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JanahX -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 3:16:54 PM)
Oside - YOU NAILED THIS ONE ----> AWESOME! quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml You're right though, the "ideal" of the "super masculine - yet oh-so intouch with his feminine side" Dom dude is a pretty unrealistic proposition. You left out the being a mind reader part. quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 and Lady constanze, I bet it even makes you mad to think of submitting to a man. Rant and raze of how you would never do it, how you call the shots. I think ResidentSadist is right. If You met the right person you would find yourself on your knees saying YES MASTER. Do you even have an inkling of how insulting that is to say? The idea that just because she's female that she must really be submissive to a male, she just doesn't know it? quote: ORIGINAL: sincelo Not every woman is submissive "instinctively". I think it is rude that you are trying to stand over her like the all-knowing grandmother saying "one day he will come". Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp.

Karmastic -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 3:23:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Considering that her one and only experience was: cheating on her husband with a guy, to whom she would give a blow job, clean his house and give him money, while he refused to have sex with her......it's not all that surprising that she doesn't have a grasp. holy fuck, how can i "hire" her? It's an epic read, you should go read the two threads. Bottom line is the closest description of what went on was that she visited a Pro-Dom a few times a month and she babbles on and on about what a D/s relationship should be. i was j/k, but sounds good...links please[8D]

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 3:26:12 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4007074/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4007074 http://www.collarchat.com/m_4038446/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4038446

Killerangel -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 4:53:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl http://www.collarchat.com/m_4007074/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4007074 http://www.collarchat.com/m_4038446/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4038446 FYI, many posts were removed from those threads, I do know that for sure as some were mine.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 4:57:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 I saw this online and thought it was a beautiful and wanted to share it. I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor. You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs. You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you. Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proved worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life: you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it. I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women, and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely can not in reality be bought. ~ Author Unknown ~ Blather.

Karmastic -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 5:00:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Killerangel quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl http://www.collarchat.com/m_4007074/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4007074 http://www.collarchat.com/m_4038446/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4038446 FYI, many posts were removed from those threads, I do know that for sure as some were mine. lol! dejavu [&:]

lilcracker -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 5:18:34 PM)
I find that the only mind readers are the one's who know you have no clue of what you are doing and they tell you what you want, desire and need. 97.5% of the time the mind readers are either wankers, or trying to see how much they can scam you out of.

Lucylastic -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 5:35:54 PM)
Kaliko I adore you!!!!!! I now have to get a new keyboard but that was brilliant. RS you are sheer joy!!!!!! even tho CB thinks you were being serious about the Domme being submissive for the right man. Please clarify it for the less than simpering among us[;)] Who was it pointed out the "issue of being dominant till finding a strong man to make you pant to submit" being bogus, THANKYOU you saved me from a spike in blood pressure and possibly a gold letter.(LaT and OG and Janah and RS andwhoever else I missed:) As for the "prose" ... yeah I prefer tears and big purple welts and erotic and "0h shit what is she gonna do next " fear Thats too hot just my 2cents

LadyConstanze -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/28/2012 9:45:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze OK, I'm not American, I'm quite feminine and yet I have no trouble being strong and I don't want to serve a guy and nope, I wouldn't allow a guy to make the decisions.... Where does that BS come from that to be feminine you have to be submissive and just want to serve a man? Female dominants are not man hating lesbians (not that there is anything wrong with lesbians, bisexuality....) When this was written many years ago there was a preface that has been removed. In it he says he is speaking from his own point of view which is Male Dominant, female submissive. This is all his personal take on how he tries to live his life. He was not in any way speaking about femme Dommes or lesbians. I was commenting on the comments of the OP...

mons -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 3:03:14 AM)
I hello everyone I find this to be one very emotional yet very lovely piece and he wrote it with the intent to explain how he felt for "his submissive it does not matter how we see it, or how we think it is flowerly or not real to some of us! Why is it not ok to feel that way about someone? You must trust someone, if your the dominant or the submissive! It is all about trust and why not fall in love? Why does it seems so bias? He placed her above all women, wow it is to me and I am flowerly type just right! mons

