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OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:33:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic i feel bad for chatterbox because i think she's having difficulty making an important transition. and she reacted poorly to some very negative responses (some deserved, some not) to her posts. it seems like she's struggling, and it truly bothers me seeing her get slammed down even more, and then lashing back out like a bullied child. it's not productive or healthy for her or her detractors. /soapbox What transition? She's not planning on leaving her husband. He's made it very obvious that he's not okay with her having kinky sex outside of their marriage by putting the kobosh on her last attempt. So, is that important transition on how to lie to her husband more effectively? Or putting herself out there with glowing renditions of a relationship that never was, while she gives out relationship advice? Her post to Lady Constanze shows her ignorance level in grand scale. I have no tolerance for cheaters or people that lie about their experience levels. She has behaved like an ass at every opportunity, so I treat her in accordance to her behavior.

PeonForHer -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:40:08 PM)
FR Could people stop writing 'LOL' or 'lol' in this thread? It irritates the tits off me. That is all. Thank you.

Karmastic -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:46:33 PM)
lol, no. to OsideGirl: you know way more about it than i do, thanks for the links. the transition is what comes after this arrangement blows up or they finally get divorced, cus it (marriage) won't last. something's got to give.

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:47:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt Yeah, she can be mean. It's my considered opinion that she is (like me) mean for a reason. Some people need the blunt, "What the fuck is wrong with you?" approach. Honestly, if someone comes here asking an honest question, I am happy to give a straight forward answer. Even in the case of the OP in this thread. In her very first post, I started out trying to be helpful. But as it descended into the web of deceit and the lack of responsibility toward her own children, I lost patience and any modicum of respect for her. She comes to the boards presenting herself as someone that has experience and paints a glowing picture of one of the most fucked up scenarios I have ever seen....and gets pissed off when someone calls her on her bullshit. I feel that anyone who reads her posts deserves to know that they're dealing with someone who they should take with a grain of salt.

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:48:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer FR Could people stop writing 'LOL' or 'lol' in this thread? It irritates the tits off me. That is all. Thank you. You have tits? LOL.... [;)]

VaguelyCurious -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 4:54:21 PM)
If by 'tits' you mean manly, manly pecs, then I can confirm that yes, yes he does. Lol.

PeonForHer -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 5:14:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious Lol. Thank you. But shut up!

JeffBC -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 5:20:21 PM)
~FR~ LOL, after this whole thread I'm afraid to admit it but yeah... turn down the saccharine some and I can identify with it.

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 7:28:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Anyway Im not posting here anymore its to negative for me. But You all enjoy and good luck, may you find your piece of heaven too. Haven't you said that before? More than once? Or I am confused as to who I am remembering? Shall we start a pool? [sm=yeahright.gif]

LadyConstanze -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 7:33:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Her post to Lady Constanze shows her ignorance level in grand scale. She posted to me? I actually thought she was calling you names and bitter, that's why I wanted to set the record straight. We might disagree on gun ownership and all that stuff, but everything I heard you say about your relationship, you sound extremely happy and content, so she couldn't be further off the mark. But considering her choice and taste in partners (as you demonstrated with those 2 links) I doubt she'll get it.

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 7:45:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Her post to Lady Constanze shows her ignorance level in grand scale. She posted to me? I actually thought she was calling you names and bitter, that's why I wanted to set the record straight. We might disagree on gun ownership and all that stuff, but everything I heard you say about your relationship, you sound extremely happy and content, so she couldn't be further off the mark. But considering her choice and taste in partners (as you demonstrated with those 2 links) I doubt she'll get it. She stated that you're dominant only because you haven't met "the right man". That if you met "the right man" you'd be down on your knees saying "Yes, Master". She did call me names which is pretty much all she can do since she can't refute anything I posted. It says more about her than me. And thank you. Himself and I just celebrated 12 years together and I think we're happier than we've ever been.

