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RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... - 6/8/2006 8:51:18 AM

skittykitty

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I fisted my exgirfriend once, and it was very enjoyable for the both of us but when she orgasmed I ended up with a dislocated thumb. Which wasn't a big deal I popped it back into place. The experience was well worth the inconvinence of fixing a joint.

ohh yeah, you gotta watch out for the muscle spasms, sometimes you dont realise just how intense they are, and it can definitely catch you off guard, not to mentiom give your fingers a damn good squeeze

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RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... - 6/8/2006 9:13:53 AM

SuperatusMasculs

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Fisting is an ulimate act of submission, which greatly tests the patience of the submissive and the Dominant. It should only be attempted with the utmost caution and respect for Personal Safety. To the lady here who tried it and was abused, I am certianly sorry about your experience. At NO time would a Gentleman Dominant allow himself to get so worked up over a physical act as to cause ANY unwanted emotion in the submissive. I regret your experience, but I am also proud that you posted it here in order to help others who may be interested. That was big of you and took lots of guts.

As for me, I have tried it, more than a few times. Some ladies get closer than others, but when you can palm a regulation-style basketball, not many ladies care to try it!!

Peace and Respect -

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RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... - 6/8/2006 9:35:25 AM

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Fisting is an ulimate act of submission

My ex, who loved to get fisted, would likely disagree with this. The act is what it is, there is no dominance or submission inherently attached to it.

~stef

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RE: Fisting gets such a bad rap... - 6/8/2006 11:27:59 AM

timeoutgurlie

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Thanks for the replies to my question. I guess without knowing it, Master and I have already began the 'process', we've gone to the 4 fingers inside point. I'd always taken it at face value, like it was just an act of seeing how much I would take before there was pain. Now looking at it in hindsight, it makes sense how it goes from the number of fingers, to the rest of the hand, to moving the hand inside...wow, I just had a moment of clarity where I like "get" what it's about, it's awesome and strange all at once lol

Weird how sometimes I just don't think of the obvious. Thanks for the replies