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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 4:32:13 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL... Not everyone was here last night, so we were a bit late to the thread. You exhibited certain off putting characteristics and some of us did a little background.

I might have liked to discuss some of this, however, after seeing you in action and reading some of what you have written, I was no longer interested. Another thread... another time...


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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 4:49:55 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		There's an old saying in farm country.  If you're going to spread bullshit, at least get it right.

This wasn't the thread that the mods pulled posts from.  That was the thread over on the General board.  It really does pay off to read that gold bordered email.  That way, if your posts are removed, as Mine were last night when I was off topic, you'll know what in the hell you are talking about.  I won't copy the mail I received from the mods on the subject on the boards, but I'll be glad to share it privately.

I do wish you the best in trying to peddle your blog.


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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 4:52:08 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		Peddling.
Peddling.
Peddling while being chased by CollarMe's number one stalker, lol.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 4:54:57 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I doubt you are that special that LadyPact would want to follow you anywhere. Funny... you only seem to be fixated on LadyPact. Will the real stalker please stand down?

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:03:03 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		Lol some of you are cute. You come into a a couple of threads that have been majorly hacked up by moderators, draw conclusions while having half or even less of the information and facts and pass judgement. Thank God this is not a jury trial with someones freedom and life hanging in the balance. :)

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:07:22 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

I doubt you are that special that LadyPact would want to follow you anywhere. Funny... you only seem to be fixated on LadyPact. Will the real stalker please stand down?

I always get the crazy fucks.  It's just something about Me.


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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:07:58 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Wrong. I saw some attitude from things I did see you say here on the forum, but the rest came from your blog and books.

No lives hang on the balance of what is said here... I don't think we need to go extreme in comparison.



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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:09:34 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		Thats great. I do have attitude. I always have and am proud of my attitude. Its served me well in life. People telling me I have an "attitude" is a compliment. So thank you. :)

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:14:48 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Hey, I was being kind when I said attitude, because the mods don't favor certain things and I am sure, not me. lol

But hey... attitude forward. It's all good. I'm sure everyone will decide for themselves what they think of the matter.

It might have been nice to discuss your topic, had it not been simply presented to bring forth your next book and advertisement of your previous books. Why would we wish to assist you in the next one, when the first ones look a little light on merit. So you cucked your hubby... and may grab the attention of those that like to be cucked and you're making some money. That doesn't mean any of us would want to take part in assisting you or 'learning' anything from you.


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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:29:58 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		Yeesh. I post the same types of questions on my blogs or FetLife etc, and get inundated with long and serious replies. People enjoy the discussions, thought provoking, for some its venting, for others its cathartic, etc.
For whatever reason, here, some people think my doing so was to sell a book. I have written roughly 2 dozen books on topics ranging from politics, to Gluten Free cooking to sex, fetish, furniture design, etc. I've owned many websites. I design some of the most kickass Queening chairs the world has ever seen. I own several mainstream businesses. What any of that has to do with a simple post about some types of cuckolded males is beyond me. Its hilarious how this has unfolded.

I also am well aware of human nature. In any walk of life, including online, there are those that do, that create, that invent, or make and there are those that are nothing but critics. I piss on critics and then ignore them. Life is not a popularity contest. It never has been. Some people will like you, others will not no matter what. I don't give a fuck about those that dislike me. For everyone one that does, others will not. So what? Seriously, its like a high school clique with some people. Grow up.

I'm here. I will be posting numerous articles, posts, thoughts and ideas. Feel free to attack me as much as some like. It means nothing to me, at all. They are not capable of bothering me. I have a great life and little "spates" like this just amuse me. :)

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:39:28 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		I would like to point out that the only thing I read before I posted was your op. I asked you to clarify what it was you really meant by the op. And I offered a few comments about what I have seen/taken part in over the years. You responded to none of it, and I know for a fact I did not in any way attack you. I will now ask if you really do want to have a conversation about this topic or is what the others are saying correct?

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:46:40 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		OP, may I ask a personal question? With all the many various semen samples going down your husband's throat from your casual encounters do you ever worry about his contracting an STI? Do you worry about contracting something yourself? Do you worry about passing along something you may not know you have? (Periodic testing is only so current, as I'm sure you know.)

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 3/22/2012 5:48:18 PM >

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:51:20 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		I saw your post and appreciate your feedback.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

I would like to point out that the only thing I read before I posted was your op. I asked you to clarify what it was you really meant by the op. And I offered a few comments about what I have seen/taken part in over the years. You responded to none of it, and I know for a fact I did not in any way attack you. I will now ask if you really do want to have a conversation about this topic or is what the others are saying correct?



