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RE: Online domination - 12/17/2011 7:21:05 PM

lizi

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I'm just curious as to how often male doms think they can dominate a girl online. So, I had this experience with a so called dom who was across the globe. Now, I like talking to people from around the world. He is from the UK so I started talking with him. There was no real chit chat about him or me. Odd, right? Isn't the point of a dating site to get to know somebody? Anyway, all he wanted to do was tell me what to do. He wanted to throw out all of these 'lifestyle sayings' to me. He also wanted to let me know about all the wannabe 'self-taught' doms out there. I'm guessing he is an academy trained dom. He wanted me to write his screen name on various body parts and email the pictures to him. He wanted me to do a ton of things on my webcam for him. However, he has 3 webcams and not one of them work. I was very ill yesterday and was vomiting and he wanted me to get naked on cam for him. I'm just wondering how many doms out there are like this. To me, it's a joke.

Maybe this is the fastest way for this type of guy to see if someone is a good match for him. Yeah, I don't get it either and it actually works for me in the opposite way, if someone tries it then I know he's not for me, but there are people out there that want the instant D/s and think maybe it'll happen if they act like this is the way it's supposed to go. Sometimes it does work, most s types have stories of when they did foolish things because they wanted to and also thought they were 'supposed' to do them.

For me it's a good laugh when a guy tries something like what you described, for some woman it might be a dream come true. Who knows. Some guy wrote me the other day, "Want to play?" I've never spoken or written to him before, never knew he existed. There are no pictures on either of our profiles, and his profile was almost blank. And yet...here he was asking me to get up close and personal with a complete stranger. Wtf?

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RE: Online domination - 12/17/2011 7:21:07 PM

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ROFLMAO!

Guess I will need a different kind of thread. Something about fakes and everyone disappearing! Damn wench, you are putting me through the paces!

LMAO thanks for the giggle Both of you!

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RE: Online domination - 12/17/2011 7:28:19 PM

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But, but, but... you should see how I handle a whip online!

Just seen a vid of a male sub being 'whipped' by his online Mistress, or rather him going round in small circles whacking his own butt with a crop.

It was rather like watching a whippet chasing its own tail.

From my point of view, there is a humiliation aspect there that is interesting and personally, I get a kick out of watching him do something he would never do otherwise.
But its because its HIM doin it..while I would much rather be there to do it to him...some needs can be met online, lots cant:)
I certainly dont wanna watch some random HNG saying look what I will do for you.
When you have seen a random submittive guy stick an apple up his ass... on cam.. its boring. seeing MY pet doi it? much different(not that I have asked or would, its not on my desire list)

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RE: Online domination - 12/17/2011 7:32:43 PM

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I'm with Lucy on this. Someone that I am involved with, have been in person with... I can find some fun in cam play. Especially when you mix sandpaper with rubbing alcohol!

Now we're dancin!

Cam or online just for the sake of some fun or the only way a relationship takes place isn't my thing. It can be a start... but if it won't go further and most don't... then, no thanks.

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RE: Online domination - 12/17/2011 7:42:02 PM

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Tis always a girl's pleasure to bring laughter to such lovely Mistresses!

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RE: Online domination - 12/18/2011 12:02:36 AM

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RE: Online domination - 12/18/2011 1:13:28 AM

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But, but, but... you should see how I handle a whip online!

Just seen a vid of a male sub being 'whipped' by his online Mistress, or rather him going round in small circles whacking his own butt with a crop.

It was rather like watching a whippet chasing its own tail.