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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 8:33:23 AM   
submaleuk12


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 8:47:50 AM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 8:50:10 AM   
submaleuk12


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 8:59:23 AM   
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The actual number of women that I have met FACE TO FACE within WIITWD that exhibit misandry is smaller percentage. How many real life Dommes have you met? How many non-pro Fem Dommes have you interacted with? How many real life Fem Domme / male sub relationships have you witnessed?

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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:01:30 AM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:02:05 AM   
submaleuk12


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Misandry is widespread throughout society so much that barely anyone notices or even complains, I just had a scan through female and male 'dominant' profiles just then and there's a lot more man bashing than female bashing.

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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:07:04 AM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:07:56 AM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:08:45 AM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:09:50 AM   
submaleuk12


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:36:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submaleuk12

I'm just saying how I feel. If your not willing to respect that, there's not a lot I can do about that.


You weren't stating how you feel. You were stating a fact based on flawed data. You have nothing to base your fact on, other than internet profiles. You have no real life experience, but yet think you can expound on it.

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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 9:38:00 AM   
submaleuk12


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 10:03:53 AM   
littlewonder


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Not all of us have problems with our sexuality. I'd say most of us feel extremely comfortable with it, unlike you.


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 10:05:24 AM   
submaleuk12


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/15/2012 11:19:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submaleuk12
I was talking about misandry not bdsm

*shrugs* I get what you're saying and I agree.


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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/22/2012 2:23:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submaleuk12

I'd say there's just as much misandy if not more than misogyny in bdsm circles, has anyone else noticed?


quote:

Misandry is widespread throughout society so much that barely anyone notices or even complains, I just had a scan through female and male 'dominant' profiles just then and there's a lot more man bashing than female bashing.


Basing your comment, which you presented as fact, upon profiles geared towards the kink of others is hardly misogyny or misandry. This site is about fetishes.. and both sexes have fetishes of being humiliated, degraded, abused.... and yet most dominants who write out such profiles actually enjoy the opposite sex beyond just the kink.

If a grown woman is looking for a "Daddy Dom" and she finds one, is he a pedophile? This is very much the same thing. Kink doesnt make the person. Humiliation and debasement can co-exist with love and respect. Dont assume everything you read on a profile is the be all end all of that person.

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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/22/2012 4:25:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: submaleuk12

I'm just saying how I feel. If your not willing to respect that, there's not a lot I can do about that.


Kev, is that you ?

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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/22/2012 4:26:52 PM   
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RE: misogyny in BDSM - 5/23/2012 7:58:57 AM   
johnukguy


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Status: offline 		"Anyone who believes that a misogynist attitude is not ingrained in us the same way a white skin bias in ingrained in us is simply not facing the truth." Utter bullshit. I am neither misogynistic nor racist.

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