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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: wolvenreign

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: wolvenreign

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Dude... you never met a real parent apparently. We don't take whiny ass kids doing nothing for themselves and coddle them or fall for their little stories.

Our job is to teach you how to work life and it is work... apparently you have been allowed to be a pretty princess in your room thinking of fantasies far too long.

Two things here. One, if you're not going to believe the very real facts about my situation, then you have no business talking about "falling for their little stories". I have told you all nothing but the pure, hard truth.

Two, if you are not in a position to actually help me, don't try to tell me what it is or isn't "your job" to do. All I'm saying is, if you're willing to talk smack, put up or shut up. Dead serious.

Okay sweetheart, you got it. Do you know the limitations I have? I worked, I raised a family and I worked my ass off doing things I never wish to do again... but I would if I had to.  I have a genetic illness that kicks my ass, I have a spine that was curved from injury, surgery and now have bone on bone and I can't afford surgery on it again or for my teeth, I have a number of other illnesses... but... I did work the last three years, care for a brain damaged son, am writing as fast as I can to try to save my ass because I cannot work outside the home and cannot learn new things because of my own brain damage from strokes. I don't live off parents, children or the tax payers. I am scrambling hard to find a new income since losing my private income because he owed the government and they take what he has left before I get to. I am not trying to fix my little problem with a tweaking clit that wants attention... I am working on saving my ass.

Your turn.

I didn't ask for the facts of your life and how you got through it. I asked if you could actually help me find a job in this area. If you can't, then you don't really have any business telling me the facts of my life and how you wouldn't tolerate it. And next we have...

Confirmation that you want a hand out.

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ORIGINAL: wolvenreign


See, this is the general thread of logic that seems to be prevalent in most "you're just whining" posts. Stating sad facts about life = whining? Hardly. This is why I say that people automatically assume you're whining if you mention anything less than the utmost shiniest, positive, entertaining thing you can think of on the forums.

Seriously folks, when I say something bad about my situation? It's because it's real and not because I need someone to complain to. Frankly, though, if anyone says I'm whining after this, they had better come packing with a reason as to why it's whining and why I am not just stating truth. Which you'll have a hard time proving, since I am the number one authority on my intentions.

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Stating sad facts about life...

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I had recently explored the low-cost dental option. Thing is, this is oral surgery... They said they wouldn't do it
 
I am actually very capable, physically, except for a bum leg with an out-of-place tendon
 
As far as why I am overweight, you can thank a childhood of isolation with no motivation to do anything physical
 
there might be a way for you all to help me out... let me know if you know any voice acting studios
 
I have intense all-season allergies and a skin problem which makes it incredibly difficult to do anything for five seconds without scratching myself somewhere
 
I've hit my head on pavement too many times (slipping on ice and the like), and now I have a really bad short term memory

There... that about sums up yet ANOTHER big whine from you. 

Grow the hell up, already. Go wait tables, wash dishes, sweep floors, whatever... you'll get the exercise you need, and BONUS, some cash to boot for school and dental work. 

But you won't do that, will you?!!  No... because you're too fucking lazy and want someone else to keep wiping your ass for you -- just like you're doing here by asking people to help you locate voice-over studios BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO FUCKING LAZY TO DO YOUR OWN DAMN RESEARCH.

Yeah, real shocker that any girl with a brain wouldn't want a thing to do with you.  You're about as pathetic as pethetic gets!  Your parents should have booted you at 18... they've obviously learned their lesson and are likely hoping that booting your ass at 22, and forcing you to actually grow up and take some personal responsibility might actually save you from a life of endless whining and excuses.  From what I've read here, I doubt it.  

See, this is the general thread of logic that seems to be prevalent in most "you're just whining" posts. Stating sad facts about life = whining? Hardly. This is why I say that people automatically assume you're whining if you mention anything less than the utmost shiniest, positive, entertaining thing you can think of on the forums.

Seriously folks, when I say something bad about my situation? It's because it's real and not because I need someone to complain to. Frankly, though, if anyone says I'm whining after this, they had better come packing with a reason as to why it's whining and why I am not just stating truth. Which you'll have a hard time proving, since I am the number one authority on my intentions.

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See, this is the general thread of logic that seems to be prevalent in most "you're just whining" posts. Stating sad facts about life = whining? Hardly. This is why I say that people automatically assume you're whining if you mention anything less than the utmost shiniest, positive, entertaining thing you can think of on the forums.

Seriously folks, when I say something bad about my situation? It's because it's real and not because I need someone to complain to. Frankly, though, if anyone says I'm whining after this, they had better come packing with a reason as to why it's whining and why I am not just stating truth. Which you'll have a hard time proving, since I am the number one authority on my intentions.

It sounds like whining because your reasons for not being able to achieve your goals are external to your innermost self. It stops being whining when you accept the ability to make changes within yourself without blaming life for your lot in it.

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You poor misguided thing. I know someone in radio in Indy who could probably help but I would not call him on a bet for you. Why? B/c you are a whiny lazy kid with a sense of entitlement not in the least commensurate with your abilities, motivation, and drive.

If you posted that you had been working as a dish washer for the last 3 years, were on your own, and not looking to your parents or the government for a handout, I might very likely feel differently about making that call.

Are you getting it yet, OP?

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Stating sad facts about life...

The "sad facts" are that you're a WHINER and LAZY.  Got it, cupcake?!!

ETA:  Pssst... so you know, people can view your posts from your profile page, so with regard to your OP concerning whether or not you should "stop searching", you've pretty much GUARANTEED that ANY girl with a brain that reviews this thread will NEVER get within 10 feet of you.  Lucky you... you've just manifested the answer to your question!!!

