Kana
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Joined: 10/24/2006 Status: offline
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Kana's 2 cents. I got sick of asking folks,"Want fries with that?"-went back to school at 32, paid my whole way through...which didn't amount to much. How? Easy. I paid for the first semester at a community college, worked my ass off, got good grades, scored points with my profs, earned scholarships and when needed, took jobs at the school so that I could get discounted or free tuition. (And don't gimme no flak about "My school doesn't do academic scholarships." So fucking what. Go to a school that does. I upended my whole life and moved to go to a school that paid. Heck, I was willing to move to Montana. If one really wants a thing, they sacrifice to get it) Ya know, I did it the old fashioned way, blood, sweat and tears. And hours and hours of work. So stop whining and do. Which leads me to my next point that, were I a sub/slave type, I would never ever do so for the OP. Why? Because negativity is unattractive, defeatism is unacceptable, and I don't see a damn thing dominant about whining. Get it straight, son. Gals care a whole lot less about things like weight/looks/jobs etc...and a whole lot more about who and what you are, as a man, as a partner, and as a human being. And the one thing that most women find sexiest is confidence. Not arrogance. Not overweening false pride. Not being an oozing dickhead. But being sure in who and what you are. So stop bellyaching, pull your head outta your ass (You'll know when it happens-there'll be a big popping sound), take a clear look at you life, where you are now and where you want to be, and then start fucking actualizing. And for Christ's sake, stop kvetching. Wanna know the difference between winners and losers in life? Easy. Winners keep getting back up. Losers stay on the ground.
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"One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die. " HST
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