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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:15:39 AM   
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Shit I don't know whether to fight him or fuck him. The neurotic bitch.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:16:55 AM   
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Hey sweetie what you up to tonight?

(winks)

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:17:27 AM   
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I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.


I've been on this site for four or five years.  I have met two women who relocated here to be with me.  I have met two or three play partners.  And I've met a few friends as well.

To be honest, I've had better luck using RL events.  But I'm not complaining about my luck here.


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:17:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Shit I don't know whether to fight him or fuck him. The neurotic bitch.



*SNORT*!!!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:20:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Metatron24


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ORIGINAL: Metatron24

I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.


I met my husband on here.

My pervious long term relationship was with a man I met on here.

I know a bunch of other people who've had no problem finding partners on here.

If you're not finding what you're looking for, I'd reexamine your methods instead of damning the site and other users if I where you.
The way your profile is written it's no surprise at all that you're not finding an interested girl.

It's not them, it's you.


Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.


Previous posters have pointed out that the majority of messages a woman gets on CM are illiterate retards that don't care what their preference is, their sexuality is, or what they're seeking. I introduced a friend to CM, and she showed me some of the messages she gets.

I'd much prefer the one or two messages I get, as opposed to the mountain of bizarre badly written form letters.



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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:28:49 AM   
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Shit I don't know whether to fight him or fuck him. The neurotic bitch.


Flip you for him??


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:30:00 AM   
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Okies. I call Tails.
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Shit I don't know whether to fight him or fuck him. The neurotic bitch.


Flip you for him??




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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:33:20 AM   
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OP's idea is good.  The current drop-down menu that others have pointed out still won't filter out those that are taken.  

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:34:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

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Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.


You realize that the fact that I met men on here also means those men had success on a dating site, right?
Both men that I met on here I met because *I* contacted them first, because their profile spoke to me.

Aside from that, I know several people, of both genders, who have found partners on here.

Again, considering your profile, I'm not in the least bit surprised that you're not having any luck...

And considering the attitude you've displayed on this thread, and the fact that you obviously feel that all the misfortune that befalls you is automatically somebody else's fault, and there is no possible reason for you to have a critical look at your own actions, it would be a miracle if you could find, be it off or online, a girl willing to be in a long term relationship with you.

So just because out of every 100 males there is one or two guys that enjoyed success it doesn't disprove the fact that remaining vast majority of the guys are waisting their time.
Of course it's easy for you to be picky about every little detail about a guy like his forum posts etc., because your getting tones of replies to your profile,
but if you were getting the same number of replies most of the guys get you wouldn't be talking like that.
because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,
but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests,
because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides,
and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:35:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Metatron24

I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.


You have to love the intellect that is need to produce a line like "a girl who looks even remotely doable".



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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:38:44 AM   
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Sheesh Red I wasn't even going to go there.

Come to Blighty & marry me.
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Metatron24

I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.


You have to love the intellect that is need to produce a line like "a girl who looks even remotely doable".






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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:40:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Shit I don't know whether to fight him or fuck him. The neurotic bitch.


Either way pics or it didn't happen

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:41:37 AM   
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So just because out of every 100 males there is one or two guys that enjoyed success it doesn't disprove the fact that remaining vast majority of the guys are waisting their time.
Of course it's easy for you to be picky about every little detail about a guy like his forum posts etc., because your getting tones of replies to your profile,
but if you were getting the same number of replies most of the guys get you wouldn't be talking like that.
because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,
but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests,
because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides, and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.



re: first bolded part: WOW.. the bigot appears!

re: the second bolded part; Well, then find yourself a mail-order bride and be DONE with the "stuck up american bitches" !! SIMPLE!!

by the way, mr avergae guy with a degree.. it is spelled WASTED, NOT "waisted"

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:44:47 AM   
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Coffee & snot down both nostrils.

Jeeze-oh!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:45:29 AM   
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you reads my posts you takes your chances.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:47:18 AM   
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Some of you people could really use your own chatroom.  

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:47:54 AM   
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So just because out of every 100 males there is one or two guys that enjoyed success it doesn't disprove the fact that remaining vast majority of the guys are waisting their time.
Of course it's easy for you to be picky about every little detail about a guy like his forum posts etc., because your getting tones of replies to your profile,
but if you were getting the same number of replies most of the guys get you wouldn't be talking like that.
because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,
but American chicks feel so picky because there's way too much dudes who spam them with requests,
because of the continual influx of immigrants into this country, who are by and large males completely skewes male to female ratio.

Guess what there are plenty of cute chicks in 3d world shithole countries that would be happy to date average guy like me as mail order brides,
and who wont be stuck up American bitches who just want to sit back and shop arround all day for some rich guy who makes 6 figures
even if their own looks are just average.


I've had exactly 2 unsolicited mails from men this week... so yeah... sure... you can count that as "tons of mail" if you'd like.

Implying that I'm a picky American chick shopping around for rich guys is rather humorous, considering that I moved to this country to move in with a man I met on CM...

But again, it's your profile that's the problem dude...
I've said that now, what? 4 times? And you can't be bothered to ask why I may feel that way so you could perhaps see if the critic is valid and change some things to your own benefit?

You don't care about actually attracting a woman, you're a spoiled brat who wants to get laid, and feel that you're entitled to such because you happen to want it.
Women owe you, don't they?
They owe you their interest by virtue of you wanting it, and it's in no way, shape or form your responsibility to make sure you're actually presenting yourself in a ways that WILL be attracting to women.

In fact, you can have a profile like yours -that's TOTALLY a turn off and a red flag to most women- and STILL be entitled to get as much pussy as you happen to want, because it's not because you did something wrong when writing your profile that you're not finding what you're looking for.... no... no... it's THEM! How dare they not be interested in a guy that puts a bunch of red flags in his profile! How dare they have standards and look for MEN instead of spoil self-centered arrogant spoiled little boys?
How dare they, don't they know they owe you cause you happen to be lonely and horny?

And if it's not them, it's CM, right? It's the site that's wrong!
In fact, the whole world is unfairly against you getting laid, and you're own actions and writing has NO influence on it whatsoever...

< Message edited by Ishtarr -- 11/6/2011 9:49:52 AM >


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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:47:58 AM   
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dont you have a mirror to go masturbate on or something?

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:49:33 AM   
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Having a degree round here is nothing special. Hell, some of us have more than one!

You're not having much success because women who peruse your profile see nothing about you, beyond the kink.

And just to dispel your ideas that it's easier for women - it took me 8 years to find the man I'm with now. I dated plenty, went to events and eventually started chatting to a man who was polite, friendly and didn't talk about kink all the time. His profile contained no whining at all, and he was prepared to wait a couple of months before we could get together for a face to face meeting.

Tone down the impatience and work on your profile and you might have half a chance of finding someone.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:49:57 AM   
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because being a normal looking younger guy who has a degree means I am entitled to dating a normal looking chick,



What the FUCK?  You really think that the All-Powerful has some sort of computerized matchup program that reviews your criteria and, if you fit His criteria of looks and college degree, spits out a woman for you?

No way.  Not even remotely close.

1.  Personality matters a lot.  Especially to women.  Many go for good looking jerks, but a lot don't.  And there ARE other criteria as well.
2. The world doesn't owe you a woman.  Just like no predator sits back and waits for their prey to come to them (okay, spiders and ant lions do), I haven't known any successful men that don't go out and hustle for a woman.


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