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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/24/2012 8:49:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

This is the answer that came to my mind as well. It is possible to have both reactions. Disgust and arousal are not mutually exclusive.

It might be easier for people to get their heads around this if they could cope with the idea of ambivalence; in particular, two entirely contradictory feelings occurring at the same time. I always did think that was the essence of BDSM anyway.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/24/2012 9:01:30 AM

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Then bring Me the guy who doesn't really want to do it. Getting him to that place where he becomes willing, for Me, is a whole other ball of wax. I actually enjoy the time investment that it takes getting him to that place. It's not even all that wrapped up in getting to the pay off. (Which is hot, don't get Me wrong.) I like watching the internal struggle that goes on in him as he is moving toward reaching that goal. It doesn't matter to Me if it takes months or even years to get there because I'm enjoying the progress every step of the way.

That's kind of a different kink though because I don't mix the emotional sadism up in that one. I want the struggle, but I don't especially want there to be pain involved in getting a male to the goalposts there.

LadyPact:
At this point in my probing into the mental emotional motivators of the dominant “Hot Woman” and her “wittol” it is far from clear what realization of heightened controlling pleasure and dominance the female experiences, if any.
Your response offered an alternative thinking and perhaps insight into the ever widening stream of information I am gathering. Thank you.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/24/2012 11:48:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Arienos
LadyPact:
At this point in my probing into the mental emotional motivators of the dominant “Hot Woman” and her “wittol” it is far from clear what realization of heightened controlling pleasure and dominance the female experiences, if any.
Your response offered an alternative thinking and perhaps insight into the ever widening stream of information I am gathering. Thank you.

You are quite welcome. Thank you for taking the time to let Me know that. Even for those who don't want to participate in the kink themselves, I think learning about it from the different perspectives and how people chose to incorporate various facets of other kinks is just fascinating. It makes it something that can be exceptionally interesting to talk about.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/24/2012 4:41:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

So my question and confusion is, where are the guys that are in between?

I think you have your answer.

There are not any.

Frankly, I was cucked once (Confessed another thread), and the emotional roller coaster was FAR TOO MUCH.

To me, it is all about developing a mature, understanding, intelligent relationship. And that is hard enough for two, let alone adding to it.

While my hat is off to Lady Pact, who is clearly more adapt than I; but without such leadership as She displays; I doubt any man wants to be in the cuck situation.

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/25/2012 11:13:16 AM

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She wouldn't be much of a femdom (or independent person) if she copied your posting style and way of thinking, would she?

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/25/2012 7:51:56 PM

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Wait a minute....have we lost the framework of the premise of this whole concept?

Cuckoldry.....

It's a wonderful thing!

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RE: Volunteer Cuckoldry versus "Forced" Cucko... - 3/26/2012 6:53:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

She wouldn't be much of a femdom (or independent person) if she copied your posting style and way of thinking, would she?

You lost me here, Cloudboy. I have no idea what you're talking about. In the future, please include the quote that you're responding to so I'll have a context for your comment. Thanks.

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