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Original: Arturas

Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well.

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ORIGINAL: brder

Lizi - no, I just find that many submissives here want a "Master" who does everything for them...sometimes when I ask them up front and sometimes it comes out later after they 'commit'

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well.

Every time you put forth this theory, forum members, me included, tell you this is not true yet you persist in repeating this, which is really annoying.

For the record, I've met 12 men from this site who were local to me, submitted to some of them, and am now living with a man to whom I submit.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Unless you have had another profile and came to hide behind this one, you have been on this site for a matter of a few days and you have had some commit in that time? If you are concerned with the integrity of the submissives and their submission, maybe you might consider having a bit of your own. Does a real dom hide behind a nickname to come and ask a question, complain or point something out? Why hide? You have either hidden who you are on another profile for which you made these commitments with these greedy little sucker submissives or you have been committing to something within hours, multiple times if your words here have any truth to them.

I call bullshit on the mighty dom-like persona, calling bull shit on those greedy princess type submissives.

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ORIGINAL: poise

Let's pretend we are talking about vegetarians instead of submissive women.
Would you expect everyone that you dangle a carrot in front of to want to take a bite?
You have to inspire the hunger, and be the sustenance she needs.
Until then, you're just a carrot.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well.

Every time you put forth this theory, forum members, me included, tell you this is not true yet you persist in repeating this, which is really annoying.

For the record, I've met 12 men from this site who were local to me, submitted to some of them, and am now living with a man to whom I submit.

Lemme chime in.

For obvious reasons, I should mention DarkStevensGirl.  She chose to make a profile here after seeing the time I spend on cm. 

I've met two women from the site who ended up relocating to Colorado.  One stayed with me six months.  One was not that compatible romantically, but both are still friends with me, and the less-compatible one is renting a room from me.

I've met, platonically at a party, Greedy, Lusciouslips, MoGa, outhere69, hejira, KneelforAnne, and some others that have since faded from the site.

CusterLots and evalstnatculer were over at a BBQ last year.  I've met switch2please and slavegyrl71 just to meet them and say hi.  I've met bbwsub4olderdom, DominicsJoy, and several other folks at the Longmont munch and said hi.  Unfortunately, I have never been there when OtterSwim and SthrnComfort have attended - I'd love to meet them.  I've met SirSnake, BelovedRiver, SilverMegan, kinkykittyplaykat, AMurderofCrows, and a bunch more at local play parties.

I've met one woman who lives two hours away for a couple of play sessions.

I've met DuskyPearls and she's attended a few parties with myself and my sub.

That's NOT COUNTING the people that I've talked to over the phone and emailed with but not met in person, and the people that I've exchanged CM PMs with. 

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Original: Arturas

Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well.

Every time you put forth this theory, forum members, me included, tell you this is not true yet you persist in repeating this, which is really annoying.

For the record, I've met 12 men from this site who were local to me, submitted to some of them, and am now living with a man to whom I submit.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Since when do we consider meeting, playing with, dominating or submitting to those we meet, a validation of character, willingness, submissiveness, dominantness, or anything?

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ORIGINAL: DominantHunger
Fortunately, CM has all types. Just move on to a sub who is your type.

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ORIGINAL: Arturas


On submissives here on CM, they are very much so on "the other side". Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well. But the subs on the other side who are very submissive, even on the first meeting, all seem to have avoided the forums. I meant this in a good way "just saying" and am not trying to depress or put any submissive, spending time in the forums, down.