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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:47:35 AM

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Crap I feel all undomesticated now.

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Is that the Uncle Ben's boil in a bag instant relationship?

nooo that's too slow -- where's the microwave kind?

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:49:04 AM

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Aside from the above, which pointed out to you that people don't have to be looking to be on this site, this is a networking site as much as it's a dating site, there is also the fact that very many people who are on here and are in a relationship are looking for a third person.

So maybe you should try reading profiles, instead of bitching that other people are to blame for your own rudeness and incompetence while you're searching...

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:50:35 AM

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Aside from the above, which pointed out to you that people don't have to be looking to be on this site, this is a networking site as much as it's a dating site, there is also the fact that very many people who are on here and are in a relationship are looking for a third person.

So maybe you should try reading profiles, instead of bitching that other people are to blame for your own rudeness and incompetence while you're searching...

But...but that would be LOGICAL! [/sarcasm off]

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:53:21 AM

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Yea but 99% of times the peope looking for a 3d is just some dude who is using his girlfriend to try to score a threesome

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:54:30 AM

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Like ya wouldn't given half a chance.

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Yea but 99% of times the peope looking for a 3d is just some dude who is using his girlfriend to try to score a threesome

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 7:59:25 AM

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Yea but 99% of times the peope looking for a 3d is just some dude who is using his girlfriend to try to score a threesome

How would you know, you can't even be bothered to read profiles. You are hardly in a position to judge.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:00:07 AM

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With that being said, it would be great if a little drop down box could be added for people to indicate their r/s status such as "actively looking" "looking for conversation only", etc. so you could filter out all those profiles.

there is. but men fucking ignore it anyway, they ignore whether you are listed as dominant or submissive, hell they ignore it when you put list yourself as a lesbian, say you are taken and not looking, and your whole fucking profile is all about the three other women you live with. heather <whose profile clearly states that she is an owned lesbian slave in a poly lesbian household who is not looking> still gets mail from fucking sub men wanting to submit to her.

you and the other cock wagglers start paying attention to what we do list in our profiles and we'll start giving a rat's ass how much of your precious time you waste not knowing how to use the fucking search function.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:21:33 AM

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I don't see it the same as you do, OP. Back when I was actively looking, it went something like this:

Do I like her pic(s)?
Do I like her writing style? That covered content and form both.
Is she currently available?
Do I think that there might be incompatibility? This could include her having my religion on her Hates or Hard Limits list, or identifying strongly with another religion. It could have her having as a Loves or Lives For an activity that I Hated or had as a Hard Limit, or vice versa.
When I read her description of what she was looking for, how close do I match?
If she's bi or a switch, did I feel that I, as a straight Dom, could accommodate? Would she drop those aspects or would poly be a possibility?
Was she willing to relocate or local?

A woman's availability is a relatively quick check compared to the rest. And even if she's not available, I might decide to see if a strictly-friends relationship is possible.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:23:11 AM

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Yea but 99% of times the peope looking for a 3d is just some dude who is using his girlfriend to try to score a threesome

So what?

They are here looking for somebody, and are thus completely legitimate in having an active profile set to search.

It's non of your fucking business what they are looking for, or how, or why. You need to read profiles if you don't want contact with them, or learn to actually use the search and filter features properly...

Great track record so far too btw... 2 out of 2 treads moved.

If you'd spend a little less time bitching about everybody else not doing things properly and a little more time composing a decent profile, reading other people's profile, and not sending copy/paste messages, you may actually have a shot at getting lucky.

Instead, you're just here ruining your chances by proving to the anybody you may mail in the future what a self-entittled, arrogant sour-puss you are.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:44:14 AM

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I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:47:38 AM

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That's where patience comes in and it appears you have none. It's not us, cupcake, it's YOU.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:49:13 AM

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I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.

I met my husband on here.

My pervious long term relationship was with a man I met on here.

I know a bunch of other people who've had no problem finding partners on here.

If you're not finding what you're looking for, I'd reexamine your methods instead of damning the site and other users if I where you.
The way your profile is written it's no surprise at all that you're not finding an interested girl.

It's not them, it's you.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:49:45 AM

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and any woman that checks your profile has the option of viewing your forum posts with just one click.. WELL DONE!!

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 8:56:52 AM

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and any woman that checks your profile has the option of viewing your forum posts with just one click.. WELL DONE!!

thank you! Not looking for women what am I doing wrong?

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:05:35 AM

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Oh just man the fuck up & put up some kind of a fight. Sheeit some of you Doms make us subbie types look like fuckin recon vets ya pussy!

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I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:05:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

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I'm not afraid of ruining too much of my chances because I've been on this website for a couple of years and it has been nothing but a waste of time thus far,
considering any profile of a girl who looks even remotely doable is getting bombarded by horny males within the first 5 minutes,
virtually eliminating any chance of a success for single males.

I met my husband on here.

My pervious long term relationship was with a man I met on here.

I know a bunch of other people who've had no problem finding partners on here.

If you're not finding what you're looking for, I'd reexamine your methods instead of damning the site and other users if I where you.
The way your profile is written it's no surprise at all that you're not finding an interested girl.

It's not them, it's you.

Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:11:27 AM

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Am I supposed to be impressed by the fact that you being a CHICK had success on a dating site?
Wait let me guess, you created a profile, then wait 5 minutes until your mailbox filled up then picked the best guy.

Now try being a guy, you only get 1 - 2 replies for every 100 messages you send out ...
Online dating for chicks is so much simpler than for guys it's not even remotely fair.
The ratio is seriously messed up.

You realize that the fact that I met men on here also means those men had success on a dating site, right?
Both men that I met on here I met because *I* contacted them first, because their profile spoke to me.

Aside from that, I know several people, of both genders, who have found partners on here.

Again, considering your profile, I'm not in the least bit surprised that you're not having any luck...

And considering the attitude you've displayed on this thread, and the fact that you obviously feel that all the misfortune that befalls you is automatically somebody else's fault, and there is no possible reason for you to have a critical look at your own actions, it would be a miracle if you could find, be it off or online, a girl willing to be in a long term relationship with you.

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:12:40 AM

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*applauds Ishtarr!!*

and *applauds Nine!!*

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:13:18 AM

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I think it's safe to say this site is intended mostly for people who are interested in hooking up, but there are a lot of women on here who are already collared. etc. which results in wasted time when you try to message them.

The first line of my profile says I'm not looking but that doesn't stop men from trying to hook up with me.

Boston has an active kink scene. Have you tried http://www.boston-tng.org/ ?

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RE: Add Relationship Status To Search Options, Please! - 11/6/2011 9:14:45 AM

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