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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:18:58 AM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah I dont really like dressing the part either. Just what My Dom means to me is most important. I prefer to be myself. Friends I have also have said that ever since they met me they see that I seem to act kinda childish. You know like a teen. about 17- 18. Not fully developed in the mind yet for the critical decision making skills for my life. As a teen mom at 16 I have not really gotten the chance to grow up. Hell sometimes I wonder why I made it past the teen years with all that was going on. I now know I needed something in my life. Something to help me grow and learn the finer points of being a woman, mother, lover, human being, and now submissive. And I am enjoying learning all of this.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:45:52 AM   
Morpheus07


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Status: offline 		It sounds like you and your Dom have an excellent grasp on reality, and you are both in this for the betterment of the other. What you do within that is much less important than what you get from it. I wish you both well.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:48:29 AM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		Thank you morpheus for the warm wishes. The same to you hun.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:55:07 AM   
CanadianGuy


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Status: offline 		Age play has nothing to do with:

- adult babies (wearing diapers and sucking on pacifiers, etc)
- incest (sex between family members)
- pedophilia (sex with little kids)
- wanting your Dad (or Mom)

I'm not sure who told you age play was "icky" or wrong.  Nobody who actually understands it, especially within this community, would do that. 

I'm "Daddy" to my girl, and have been since shortly after we met.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:57:33 AM   
Morpheus07


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quote:

Age play has nothing to do with:

- adult babies (wearing diapers and sucking on pacifiers, etc)
- incest (sex between family members)
- pedophilia (sex with little kids)
- wanting your Dad (or Mom)

I'm not sure who told you age play was "icky" or wrong. Nobody who actually understands it, especially within this community, would do that.

I'm "Daddy" to my girl, and have been since shortly after we met.



Well, you would have a strong arguement from most of the submissive little girls (not young girls BTW)I have talked to on here. And "your girl" is 16 and you are 31...So....

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:57:53 AM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		This is the best example that I have ever seen expressed. It sounds like you have a dynamic that is healthy and exactly what you both need and want. I have also kinda wondered about them. I am my father's only girl. I still call him Daddy. So it is something that has made me go, huh? in the past, but when there is a loving relationship, that is truly all that matters.

Well my opinion anywho..

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 11:58:04 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CanadianGuy

Age play has nothing to do with:

- adult babies (wearing diapers and sucking on pacifiers, etc)
- incest (sex between family members)
- pedophilia (sex with little kids)
- wanting your Dad (or Mom)

I'm not sure who told you age play was "icky" or wrong.  Nobody who actually understands it, especially within this community, would do that. 

I'm "Daddy" to my girl, and have been since shortly after we met.


I agree with most of what you wrote, but age play can be indicative of diaper wearing... some age players play back that far. That is ok for them, but not ALL age play is about that. Daddy Dom dynamic is not about age at all necessarily, it is a mindset more than an age set.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 12:01:16 PM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		Many of people who dont understand it have told me that it was sick. That is why I asked. What is so wrong with it. I have seen here in the collarme community though more are accepting to it. I asked this on another forum for another site and they people there are just so rude and mean about it. I have gotten emails that have made me cry because of what they say. But to find such a warm and loving community here actually has helped me to better understand the reasons behind those emails. They just didnt know how to put into words their real concerns about my particular lifestyle with my Daddy Dom. Unfortunately those are the ones who also dont have the proper understanding that everyone likes something different. As one would say. Fifferent strokes for different folks. Thank you for your reply.. I wish you and your well. Dani

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 12:05:45 PM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		one thing I do not agree with is rocking the cradle. Oh hell NOOOO. that is a no no by any means. That is my opinion.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 12:09:03 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		here is something about it to inform others of what Daddy Dom means http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 12:14:02 PM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much julia for that link. That is exactly what My Daddy Dom is to me. That is a better explination of it than I have heard so far. Many thoughtful thanks to you hun. warm tender wishes to you. Dani

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 12:51:56 PM   
NastyDaddy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddiesLilGirl06
My mother came up for a visit and knows how I am with my Dom. The relationship as well as me calling him Daddy. And why I do. She loves the hell out of my Dom. She even started to call him Daddy after about four days of being here with us for vacation. She even told me that he is the best man I have ever been with. She now knows the importance of my lifestyle with him is to me.


That's one of the most precious things I've ever heard. Big up for your Mom!

Daddy/daughter roleplay is just that... whever tossed the pedophile stereotype into the areana is typical though.

You gave a great description of your dynamic and I'd place you very high on the awareness scale, good on ya!

