Duskypearls
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The love of animals, especially that of cats and children, can be a very sensitive matter, one upon which it would be wise to tread lightly, compassionately and generously. Feelings run deep on the subject, and tempers may flair when contradicted or challenged. It is clearly apparent love and concern is expressed by different people differently, and I do not doubt both camps love their cats/animals immensely. One can love a cat enough to want it to have the freedom to live and express its life to its full, natural potential, in grateful (or not so grateful) exchange for the challenges or shortcomings it offers, and not necessarily impose upon them what their idea of what it should be like. Yes, they may get hurt in a fight, get hit by a car, attacked or killed by a coyote or dog, or other things that may reduce its function, form or life span. It is a trade-off. One can love a cat enough to want to protect it from all harm, seen and unseen, so it's life span, accurately reflecting their definition of love, allows them to keep it safe and around for as long as possible to enjoy every last drop and moment of its life. Each of you is right in your opinion and management, and I do not question the degree or intensity of your love and devotion to the animal that shares your life. It is a delight to know and share such love, and I am touched to read how much you feel for your furry friends. My question is, and there is no right or wrong answer to this, do you love and serve them in a way that frees and fulfills them, or serves you and reduces the likelihood of feeling their pain or loss? I understand both, as I love cats (and all creatures) deeply. I also respect and admire them, and am personally of the bent it is not the cats job to keep me from ever worrying about it, or suffering pain or loss if it is injured, sickened or killed. I do not measure the value of life by how little pain I encounter. I glory in allowing a cat to be exactly what it is, and other than requiring good behavior and impeccable litter box training, wish not to modify its magnificient nature. But I am the same way about life in general in regards to suffering and pain...neither can or should be avoided. In my youth, and until I learned this, my heart was frequently broken. Regardless, I am grateful I could/can sit with the pain and not feel obligated to alter a cat's life that I may suffer less. Life is a risky business at best and pain and loss is unavoidable. More often than not, for me at least, the risk is worth the reward. In fact, it is often that very pain and loss which allows for greater depths and riches of love to manifest. I would prefer to give myself and others the gift of living fully, joyfully, passionately, creatively and with flair, rather than in a way that is stultified or stymied. All that aside, I congratulate both camps for loving their critters as much as they do. It does my heart good.
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