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LadyHugs -> RE: Why is it men don't like women who speak there mind and when we have an opinion (6/3/2006 10:58:23 AM)
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Dear sexylittleminx, Ladies and Gentlemen;
Each person has free will and also has choice. It is better to speak with good manners, good timing and express yourself without making it into a drama.
In debates, there is what is called, "Robert's Rules," to which an orderly fashion the debate is handled. Each having their turn but, no one side has the advantage and the other the disadvantage. Native Americans used a peace pipe or 'talking stick.' Nobody interrupted. People who interrupt have bad manners and I think news reporters have the worst manners of all, when it comes to 'being heard.'
In speaking--it also is very 'telling' when a person speaks as to calm, to have a polite conversation and or exchange of opinions, as well as to speak as to incite a riot, unhappiness or such.
Indeed, there is such a thing as free will however, the slave/submissive is the "hope" for the example of polite service -- and not an individual who captures others into an unconsensual rant, to which the audience and or individual is unable to escape. Such as ranting on a grocery clerk, as they cannot escape the register to avoid the rants of an individual.
With free will, there is also judgment and the choice to use it. Those who make an effort to be kind and polite will be heard. Those that speak for the sake of controlling and or manipulating others--shall soon find, they will be ignored and nobody will want to listen.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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