Buzzzz -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:41:21 AM)
It is a nice fairy tale type story. Then day to day life shows up :)

ClassAct2006 -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 5:19:49 AM)
I think it's perfectly realistic. I must just have been very lucky in the dominant men I know. However as to the other posts - of course dominant women aren't just waiting for the right man to dominate them nor are vanilla girls all waiting to be turned sub. Some of us are just born the way we are and never change. If no one ever dominated me again I wouldn't stop being internally submissive and more than being straight not gay.

chatterbox24 -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:22:54 AM)
lol. Really? What does my past threads have to do with this? Pathetic. Life is what you make it. Glad a few people like it. ANd for the life of me cant figure out why it seems to actually make some people mad. For those of you with the good sense of humor, THANKS FOR THE LAUGHS@!!

JanahX -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:27:44 AM)
I dont know how MAD it makes people - as much as they have a different opinion than yourself. What you post on these boards can give people insight to where you are in your thinking - and why things are going so wrong in your dealings with people. I'll make sure to LOL at you the next time you post about one of your life incidents that end up in a shithole like the previous ones youve told the fourum about, since you seem to think that the posters here that respond to your thread are so funny - quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 lol. Really? What does my past threads have to do with this? Pathetic. Life is what you make it. Glad a few people like it. ANd for the life of me cant figure out why it seems to actually make some people mad. For those of you with the good sense of humor, THANKS FOR THE LAUGHS****!!

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:38:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mons I hello everyone I find this to be one very emotional yet very lovely piece and he wrote it with the intent to explain how he felt for "his submissive it does not matter how we see it, or how we think it is flowerly or not real to some of us! Why is it not ok to feel that way about someone? You must trust someone, if your the dominant or the submissive! It is all about trust and why not fall in love? Why does it seems so bias? He placed her above all women, wow it is to me and I am flowerly type just right! mons Because many of the things listed are flat out impossible. You will never be without fear. You can never know exactly what someone is thinking or feeling. It perpetuates unrealistic expectations, which are the demise of most relationships.

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:46:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 lol. Really? What does my past threads have to do with this? Pathetic. Yes, your past behavior was pathetic. How kind of you to admit that. People deserve to know that even though you come on here babbling romantically about your D/s "relationship", your only experience was paying some guy to suck his dick twice a month while your husband and kids were at home.

sincelo -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 10:11:13 AM)
Chatter i think what people are trying to say that you have an overly romanticized notion of what a d/s relationship is. Your previous posts regarding the man you called master indicate that you are immature so it makes sense that this resonates with you. It is very jr. high in its premise. Like a disney fairy tale. Now the problem with disney fairy tales is that they have set people up for many years about what love is and its bullshit. ... just like this drivel (sorry to the original author but it is what i think) I was bored about half way. You are 45 years old and dissatisfied in your relationship. Believing this kind of shit is likely WHY you are unhappy.

Karmastic -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 10:16:58 AM)
i'm not a moderator here, but i'll stick my 2 cents in anyway. i'm a strong believer in taking each post on it's own, and not bringing in baggage from other posts, or history. i've seen this spiral and drag down forums.

JanahX -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 10:17:07 AM)
quote: Who are you to judge anyone YOu bitter damaged cunt? Oh Im sorry Im being judgemental. good job Chatterbox - now your showing your 45 year old maturity in a whole 'nuther light with name calling -this just keeps getting better and better [image]local://upfiles/1059980/EEE4A0DD840C440C91B49CDE50AD4A89.jpg[/image]

sincelo -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 10:20:20 AM)
Well i personally don't think you can. That is partially why we can view old posts so that we can understand the mindset of the person posting. I am not saying people can't screw up ... it more comes from how they handle themselves when they screw up... do they blow up and call everyone cunts or say hmm that is an interesting perspective, i dont agree but it is still interesting. I have seen the former a lot from this poster.

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