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Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:31:58 PM

brder

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It's been my experience here that submissives here often are looking for the one WHO DOES EVERYTHING FOR THEM. Is this really submission???...it seems more like vanilla world-- female domination to me than submission. I'm not saying I wouldn't do many things for a submissive I cared for, but I just don't have a feeling here that submission means submission.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:33:00 PM

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All I can say is that your experience hasn't been the same as mine, by any means.

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I've just scoped your profile, and... I hope you don't mind if I make an observation?

It's shouty. It doesn't say much about what you bring to the party, and... well I just don't see it working out for you, brother.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:33:43 PM

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Oh, theres a hell of alot of pillow princesses out there, sure. Have em gargle your cock and kick em to the curb.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:35:39 PM

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I think the last stat taken was that 17% defo are TRUE the rest are hookers, or men, or peanuts. It's a terrible, sad state of affairs.
And I disagree completely with Crazy up there, I think your profile will bring them to you in flocks.
FLOCKS.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:37:06 PM

brder

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crazyml - I'm not convinced, rather I think "you'll learn"

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:38:38 PM

brder

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mnottertail - Pillow princesses is a nice word for it

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:38:46 PM

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Well, brother, I've "learnt" through meeting well over a dozen lovely sub women from this site, real life and face to face.

I've learnt through making a much bigger number of friends.

But you know, I'm always open to learning new things.

How about you?

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:39:10 PM

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Yeah Crazy. You'll LEARN.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:42:32 PM

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Oh God, not again.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:43:01 PM

Fornica

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And again. And again. And again.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:46:41 PM

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more like around and around and around......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VST2KKIYn50

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:48:03 PM

SinFix

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I've been doing it wrong all this time.... damn

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:54:04 PM

Arturas

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

All I can say is that your experience hasn't been the same as mine, by any means.

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I've just scoped your profile, and... I hope you don't mind if I make an observation?

It's shouty. It doesn't say much about what you bring to the party, and... well I just don't see it working out for you, brother.

I've just scoped your profile and it would look really good on match.com, but I don't see it working out for you, brother. The point of my statement, other than I actually mean it in a positive way, is there is no set good way to produce a profile except to write it yourself so it attracts those who are attracted to how you think and present yourself as you do rather than write it to satisfy someone on the forum who means well but does not know you or what will attract the girl or guy for you.

On submissives here on CM, they are very much so on "the other side". Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well. But the subs on the other side who are very submissive, even on the first meeting, all seem to have avoided the forums. I meant this in a good way "just saying" and am not trying to depress or put any submissive, spending time in the forums, down.

edited to change: "think the same" to "attracted to how you think and present yourself" which is more correct since opposites do attract.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:54:17 PM

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I'm not sure that CM has a corner on the unsubmissive submissives in the world, you're talking like there are more of them here than other places. I'd imagine any BDSM site would be about the same

What exactly are you having trouble with? What you've said so far is a little vague, it's hard to know what you mean. Perhaps you're expecting submission before a submissive commits to you? That seems to be a common area of communication breakdown between the D's and s's.

I'd love to know what Crazyml is supposed to learn?

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:57:51 PM

SinFix

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Wow great generalization there Art.. I'm on the forums and I meet real people all the time... And pretty damn submissive if he inspires me to be or the guy isn't a HNG....

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:59:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

What exactly are you having trouble with? What you've said so far is a little vague, it's hard to know what you mean. Perhaps you're expecting submission before a submissive commits to you?

That was my thought too, Lizi.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 2:59:59 PM

crazyml

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

All I can say is that your experience hasn't been the same as mine, by any means.

[ED to Add..]

I've just scoped your profile, and... I hope you don't mind if I make an observation?

It's shouty. It doesn't say much about what you bring to the party, and... well I just don't see it working out for you, brother.

I've just scoped your profile and it would look really good on match.com, but I don't see it working out for you, brother. The point of my statement, other than I actually mean it in a positive way, is there is no set good way to produce a profile except to write it yourself so it attracts those who think as you do rather than write it to satisfy someone on the forum who means well but does not know you or what will attract the girl or guy for you.

On submissives here on CM, they are very much so on "the other side". Here, the forum seems to do something strange to some of them, they somehow spend most of their time here meeting nobody close to them and then get snarky for it and then meet nobody close to them some more as time goes on and get even more snarky and, well, you see this does not end well. But the subs on the other side who are very submissive, even on the first meeting, all seem to have avoided the forums. Just saying.

As a matter of fact it has been working out for me really well, for quite a period of time.

But I do take your point - and you're right, brder should not be writing a profile like mine if it's not a reflection of his personality.

But, at the moment, his profile is shit. Which I'm sure is not a reflection of his personality either.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 3:05:23 PM

lostinmyownmind

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There are plenty of submissives on CM. Are you looking for an "instant" submissive or someone that will submit sight unseen? I don't think you will find many of those here. You profile says exactly nothing about you or the kind of person you are seeking. That could be the reason you aren't getting any replies, try filling it out more.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 3:06:15 PM

Arturas

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SinFix

Wow great generalization there Art.. I'm on the forums and I meet real people all the time... And pretty damn submissive if he inspires me to be or the guy isn't a HNG....

When I mean "meet" I mean face to face. That is my point of reference. Of course it is a generalization based on years of experience and observation and so does not include all submissives on the forum as you point out very well. How many have you met and submitted to face to face, since you brought it up, and there is no wrong answer here and of course you need not answer if you choose not to.

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RE: Are the submissives here really submissive? - 2/1/2012 3:06:56 PM

Awareness

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I wonder if this one will run to 16 pages while the original poster says practically nothing.

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