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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

skuggie, where is it that I'm trying to dominant the young lady that is the OP? She asked for opinions. I gave mine. No where am I telling her she can't do this or she can't say that?

Now, the other young lady that decided I was taking my post totally out of context, yes, I told her to proverbially shut her yap and pay attention so that she can make a more informed posting on my post.

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ORIGINAL: LindaLashes

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ORIGINAL: sexylittleminx


I have been asked to reiterate my inital post - I hope this makes more sense


I would say that I am someone that is slightly self opinionated and I like to be in a position where I can speak my mind, I have found that I have sometimes been reprimanded by Doms because of this. Has anyone else come across this and how do you feel is the best way of dealing with someone that believes women/subs should be seen and not heard?

Hmm, a dom reprimanding you for talking? Is he YOUR Dom?? A Dom behaving like that is really close to a Dom trying to control a sub that doesn´t belong to him, it´s just rude, unacceptable and a bit stupid.

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I'm sorry - but I don't respect people who cannot debate

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  or is my eyesight failing?

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

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I'm sorry - but I don't respect people who cannot debate

In that case, you obviously have no respect for yourself.

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or is my eyesight failing?

No. But I would definitly argue that your ability to read, comprehend and assimilate has.

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

/sigh
Oh well. I was really hoping that you would get off your ego trip and actually read, and comprehend what had been written here. Unfortunatly, it seems that it will not be so.

Yes, this is nothing more than an electronic board. And yes, on a public forum, EVERYONE has the right to speak up and state where they stand. However, you should go back and notice that those of us who stressed not doing so, were advocating such from a perspective of REAL LIVE CONVERSATION. As in face to face. Several of us even asked for clarification as to which venue the young lady was referring to.
It is apparant though that you feel such clarification is not needed. Once again, I wish you the best in your endeavors.

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

It does no good, angel. He doesn't understand and he doesn't want to understand. What skuggie fails to understand about debates is that you actually listen to and try to understand the person you're debating. Not just making statements that have little or no basis on anything and making oneself look foolish.

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Dear Tikkiee.

This is what I call an honest answear :-)
The thing is - this young lady has to answear about the venue....and she is not online.
But the point I tryed to make is this:
Males are usually very dom against females for example in this forum and that stoneage bahavior should not be allowed in here.

Respectfully and hopefully understood finally,
Skuggi

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ORIGINAL: sexylittleminx


I have been asked to reiterate my inital post - I hope this makes more sense


I would say that I am someone that is slightly self opinionated and I like to be in a position where I can speak my mind, I have found that I have sometimes been reprimanded by Doms because of this. Has anyone else come across this and how do you feel is the best way of dealing with someone that believes women/subs should be seen and not heard?

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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

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Dear Tikkiee.

This is what I call an honest answear :-)
The thing is - this young lady has to answear about the venue....and she is not online.
But the point I tryed to make is this:
Males are usually very dom against females for example in this forum and that stoneage bahavior should not be allowed in here.

Respectfully and hopefully understood finally,
Skuggi

Very true. She has not specified the venue to which she was referring.

And I agree with you in the respect that yes, there are dominants who act in a very, shall we say...inapproiate way [:)]...when conversing with submissives/slaves on sites such as this. And I agree that no one, should ever be treated in such a way by strangers.
Your words were not misunderstood; let it suffice to say that our words became tangled [:)]
I do hope that I caused no offense; that was not my intention.

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ORIGINAL: sexylittleminx

It's  not being naughty it's called free will - don't get me wrong I know some women like being told what to do hey so do I well sometimes  anyway - but when I speak out of turn as Iwas told I should know when to stay quiet sorry can't know what I likes and likes what I know.....
But I would liketo hear opinions and veiws

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ORIGINAL: sexylittleminx
It's  not being naughty it's called free will - don't get me wrong I know some women like being told what to do hey so do I well sometimes  anyway - but when I speak out of turn as I was told I should know when to stay quiet sorry can't know what I likes and likes what I know.....

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

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ORIGINAL: enigmabrat
OMG lol
this isnt the 1950's and we arent childrent that should be seen and not heard I hate when people think that because we are subs we are less and dont deserve to be treated as equals... grrr

I know it's difficult, but you should actually try to read posts. Nowhere in my post did I mention dominants or submissives. I'm talking about people and manners. If you act like a child, you'll be treated as a child. Act like a petulant child and you'll be treated like a petulant child. I hate when people don't actually read a post the way it is written and try to find something aminous in it. Now, if you stay your little fingers and actually read the post, you may actually learn something.