slaves". No, we don't. If the question was something like, "what's the most fun & outlandish thing you've been asked to do", the responses would have been different.

Lady Hib, you are a soldier! You must continue to go for your ideal, and never accept anything less - because that's what you deserve!

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 8:52:39 PM

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I stopped looking, and don't intend to start up again, but I am, sadly, a soldier.

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 8:58:29 PM

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That's defeatist talk and I won't have it in this man's army. Drop and give me twenty!

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 9:00:42 PM

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You just want to check out my fabulous booTAY. I know what you mens are like!

BOSSYBOOTS!

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/5/2011 9:27:23 PM

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OK, LP, thanks.

God, I'm tired of talking about all this.

I wouldn't worry about that part. It's really less complicated than it's made out to be.

If you were in a relationship and somebody wasn't particularly in the mood one evening for a good romp, what is any smart male going to do? Is there going to be harping, hounding, fussing, or moping? Of course not. The chances of fun in the hay are going to be considerably less, if not eliminated, for that night and probably a few nights more.

The best thing anyone can do when a proposal of activity X isn't going to happen, is to just plain be considerate about it. Maybe make an inquiry of the other person's well being, so they know that the person is more important than whatever activity X happened to be.

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/6/2011 2:05:30 AM

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I'm not good on food. Firstly, I don't know what a tiramisu is but, secondly, be assured I've never seen you as a steam pudding kind of gal, Lady C. ;-)

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All notwithstanding the fact that I always do see when women are being bitchy, small-minded, egotistical, competitive, schoolgirlish, nasty and downright silly. Which they are, often, and the regulars on this board aren't any exception. I'll still be able to see the Goddess in her, weirdly enough.

If you don't know a good tiramisu, you haven't lived...

Back to the whole fetishes thing, as I said context and the relationship make all the difference, it's kinda funny how guys come and say they want to be dominated and that's all they ever wanted, how can they find a female dominant, it's their hearts desire to do whatever she wants, because they are submissives... Sounds good? Then "Oh but you have to do this, wear that, or else I'm not feeling submissive..." My motivation to do any of those things - even if they'd be things that I LIKE doing - would disappear rapidly, super rapidly! In a way he'd be giving commands, a bit like a bucket of cold water.

Now if somebody is honest and says "You know I got this fetish for this, that and the other, they're my buttons and if you do press those buttons I react and I become very very submissive..." That's cool, upfront and honest... The other guys always remind me of the guys who sneak around behind the back of their spouse.

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RE: Slaves Fetishes - 7/6/2011 3:39:56 AM

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Yep, makes sense . . . .

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