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RE: Pet peeves - 11/18/2011 7:03:16 PM

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/18/2011 7:19:20 PM

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The pictures of other women on a guy's profile. I get it that it's like an adult picture book for 'this is what I will do to you' or 'look! I've had sex!', but holy cow that's skeezy. That really bugs me. Other nude women pictures on a guy's profile bother me more than them posting their dick pictures, and I'm not real fond of those either.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 1:02:29 AM

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random folks trying to add me to their friends list... it even says in my profile, I dont add people I have never interacted with!

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 2:35:37 AM

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Sooo.... No BDSM peeves yet then lol?

I guess my pet peeve is how small the scene is sometimes, when two people fall out the whole scene splits and creates tension everywhere. It settles down eventually, and it always seems to be growing so I remain hopeful for the future.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 5:54:54 AM

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My pet peeve?
Hot chicks that aren't sucking my dick.
I mean really, what's wrong with you ladies...
:-)

Hopefully this means that us ugly chicks are safely out of the path of your wrath. Yes?

Hey, all I can see from my perspective is the part in her hair, so no

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 6:17:21 AM

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but is there a part in YOUR hair for her to see?

(note the 5!!!)

*ducks n runs*

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 8:19:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

My pet peeve?
Hot chicks that aren't sucking my dick.
I mean really, what's wrong with you ladies...
:-)

I don't even know how to respond without appearing either egotistical or lacking self confidence. Luckily I'm too far for it to matter.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 9:05:18 AM

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Mine would be people I know not returning emails (especially if there is a question in there).. I remove them from "my friends list" really fast.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 9:44:55 AM

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Flaking. A meet is not a commitment, it's just a necessary step towards a possible commitment, without a meet, chances of a commitment are slim to none.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 9:50:21 AM

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Mine would be people I know not returning emails (especially if there is a question in there).. I remove them from "my friends list" really fast.

So (assuming they responded in the past) you don't allow that maybe they had something to attend to that was more important than answering your email. The last part of your post just made me laugh, do you imagine someone will be upset because someone online removed them from an online friends list?

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 9:55:11 AM

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Sooo.... No BDSM peeves yet then lol?

Okay, here's a BDSM pet peeve. I hate it when I am in a first (or second) meeting with a Domme, and she asks me "Soooo, ummmmmm what do you want to do?" REALLY??!! I don't meet with pro-Dommes, so since she is supposed to be a lifestyle Domme, I assume that SHE is going to have some ideas of what she wants to do.

Sure, I could outline a complete scene for her, but then I'd feel like I was topping from the bottom. My kink is power exchange. I want HER to be in charge. If I wanted to dictate how everything was going to go, I'd go pay a pro-Domme.

Is it asking too much to expect a Domme to have some idea of what she wants a willing sub to do?

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 9:57:51 AM

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It's good to see you posting again Roch, albeit in a grumpy mood. I hope it goes away soon!

Sorry about that, Poise. I guess that getting stood up had me feeling kind of grumpy. I needed to vent to get it off my chest.

I'll try to be more positive.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:01:03 AM

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Not so much a "pet peeve", per se, but DUMB AS FUCK -- and completely fucking transparent.

An email from some hot sub/slave, talking up a storm about some allegedly GREAT Dom/Master (who just so happens to be on CM), and suggesting contact with said allegedly GREAT Dom/Master. Yeah... suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure!!!

Fuckin' idiots.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:02:26 AM

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did you get the "new social network" related spam, too? =p

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:02:35 AM

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Flaking on meeting, i.e., failing to demonstrate even basic vanilla respect and reliability.
Que sera, sera. Le sigh!
Edited to add: at least it shows their true colours early: yellah

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Flaking.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:04:35 AM

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did you get the "new social network" related spam, too? =p

Nope... the nits can't email anymore.

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:24:07 AM

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but is there a part in YOUR hair for her to see? (note the 5!!!)

*ducks n runs*

Nah. I keep it all sort and spikey
Besides, I'll never be kneeling in front of her so it's a frivolous conjecture:-)

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 10:29:35 AM

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well, if she has her face all up close and personal.. unless you blindfold her, she'll notice if there is a part... She will also notice the short and spiky (blindfolded or not.. but I think you LIKE that... ;) )

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 12:05:22 PM

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well, if she has her face all up close and personal.. unless you blindfold her, she'll notice if there is a part... She will also notice the short and spiky (blindfolded or not.. but I think you LIKE that... ;) )

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/19/2011 1:29:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Buzzzz

Mine would be people I know not returning emails (especially if there is a question in there).. I remove them from "my friends list" really fast.

Ack, I have been guilty of that but not with you. Several times since I came back under this username I have lost internet service for days or even weeks at a time. One time I was upset and stayed offline for a while, but this was back in April. After scrolling back about 20 pages to answer mail I reach my limit. Sometimes I have had mail I haven't opened and it was so deep in there I was tearing my hair out trying to figure out where the frack it was buried.

Luckily now, I found my sub and advertise this in my profile and so my mail fell down drastically. Yay!

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As for my own pet peeves, I have a lot in common with previous posters but will add another one...married men who feel entitled to have other women on the side and expect Dommes to be crawling on their knees in gratitude...for the opportunity to become their little piece on the side. Reading mail from potential subs/slaves was a lot like wading hip deep in sewer sludge while trying to find something of value.

To Rochsub...sorry to hear you were stood up. About scening on a first or second date...sounds like you were not very close to those women at first and they didn't know much about you. Like them, I tend to ask a lot of questions including those about what they want and hard limits. I put them at ease and start with things they want...and then gradually take over as I go deeper into my topping headspace.

If someone doesn't belong to me and topping them is still new, I don't know if I enjoy dominating them or if it is only about the S&M or bondage/kink. Generally, I have to care about someone to want to dominate him at hello. If someone is MINE, not just bottoming for me, the scene is entirely different.

Sometimes it's about D/s chemistry and not "Is she a weal Dominant?"

Also...when I switched sides of the kneel, I spent time getting the taste of topping in my mouth to see what I liked and didn't enjoy. The topping I did was friendly and I did not try to take power. I made all of this clear while we were negotiating. (Maybe some of the Dommes you are talking about are still new to this. Have patience and see what happens...with some of us, the need to posess someone builds over time and we do not pretend to feel what simply isn't there yet. I want to boss my boy around because I love him.)

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