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I had recently explored the low-cost dental option. Thing is, this is oral surgery... They said they wouldn't do it
 
I am actually very capable, physically, except for a bum leg with an out-of-place tendon
 
As far as why I am overweight, you can thank a childhood of isolation with no motivation to do anything physical
 
there might be a way for you all to help me out... let me know if you know any voice acting studios
 
I have intense all-season allergies and a skin problem which makes it incredibly difficult to do anything for five seconds without scratching myself somewhere
 
I've hit my head on pavement too many times (slipping on ice and the like), and now I have a really bad short term memory

There... that about sums up yet ANOTHER big whine from you. 

Grow the hell up, already. Go wait tables, wash dishes, sweep floors, whatever... you'll get the exercise you need, and BONUS, some cash to boot for school and dental work. 

But you won't do that, will you?!!  No... because you're too fucking lazy and want someone else to keep wiping your ass for you -- just like you're doing here by asking people to help you locate voice-over studios BECAUSE YOU'RE TOO FUCKING LAZY TO DO YOUR OWN DAMN RESEARCH.

Yeah, real shocker that any girl with a brain wouldn't want a thing to do with you.  You're about as pathetic as pethetic gets!  Your parents should have booted you at 18... they've obviously learned their lesson and are likely hoping that booting your ass at 22, and forcing you to actually grow up and take some personal responsibility might actually save you from a life of endless whining and excuses.  From what I've read here, I doubt it.  

See, this is the general thread of logic that seems to be prevalent in most "you're just whining" posts. Stating sad facts about life = whining? Hardly. This is why I say that people automatically assume you're whining if you mention anything less than the utmost shiniest, positive, entertaining thing you can think of on the forums.

Seriously folks, when I say something bad about my situation? It's because it's real and not because I need someone to complain to. Frankly, though, if anyone says I'm whining after this, they had better come packing with a reason as to why it's whining and why I am not just stating truth. Which you'll have a hard time proving, since I am the number one authority on my intentions.

The reason people see you as whining is that whenever a suggestion is put forward, your immediate reaction is to say why it won't work, rather than examining how it might.

Look dude, shit happens. We all have issues, handicaps, things that hold us back.
So what?
Life ain't easy. Life is full of disappointments and hurts.
Life is pain. Life is obstacles. Life is overcoming those and transcending. Most of all, life is about perseverance and the minor art of survival.

Get off the cross. We need the wood.

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It's a shame when people skim posts. They miss out on important facts. Like the fact that I am trying and not just sitting on this.

Or mayhap I had forgotten to mention that I worked through my high school years as a basement finishing contractor to help my Dad get by until he got a (much improved) job, and only managed to get a diploma because I'm a hardcore student. Look, if you all want to know my entire story, just ask. The way I'm presenting it now makes it look like a counter to every argument thrown at me, and I know that makes me look bad. I an tell you the whole thing, start to finish.

Hell, I'm even willing to bring up the official records to prove it. There's documentation and all of that.

Chatte, if you're going to judge me based on what little you know, take the time to know the whole thing. If you want, we can even meet in person. I try to go to sloshes and the like, and I am very willing to see you face to face, especially if you know someone in radio. This might just be wonderful news!

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Should you stop searching for a SUB? HELL YES! The very idea of someone in your life situation dominating anyone? Please. Go out and play, get some sex, whatever, but don't even THINK of trying to guide someone else.

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wolvenreign:

2 of my questions / comments have gone unanswered.  Maybe if you could / would answer those, we would ALL see some improvement.

1) What is your plan for the day after your parents move?

2) Have you seen anyone about what looks like clinical depression?  I know CD when I see it.  It's been a life long "buddy" of mine.  When I hear of the "isolation" in your life, well, golly.....

A new one.....

Since you worked with your father how about you follow up on contacts from that quarter?  Different state? Get your ass there NOW.  Nothing holding you to Indy, is there?

ETA:  Your past is your past.  We all have one.  Most posters are NOT rising to the bait of "my past means my present is crap and that means my future is crap, too."

PLEASE drop those quote-within-quote posts and tell us what your FUTURE plans are......

Google should help with recording studios VERY quickly.  Good Lord, man!  SUCK IT UP!

All those posting about their pasts are really trying to show you that even the WORST situations can be resolved by simply doing that: suck it up.  A big breath makes a sigh of relief!  Why?  BEcause you are finally seeing something HAPPEN!

Cure for depression w/o meds or herbals?  Do one little thing, anything.  Just one.

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ORIGINAL: agirl

I have read the whole thread. I also, like Lance, would be interested to know what your plans might be after your parents move away as that'll be a bit of a crunch time, no doubt.

My eldest son works for a charity that helps young people get out of situations such as the one you're in, and various others, many, much worse involving addiction and debt.

He knows that being *stuck* in a situation due to circumstances, EVEN if those circumstances look pathetic to others, does not necessarily mean that the youngsters do not want to move forward. A large majority of them haven't had supportive, encouraging parents ( and I don't mean financially). Many of them missed out on vital basic education too.

He, and his co-workers provide the basic steps to shift these young people from debilitating *going no-where*  to a place where they finish up in employment of some kind, renting a small flat with some short term plans in place. Much of the job is basically providing short term emotional and practical support. It's not always easy to shift your life around on your own just because *everyone else* has/can*.

Actually, my son is very good at his job as he spent quite a few years being a bit of a loser himself in his early 20's so he can speak from bitter experience :-)

Not all people that feel *stuck* and appear negative are sat on their arses for the sake of it.

agirl