LadyConstanze -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:06:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Her post to Lady Constanze shows her ignorance level in grand scale. She posted to me? I actually thought she was calling you names and bitter, that's why I wanted to set the record straight. We might disagree on gun ownership and all that stuff, but everything I heard you say about your relationship, you sound extremely happy and content, so she couldn't be further off the mark. But considering her choice and taste in partners (as you demonstrated with those 2 links) I doubt she'll get it. She stated that you're dominant only because you haven't met "the right man". That if you met "the right man" you'd be down on your knees saying "Yes, Master". She did call me names which is pretty much all she can do since she can't refute anything I posted. It says more about her than me. And thank you. Himself and I just celebrated 12 years together and I think we're happier than we've ever been. Hahahahahaha she's freaking delusional, thanks, I have to read up on that, OMG, this is just too fucking funny! And nope, I am not after a loser who makes me clean his house and give him BJs on demand, she doesn't need to worry about it... Ha, I can imagine, my 10 year one was in March, we planned to actually do the "I do" thing but I had to go back to LA on account of my friend, so it's postponed. But obviously we can't be happy or have the right guys, because we don't need to betray the guy we promised to be faithful to and be exploited by some dude who couldn't send a clearer message that he doesn't want her in his life... Shit, there are tons of books about "He's just not into you" or "Women who love too much" but I don't think she's going to bother to read them....

OsideGirl -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 8:54:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Ha, I can imagine, my 10 year one was in March, we planned to actually do the "I do" thing but I had to go back to LA on account of my friend, so it's postponed. Congrats on the 10 year mark. quote: But obviously we can't be happy or have the right guys, because we don't need to betray the guy we promised to be faithful to and be exploited by some dude who couldn't send a clearer message that he doesn't want her in his life... Shit, there are tons of books about "He's just not into you" or "Women who love too much" but I don't think she's going to bother to read them.... She doesn't even have enough sense to be here asking questions.....she just posts glowing comments like her fucked up little scenario was some little fairy tale.

LunaM -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 9:10:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Well call me Mr Fluffy and put bunny ears on me (I know, Poise & Hibby bait) but I like romantic fluffy things things... like ... like bleeding & crying. Crying is romantic . . . Have you ever seen a slave love her Master so deeply that she cries from the emotional release after a good beating? Have you ever seen a slave feel so passionate that she crosses the pleasure/pain threshold and cums so intensely that it makes her weep? Have you ever seen trust so deep and complete that tears flow when she follows Master faithfully and overcomes her fears? Crying is sexy . . . Tear filled eyes big as saucers, looking up at you. Cheap mascara stains trailing down over her cheeks. A tear hangs precariously in the balance from her pouting, swollen and quivering lips. A trickle of blood and cum leak from the corner of her mouth as a testament to the violent sex. She is sex personified and her face and the tears upon it bear evidence as proof to the sacrifice she has just made for passion. She is someone that gave it all until she cried. I like it when they cry . . . I thrive on the connection, the bonds between a Master and slave and between a sadist and masochist. I love seeing the look on my slave's face when I see that I control her and what she is feeling. I like to cross Masterism with sadism while I explore emotional fears, expand physical limits, break mental boundaries and fulfill forbidden desires. I passionately mix love, torture, sex, fear, pleasure, pain, anguish, lust, trust and I test faith. I want to see tears of joy, tears of pain, tears of love, tears of pleasure and tears from fear... I like it when they cry. Cry for me. purr I simply adore this post. Thanks ResidentSadist. This resonates with me a lot.

subbyinlosangele -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 9:11:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer FR Could people stop writing 'LOL' or 'lol' in this thread? It irritates the tits off me. That is all. Thank you. LOL -- your mistake here is thinking that anyone cares that something irritates you. In fact, simply saying this you are more likely to incite the behavior you claim to dislike -- or maybe that's the point ... LOL. (The LOL is my gift to you. You're welcome).

HisSub1213 -> RE: THe Dominant Man (4/29/2012 9:13:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder My only problem with this whole thing is like I stated....it could be an unhealthy way to have a relationship, let alone be the reason why they are attracted to bdsm. How many times have see seen on these boards of the lovey dovey internet slave who is all heartbroken because her dream Master that she's never met was exactly as what she pictured in the above monologue? How many times do we see couples break up because of the starry eyed romanticism above because they couldn't look past the fantasy? But if someone finds the above to be realistic for their own life, so be it. I'd just be glad it's not mine. lol I have found far too many who are in love with the "romance" of BDSM and then run screaming when reality sets in.

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