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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 5:52:57 PM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		No. You may not ask me personal questions in a public forum. :)
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

OP, may I ask a personal question? With all the many various semen samples going down your husband's throat from your casual encounters do you ever worry about his contracting an STI? Do you worry about contracting something yourself? Do you worry about passing along something you may not know you have? (Periodic testing is only so current, as I'm sure you know.)



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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 6:04:42 PM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

No. You may not ask me personal questions in a public forum. :)
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

OP, may I ask a personal question? With all the many various semen samples going down your husband's throat from your casual encounters do you ever worry about his contracting an STI? Do you worry about contracting something yourself? Do you worry about passing along something you may not know you have? (Periodic testing is only so current, as I'm sure you know.)




LOL, says the person that has written all about her husband and their relationship. You cannot cover safety issues that come along with cuckolding? You cannot discuss what others are addressing?

In 2009, you did post here on CM, that you had three lovers that you cucked your husband with. From your blogs, it sounds like you are quickening the pace on those lovers. Was that to sell more books? Or what? The bottom line is, you want to know about those men that might be in the middle. Maybe someone will come in and try to make something of this thread, but then again, they may not want to unless every aspect of what might make them gag, sick or enraged isn't covered. Whether you give personal information or not, you can speak in general on the very topic you wish to address here or... maybe you will wish to go to a place that is more receptive than we are.


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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 6:07:03 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

No. You may not ask me personal questions in a public forum. :)
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

OP, may I ask a personal question? With all the many various semen samples going down your husband's throat from your casual encounters do you ever worry about his contracting an STI? Do you worry about contracting something yourself? Do you worry about passing along something you may not know you have? (Periodic testing is only so current, as I'm sure you know.)




And yet, if I want to participate in this thread, I have to tolerate seeing your ass shoved in my face. I consider that very personal. Something's seriously out of balance here.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 6:14:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

It took me a few years to train my husband to.....tolerate my lifestyle and choices, with minimal results. For example, the examples I mentioned at the start of this post involve guys that may seek a divorce at best for his wife's philandering ways, and violence at worst. The wanna-be cuckold types seem to often dream of being "forced" to submit to a dominant woman and to engage in all sorts of sucking, cleaning, fluffing acts. And then guys like my husband, who even now, several years into our marriage and all my training, gags, retches and nearly throws-up when I make him use his tongue to clean up my lovers sperm, yet his dick is still hard and leaking pre-cum while doing so.



Haven't read your blogs, books or anything other than your posts on this thread.  Obviously you work hard at having a condescending attitude.

What I find the most disturbing about your OP is that nowhere do you say that your husband every said this was a lifestyle he wanted.  Rather you talk about how your "training" yielded "minimal" results.

It is one thing to not care what strangers on an internet forum think about you.  However, it is quite another to have a marriage where, based on your own statements, you really don't care at all about your husband's feelings or desires.  Instead you choose to think that an erect penis is indicative of what his "true" desires are.  From a biological standpoint as well as a pyschological standpoint, his erection really isn't the indicator of his desires.

Even if he has actually consented to the cuckholding (which from your statements seems unlikely), there are still some things that you should consider more than only what YOU want and consider him as well.

You may or may not be the expert at cuckholding you perceive yourself to be.  But what you have presented here is nothing more than a very self centered woman who doesn't care about anyone but herself and is highly insulted if anyone questions you.  Obviously you are lucky enough to have a husband who loves you a great deal to tolerate your behavior (if you are like this in real life as well).  Perhaps realizing that cuckholding doesn't mean you completely disrespect your partner would go a long way to improving your situation.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 6:15:01 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		Thank you for responding but you still did not clarify your question for me. Are you actually trying to find men that are not sure how they feel about this topic? Did you want us to tell you where they are? Or are you asking how those men that are unsure but take part anyway deal with how they feel about it? Are you wanting to know if a lot of men gag at the thought or if it is just your hubby? What kind of a conversation were you hoping your op would start?

*and* as a side note if you are seeking out the opinions of men on this topic why did you post it in ask a mistress?

< Message edited by MissImmortalPain -- 3/22/2012 6:20:15 PM >

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 7:33:51 PM   
VanessaChaland


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To MissImortalPain: My question in the original post: "Why is there so little evidence or discussion or example of the......compliant male eager to please his wife, who ends up being cuckolding by her, against all of his natural instincts? Why does there seem to be mostly one extreme or the other? Am I and my situation a rarity or is it just simply rarely discussed and kept more private in peoples personal lives for others?"


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Yes.
Thank you.
Love you too.
The word is "cuckold" there is no "h" in the word.
Very well.
Don't give a rats ass.
I'll discuss whatever I like whenever I like with whomever I like.
I will load a new photo of my most glorious ass soon, just to piss you all off, lol. :)

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/22/2012 8:06:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

I will load a new photo of my most glorious ass soon, just to piss you all off, lol. :)


Please show your anus this time. I want to see what happens. Thanks much!

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