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RE: Pet peeves - 11/30/2011 9:29:17 AM   
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Thought of a couple more really peevish ones (to me). Most my examples use guys because that's who I deal with, sorry. I would be more equal if I had other data to work with.

1. People that can't communicate for beans by writing. If this is a problem for you, then why are you trying to write on a computer site which is primarily written communication? Not only are they horrible at getting across what they want to say, they seem flabbergasted that people don't instantly understand them. Then they get pissy at the 'assumptions' and start in with more poorly written nonsense that no one gets. Let me just buy you a shovel instead, and you can bury yourself now instead of digging yourself in deeper with every post/email.

2. Why is it that soooo many Dominant men feel that a true slave/submissive doesn't get to choose? These D's seem to find preferences, limits, or wants on the part of a s type woman horrifying, I mean what is the world coming to? So, their understanding of what submission is to them is now a blanket assumption over the rest of the world. Why does this tunnel vision exist and why don't they see their view as fairly ridiculous?

"Ok, Mr. Domlypants, you're right, EVERYONE KNOWS that s types don't get to pick anything.

EVERYONE KNOWS that CM is a kink site for hookups only, not for anything social, or heaven forbid for dating.

It is a crying shame that you can't get your dick attended to, because EVERYONE KNOWS if you come here and put the word out that you want that, then you should have many lovely young hotties fighting for the chance to please your dick.

3. Bouncing off 2., this tunnel vision sometimes makes invincibility cloaks. The D's who believe they dictate to the world with their blanket attitudes many times seem to feel that their Dominance is a super-hero invincibility cloak that presents them in all their Domly glory to the world. Therefore any woman who enters the picture with questions, preferences, skepticism, gets an appalled, disdainful response, because calling yourself a Dominant gives you an automatic invincibility cloak that no inferior organism may question. If you do, you are not a 'real' woman or submissive, you are an anomaly and a clone of the ex because didn't you see where he called himself Dominant? Why is it that people think that calling themselves something means that's what they automatically are now? It's got a little something to do with you too....just sayin.

4. So what's with the guys who think that women are just standing by just waiting to be claimed? Seriously? Mr. Domlypants you'd want this woman who just tosses aside her life to take up with you because you proclaimed it to be so? How special, that really shows a higher thinking process on her part, I can see where you'd want that . Or Mr. Subbyshorts- you really want ANYONE to Dominate you? It's the anyone at all thing that gets me with so many men on here. They truly seem to want a woman who would take up with anyone and not be selective at all...? Ewwww....

Reminds me of a profile once where some guy was offering himself to anyone on a more or less continual basis, and if you wanted a piece of that you should go to the donut shop where he usually hangs out and give him the secret signal. He included an address and description of himself. Thought I'd piss myself laughing at the thought of the drive in donut shop/sex fulfillment center and of  guy who would spend his days there on the hopes of having his penis attended to. Such lofty hopes and dreams.



^^^^
What she said times 2!

Sometimes it all just leaves you stunned, and shaking your head in wonder. Oh, me oh my oh!

< Message edited by Duskypearls -- 11/30/2011 9:31:04 AM >

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/30/2011 8:54:49 PM   
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Thanks DP!
Thought of another one from Janah's thread on drive by Doms...

Guys who travel to your area regularly and want a 'relationship' with someone that coincides with their travel. They want a regular toy to screw when they're away from home so they don't have to keep hunting down new ones. When I nicely say no, that really doesn't work for me, I'd like someone to do things with also on my schedule, they get pretty pissy.

Not sure why this group seems to get more cranky about being told no, but it certainly seems to happen more often. The girl in every port syndrome strikes fairly often, and the guys who subscribe to it seem to feel entitled to have their regular nookie but the women can't say it doesn't work for them because dammit they'll be here on a regular schedule! What more could we want! Demanding bitches...

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RE: Pet peeves - 11/30/2011 10:06:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel

Thanks DP!
Thought of another one from Janah's thread on drive by Doms...

Guys who travel to your area regularly and want a 'relationship' with someone that coincides with their travel. They want a regular toy to screw when they're away from home so they don't have to keep hunting down new ones. When I nicely say no, that really doesn't work for me, I'd like someone to do things with also on my schedule, they get pretty pissy.

Not sure why this group seems to get more cranky about being told no, but it certainly seems to happen more often. The girl in every port syndrome strikes fairly often, and the guys who subscribe to it seem to feel entitled to have their regular nookie but the women can't say it doesn't work for them because dammit they'll be here on a regular schedule! What more could we want! Demanding bitches...



I know what you mean, girlie, they're like, "Any port in a storm." I think bigger, more like, "Any storm in a port," and it had better be a real humdinger, I won't crack open my umbrella for anything less than a gale.

You really got me laughing with that Mr. Domlypants. Thanks muchly.

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RE: Pet peeves - 12/2/2011 4:51:22 PM   
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wow. I come on CM to amuse myself, not looking for anything, or anyone. found this thread, and most of it cracked me up. I probably hit a few peoples piss off buttons,with my lack of a profile, but I've found that ANY damn profile gets responses I dont like. if I put in there I'm looking for friends only, theres always someone that thinks that doesnt apply to them. I identify as a Dominant, theres a Domme that thinks I just need to meet her to bring out my inner sub. I also probably annoy a few more people because I dont bother to capitolize shit. I make chainmail jewelry, so I'm typing with a pair of pliers in each hand and a pile of rings on my desk, so fuck a bunch of shift key! I really dont have any peeves about CM. I mean, whats the point? if I was trying to find a subbie, or slave or anything in between, maybe I'd care. if I knew anybody on here well enough to give a shit about their opinion, maybe I would care. as it is, I find that this site is like the rest of the world, there are some I agree with, others I think are full of shit. there are those I respect, and those I have nothing but contempt for, some I wouldn't mind socializing with, and many MANY more that I'm very glad I'll never meet.
Bill

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