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gungadin09 -> RE: Did anyone else notice .. (7/31/2011 2:40:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: JWriter
.. that, in the majority, the same expectations and requirements exist for all females, whether subs, slaves, switches, Dommes, or, etc?
i will only answer from a sub's point of view, as i have no idea what the majority of men expect from slaves, switches, or Dommes.
Dress in leather. no
Wear pointy-toed shoes no
Offer me your ass. Well, yes, assuming i'm sexually involved with the person.
Beguile me with your cunt and tits What does that mean? That they would like to see them? Yes. If i get to THAT point, it's because a foundation of trust and respect has been established.
Spend my money, but, only on things that please me. i normally don't spend other people's money , whether it's for a relationship or just play. The only exception was letting someone pay my entrance fee to a play party, which i would not have been able to pay for myself. The same person gave me an old bike they had, so that i wouldn't have to walk to work after my bike got stolen. Having said that, if i WERE spending someone else's money, why wouldn't they be the one to decide what it was used for?
If you want something from me, perform to my expectations first. Isn't that true for all relationships? Doesn't each person come to the table with certain expectations, and won't each of them leave if they don't get what they absolutely need? i can't comment on whether there are more male subs who think of Dommes as a kink delivery device, but from my point of view as a submissive woman, i would not be involved with any man who saw ME as one.
Look like an Auschwitz victim, by weight. No.
Wear bright red lipstick. No.
Keep yourself impeccably groomed at all times. Actually, i'm kind of a slob.
Don't expect me to pay for it. Pay for what? i bathe and wear clean clothes. My clothes are NOT fancy, but i buy them myself. i don't color my nails. On the rare occasions that i wear makeup i buy it myself, and my hair... well, you can see. i've never had plastic surgery. My grooming doesn't strain my resources. And if anyone expected me to, i would direct them to my profile which lists "requiring me to do anything involving money" as a limit.
Never be comfortable. My top specifically went out and bought new suspension gloves so i WOULD be comfortable.
Never be weak. He has never failed to have patience for my weaknesses.
Never be human. See above.
Try not to speak. Actually, His criticism is that i don't communicate enough.
In photos, the only way you can tell the difference between a "Mistress" and a "slave girl", most of the time is by whether she is standing or kneeling. Sometimes, you can't tell, even then. You mean, on the internet.
And, apparently, both are 24/7 jobs of enforced activity, to heighten the male sense and drain the male libido. So don't buy into the internet bullshit. If i was a stripper, and my ONLY contact with men was through the strip club, and i was to form my opinion about ALL men based on how the majority of men act in a strip club, i would say, men are pigs. But all it would really mean is that many of the men in strip clubs act like pigs. If the majority of men you meet in real life act like that then you're doing something wrong.
pam
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