That pedo crap pisses me off too, Daddy/daughter is not about chester the molester in his raincoat hanging out by schools, or the old Jethro Tull tune Aqualung... watching the pretty panties run. Pedophiles operate solo and are predatory, they are not part of a deep loving committed team. It's hard to describe the kink, I'd say you could draw a parallel of the taboo nature by thinking of a very conservative nilla woman who gets off of on being a total slut in her hidden life... something she is never ever supposed to do... sssshhhhh!

It's hard to explain something that is so natural, to me it just is and I don't have to wrestle with it in any way. 

Daddy/daughter runs the spectrum from AB/diapers through the notorious catholic schooolgirl to all ages of  ladies who just simply enjoy the D/d kink, while all the latter are more often not AB's, have no use for diapers... would be spanked if they showed up with one, lol.

Label for the atypical stereotypist who watches Law & Order reruns too many times:   Pedophobic 






  


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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 1:37:47 PM   
SmokeyM


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Status: offline 		There is nothing wrong with age play. Many don't 'grow' out of it for which ever reasons. Though its just a part of your and your Dom's taste within the lifestyle. If others don't like it, well that is their fault for judging something they shouldn't.
 
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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 1:43:01 PM   
DrkAngl


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Status: offline 		It's great that you two are happy. It's a plus that he likes kids too. LOL.
My son has Autism, so finding someone that will deal with temper tantrums from an 11 year old can be difficult.  Just part of his condition. He's a rager, unfortunately. With his size, not many guys want to deal with it. And if they are totally submissive they are out of luck. My son's Dominant and would take over in a heart beat. Poor fellow wouldn't stand a  chance. lol  Needless to say, it's a day to day challenge just to be far more dominant than my son is. Wears me out sometimes.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 1:43:08 PM   
MrThorns


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Status: offline 		I don't see any problem with ageplay between consenting adults.  I think there are a lot of people who feel as though ageplay is some sort of sick path towards becoming a pedophile....which acocunts for all  the squickyness about it.

Just as with any other consentual activity that some of us participate in, there will be people who are uneasy about the practice.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 1:44:56 PM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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Status: offline 		Thank you Nasty for your view. Yes indeed a one up for my mom. Its great that she is accepting to the whole of my life. Dani

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 3:29:35 PM   
MrRodgers


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Status: offline 		There is nothing wrong with age play at all if that is something enjoyed by the parties involved. Call me old-school and Iam the guy whose idea of breathplay was actually blowing on my partners skin...age play then involved an actual and sizable age difference. The dom being the daddy and the sub his little girl. It is in the beautiful virtuousness of age play with little or no age difference that confirms the dynamic and the special, visceral and even emotional feelings enjoyed by both daddy and his little girl. Without the age difference, age play becomes role play and need not be anything more or less than simply for the pleasures in playing that role.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 3:47:36 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Different strokes for different folks.

Speaking from my own perspective, there is a ton wrong with Daddylittle girl scenario...for me it would be like living in a scenario that just wasnt true for me. I'm an adult..why would I need to act like a little kid? If I wanted to do that, I could go to some "find the child within" seminar...but..to live it on a day to day basis would mean that some part of my character hasnt matured. Thats how I see it from my perspective.

As far as what other people do and how they see it, Ive got no clue, cause I'm not them, if its working, cool. I wouldnt feel one way or the other in regards to other people choosing to live in a relationship like that, its their life, their choice.

I'm sure there are things Master and I do that other people wouldnt agree with...such is life.

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 4:42:35 PM   
NastyDaddy


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ORIGINAL: slavejali
..why would I need to act like a little kid?


Good question 

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RE: What is so wrong with age play? - 5/27/2006 4:53:32 PM   
VvShadowspawnvV


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Status: offline 		Master is not a "Daddy".  i am not a "little girl".  BUT being with Master sometimes makes me feel childlike in certain ways.  i am not allowed to hide my feelings from Him- i must experience them and express them as they happen- the way i did as a child, before hiding them became the done thing either for reasons of politeness, privacy, protection, or coolness.  Being with Him also brings back a certain type of safe feeling i associate with childhood- an "It's ok to go down the big slide- I'll catch you" kind of feeling.  When i was a child, i was lonely.  i never related to other kids, i never opened up to anyone, i felt like a freak.  Now, with Him, i feel the acceptance i needed so badly then.  i once asked Him if He would please be Master to the "little girl me", too.  He said, "Of course, silly". 

Ok, so this wasn't really about ageplay... but it gives a few of the reasons i think ageplay is the opposite of "icky".  =)

becca

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