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RE: Unread Messages - 2/15/2012 8:20:06 PM

orimotis69

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don't worry about it man it happens all the time. just keep moving forward.

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RE: Unread Messages - 2/22/2012 11:27:09 PM

MrBlue76

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I think that deleting the messages from the "Sent" tray is a good idea. If she replies, ok. If she doesn't reply, or even read it, or it's delete unread you don't have that reminder there. And nobody is owed a reply, or a "read".

One day, a female friend showed me her "received mail" tray, in a contact site (Badoo, I think it was). She has a very normal pic, that doesn't expose all her face, and some lines as a profile. And that's all. She's a very interesting girl, and atractive, but it's nothing that is showed in her profile. And, it doesn't matter. There were tons, tons of messages. And many of them where rude and/or stupid.

It quite changed my mind about the "rude behavior of some girls in contact sites".

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RE: Unread Messages - 3/9/2012 3:57:36 AM

whisper676

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This just appeared in my email this morning....

"hi are you interested in a real Strict Master?i have more than 12 years of experience i would like to know you better"

It's from somebody in Romania. How strict can you be when you live half a world away, and what part of I prefer local, as I have a family and cannot travel do you not understand? I state this clearly in my profile.

So, this is an extreme, I realize, but I get emails like this from all over the United States. I am, however, one of those people who tries to respond to each email. You'd not believe the number of times, when I point out that I'm looking for local only and the person replies with a "But we'd work so well together". Le sigh.... I don't want to work together with someone that I'll never see. I don't want to bend over in front of a web cam and spank myself because you're not within a couple of hours drive.

I am starting to see the wisdom of not opening all emails...

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RE: Unread Messages - 3/9/2012 3:58:36 AM

sunshinemiss

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He vill cross oceans of time to be viss you.

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RE: Unread Messages - 3/9/2012 5:35:38 AM

whisper676

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I'm a lucky girl, then. How could I have sent a no thank you email back? Darn.

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RE: Unread Messages - 3/9/2012 5:41:39 AM

mnottertail

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sometimes you might just want to hover over them till the bubble comes up, and see if you are going to want to be doing something different with your life.

tell him mxlplick. I dont know how them guys talk, I am just taking a stab at it.

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RE: Unread Messages - 3/11/2012 6:27:22 PM

lp123

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It often bothers me when people don't reply. I am a sub guy and older than most women want in their profiles. That I am very fit and fun and fair with the tribute required doesn't seem to matter. In all truth I have never met with someone I met on CM although I have several very successful and ongoing relationships with Mistresses I contacted after seeing them in online videos or other services. I have had excellent results on Eros. My experience is that the professionals generally answer promptly and politely and the less experienced wannabe's are less sure as to what is a polite and thoughtful way to do business. Because I can't see my friends as often as I like and because they are farther away I spend lots of time on CM looking for people closer to my home. CM seems more like a online dating service than anything, i monitor this site more because I am lonely in the BDSM side of my life and hope to find some connection here. I think also there are many more lonely subs that organized, attractive and available Dommes, no matter what their profiles say. I message the one's I find attractive and/or interesting, usually they don't respond or if they do it leads nowhere. Most of the pros I see reply right away, go through likes and limits, establish a time and price and the fun begins.

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