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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:24:22 AM

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:27:23 AM

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Remember, even things you delete are able to be brought back by law enforcement

not if you know what the fuck you are doing.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:32:10 AM

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Hannah.. could ya please put the axe down.. yer freakin me out ;)

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:43:52 AM

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If a subbie one day loses control and you get raped, you have NO DEFENSE.

other than an 8" knife, and this lovely little barretta that will empty its mag in seconds flat. lets see how fucking well your rape attempt goes when you've got upwards of 15 rounds of 9 mil in you.

in the immortal words of al pacino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g2wD5TaMf2k

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:54:15 AM

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Nothing to add but a gigglesnort, pretty much. Unoriginal rant is unoriginal.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:57:57 AM

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no no no, Hibbie.. teh PROPER way is "GIGGLEsnort*

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:58:49 AM

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what a fucking bore.

throws your nonsense into the fireplace with the other zillion self indulgent rules on how the world according to ___________ (insert name here) is supposed to be run.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 8:59:56 AM

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GARP,. do I get a prize?

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 9:07:14 AM

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Third, this is not always about sex. There are subs/slaves who do nothing sexual because that's not what they are being used for (domestic duties and such)

Yes, I've been in service-based (non sexual) relationships and so have male subs who post here.

OP - just because YOU have to have sex, doesn't mean everyone does.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 9:29:20 AM

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I just read his profile. What kind of person boasts about being wanted for war crimes? That's just horrific.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 9:33:10 AM

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My takeaway is "fuck me for free or I'll kill you." Between the rhetoric and the guns pics, this is the must disturbing profile I've come across.

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1. DO NOT take any money at all for anything you do. Deep personal fantasies should not have to be paid to come true. If you DO charge, you are now in a sexually oriented business, and you now have just become a whore that does not fuck. Nothing is more useless than a whore that does not fuck. You can be replaced by a crackwhore with a whip and $40. Think about it.

2. DO NOT HATE MEN. We weren't born yesterday. Anyone with a pulse can see a hate spewn profile a mile away. One day you will meet the wrong guy and he will turn on you like a pet tiger. All that pent up rage will come pouring out on little ole YOU, and you will either be very damaged or killed.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 10:41:37 AM

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I didn't see one thing about being a good domina. Just the lecture and lashing out at certain types of dominant's.

One thing to know about a domina that is dominant, is don't come to tell her how to do what she does. Don't claim to be a man that can take her away from all those boys, that is a gift, that is no where near being a sissy... with a name like Denise and then show what a gift you aren't with bitterness, wrong focus, pride that isn't pride but more attitude and the grand bit about... what a woman might do that could bring on justified rape or assault. An angry and bitter man, focused on the negative is as bad as a woman that hates men... then again... maybe she hates men because she ran into...

A man, just like you.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 10:47:48 AM

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Wow, does the OP have some issues or what?

OP, please grow up, get some therapy and move on.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 11:01:18 AM

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Well, at least you've let us all know upfront what kind of guy you are. If you think you're going to get a Domme writing this kind of shit, good luck with that.

First of all, excuse me, but your phrase "as a dominant male myself" in your OP confuses me. I just perved your profile and it says male SUBMISSIVE. Either your comment here is wrong or your profile is.

1. There are way too many male "subs" on here who merely want a fetish delivery service to service them and their sexual/fetish needs and nothing else. Just because those fantasies are deep and personal, that doesn't change anything. If you just want a Domme to be your personal fetish delivery service without concern for her as a person, with no concern for her wants and needs as well, then you damn well should be paying a Pro for it.

2. For crying out loud. If someone is writing a hateful profile, I'm assuming that they DO want everyone to see that about them. Otherwise, why would they write it? I'm thinking most of the people who write hateful profiles are just trying to act tough, thinking that will impress someone. As for your own comment, "HATE does not belong here. Leave it behind when you log on," try taking your own advice OP.

3. Maybe it's all about sex for YOU, but SOME people are actually in dynamics where no sex takes place. Stop trying to define everyone else's dynamics for them. If all you want is sex, refer to #1 for my opinion on that.

4. Again, if all you're interested in is sex and your own kinks, KEEP THE PRO IN MIND and GET OUT YOUR CREDIT CARD. I doubt that $40 crackwhores have a fully equipped dungeon and the knowledge to cater to your specific fetishes. Also, it's not a Domme's responsibility to keep you away from the crackwhores, it's your own. Have you no self-control whatsoever?? As for collared subs, I can't see any sensible Domme collaring someone who would treat her like a fetish delivery service anyway.

5. So now you are telling Dommes how to dress. Are you going to dress in formal wear all the time to match the evening gowns you expect them to wear, so as not to embarrass them? Also, since when are you a legal expert? Just because some horny wanker can't control his urges does not mean the woman has no defense. She dressed this way or that way is no defense to rape. Even nuns in full habit and little pre-pubescent girls get raped, so were they asking for it? That's bullshit.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 11:12:13 AM

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For a sub, you sure like to order people around.

I can sum up your 5 steps in just 1:
1. To be a good Domme, do exactly what I want you to do!

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 11:16:56 AM

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*snort*

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 11:26:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: hangemhigh1953

For a sub, you sure like to order people around.

I can sum up your 5 steps in just 1:
1. To be a good Domme, do exactly what I want you to do!

NICE!

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 11:50:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: hangemhigh1953

For a sub, you sure like to order people around.

I can sum up your 5 steps in just 1:
1. To be a good Domme, do exactly what I want you to do!

^5

Exactly.....such a submissive demeanor don't you think?

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 1:32:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Matildax21x

I can't add any more eloquence that what has already been said, but I want to point out, what the hell is wrong with whores and sluts? What's wrong with a woman who uses her body as a business? BDSM aside, aren't we suppose to be sexually liberated people here? Who cares about sluts? Slut and whore aren't bad words.

Was just going to say this. Sex is fun, and what is life if not the pursuit of happiness? This need for women to be gatekeepers makes me a little sick. Sex does not degrade us, male or female, it does not bring us down, and the sooner people realize that the sooner we can actually start enjoying it without having people expect women to feel ashamed afterwards.

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RE: How To Be A Good Domme 101 - 10/27/2011 2:23:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: hangemhigh1953

For a sub, you sure like to order people around.

I can sum up your 5 steps in just 1:
1. To be a good Domme, do exactly what I want you to do!

Simple, yet so perfect!!!! Great answer.

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