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COURTNEYCOX -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 12:26:40 PM)

Because pictures are worth a thousand words.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 12:33:55 PM)

Sorry, Darling, I am totally in Roch's camp. Speaking as a businesswoman with professional credentials and such, and having had fingerprintings for work/licenses.

I reckon "get over yourself" is the first step toward knowing yourself, and it is DEFINITELY as step toward submission.




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 1:20:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
I reckon "get over yourself" is the first step toward knowing yourself, and it is DEFINITELY as step toward submission.


Well, 'get over yourself' is what I said to him, Lady Hib - albeit put more kindly. Besides, I've noticed that when people are told just to 'get over themselves', they rarely do. Usually, they just become more arsy. The few times that's been said to me on this forum, I've simply beaten up, verbally, those who've said it. There are few phrases better calculated to ensure that the hearer never learns a damned thing from the saying of it.

Hell's bells, you know I don't get this about people here, sometimes. People can change. I did, so why shouldn't others? The pessimism of CM gets to me sometimes, I have to admit.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 1:59:58 PM)

The difference, Darling, is that while you had certain berk-like elements, you were not bonded to being a unique snowflake. Or an ego-laden prat.

I don't have any pics of myself up, but I *will* send one. Because I am a CPA, not the governor of the state.




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 2:23:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

The difference, Darling, is that while you had certain berk-like elements, you were not bonded to being a unique snowflake. Or an ego-laden prat.

I don't have any pics of myself up, but I *will* send one. Because I am a CPA, not the governor of the state.


You know, I recall vividly your saying, some time recently, that I was a berk when I first turned up at CM. 'A pain in the ass' was the phrase you used, if memory serves. Yet, right from the very first moment I appeared, you flirted with me. I recall that more clearly than anything else. *Cackle*. Now tell me that my memory's failing me. ;-)

. . . And I shall look forward to the pic. Ta in advance!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 2:32:45 PM)

Le sigh. Of course I flirted with you, I know Quality when I see it! And thank goodness you are not on my facebook, one of my friends posted some of the most alarming shots of me!




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 2:40:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Le sigh. Of course I flirted with you, I know Quality when I see it! And thank goodness you are not on my facebook, one of my friends posted some of the most alarming shots of me!


Awww, Lady Hib, your bones better be strong. I'll crack 'em in a second with my first hug.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 2:48:02 PM)

Fat chicks are amazingly sturdy!




AAkasha -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 2:52:40 PM)


How else am I going to masturbate to the image in my mind of him bound, gagged, helpless and being violated if I don't know what he looks like?

Seriously though. I think most people in general don't want to invest time into something that will never work out because of a basic lack of chemistry anyway. And online, there are a lot of people who aren't serious about anything anyway - so it's a step toward making a commitment that they are willing to invest time.

If you need to avoid sending pictures, I think you need to be prepared to meet in person quicker, or move things into another credible medium immediately, like voice to voice.

A lot of people share your need for discretion. You just have to be patient in your searches. If there's good chemistry, it might buy you some patience, but online is a tricky medium - hopefully you have a stellar phone voice.

Akasha




sunshinemiss -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 3:54:11 PM)

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So the likelihood of you being outed is negligible.



I know I'm kind of a one-note song about all this, but y'all KNOW I know. It may be a negligible possibility, but to the one that it happens to it is devastating. There are foolish people who will believe nonsense. Those same people won't take a moment to wonder, "Hey how does so and so KNOW that he's on that website?" It takes only one small minded, malicious person to destroy another person's credibility. I've been on the other end of that. There is a member of CM who is rubbing her hands with glee because she single-handedly did this to me. She played into someone's fears while I was far away and could not defend myself.

It only takes one.

Best,
sunshine




sunshinemiss -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 4:10:27 PM)

Sunny
Quote of the Day
goes to
LadyHibiscus
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for
Let me lick your spicy brain!!




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 4:14:04 PM)

See, I was wondering about that - I reckon maybe we should ask LnT whether or not brains taste spicy...

:p




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 4:27:19 PM)

Yay. For QOTD!!




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 4:31:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Fat chicks are amazingly sturdy!


Don't say that.

*Chuckle*

You, and I suspect many other Dommes reading, have *no idea at all* what I'll put up with from a Domme and just how severe I could be with one.

Heh. Yes, I know I'm an unusual sort of sub. But that's only because I won't tolerate women being shitty on themselves, that's all.




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:14:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

See, I was wondering about that - I reckon maybe we should ask LnT whether or not brains taste spicy...


No.  They are nice and creamy, a bit bland.  They are quite high in fat so I do not eat them often.




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:21:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

No.  They are nice and creamy, a bit bland.  They are quite high in fat so I do not eat them often.



You're such a gentle lamb, Lady N. I bet you've trained your pet wolverines into a fruiterian diet, haven't you?




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:27:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
You're such a gentle lamb, Lady N. I bet you've trained your pet wolverines into a fruiterian diet, haven't you?


I do have some gentle lambs, which I will be turning into chops and roasts as soon as they are nice and plump. Wolverines aren't terribly yummy, so I don't keep any.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:28:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

If you need to avoid sending pictures, I think you need to be prepared to meet in person quicker, or move things into another credible medium immediately, like voice to voice.



I agree.  That's what I prefer to do.  I like to meet in person as quickly as possible.  Not only does this seem to weed out those who would waste my time, but I've found that it's much easier to ascertain chemistry in person.

Despite that, I still have not problem sending someone a nice, vanilla face pic.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:32:36 PM)

Peon,
You're so much nicer than I am. 

Unlike LadyHib, I don't think that what you said is in any way contrary to what I said.  You just said it in a kinder and gentler fashion.  Well done!  [;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Why are women obsessed with pics? (5/23/2011 5:36:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
You're such a gentle lamb, Lady N. I bet you've trained your pet wolverines into a fruiterian diet, haven't you?


I do have some gentle lambs, which I will be turning into chops and roasts as soon as they are nice and plump. Wolverines aren't terribly yummy, so I don't keep any.



I had a handsome repast of baby dolphins' brains the other day. I'm sadly disappointed that you were unable to join me for this rare delight.




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