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Karmastic -> RE: What's with this great divide? (4/21/2012 9:53:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Focus50
I think gays are the likely ones to have working "gaydar".... Same way that I become attuned to submissive qualities in certain women (strangers) when seeing them for the first time. That all living things recognise their "own kind" when they see it.... And since I'm no more switch than I am gay, you're likely right (or close) that my respective antennae is broken - or more likely non-existant.
But then, that's not what I'm using. You're the first hetero (?) I've ever come across to say "I used to wish I was bi-sexual" (from your OP).... So pardon me if that statement gave me pause. As does you being a little too defensive about it now. Same principle for your "Now I sort of wish I was a switch" comment from the same OP.
Look, either (bi, switch) is no big deal to me if you are or aren't. But it's not my life experience that people spend time pondering that which they have no affinity or interest. I'm merely commenting on what you're seemingly projecting in this topic. And yeah, of course I could be wrong... <shrugs> So go shoot some other messenger.... ;)
oh, i get where you were coming from now. i don't really wish either (being bi or switch), and i guess me saying i'm careful for what i wish for didn't cut it as a way of saying i don't want either.
but the practical side of me sees they have twice as many options and wishes i could too. it's like being at October Fest but being someone who drinks wine, and lamenting "gee, i wish i enjoyed beer, but i just don't".
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