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ORIGINAL: punisher440

FR

There is an old saying,if you throw a rock into a pack of dogs,the one the yelps is the one that got hit.Sounds like that was a nice sized rock.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Karmastic: there's another saying..

sycophant pussies can't think of original thoughts, so they latch on to any pack of wolves that will accept them. i think it's an old Serbian saying, and i'm paraphrasing a bit.

LOL Oh Karmastic...

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Karmastic: there's another saying..

sycophant pussies can't think of original thoughts, so they latch on to any pack of wolves that will accept them. i think it's an old Serbian saying, and i'm paraphrasing a bit.

LOL Oh Karmastic...

yes, but of course, ADULTS know to correct mistakes, while assholes try and show everyone else someone else mistakes ;)

translation = you're horribly insecure, and need to put others down to feel better about yourself. you're spamming the page refresh button, and can't wait to spew out your next round of hate and anger - saddening.

now, back to topic, before people of your ilk decided to hijack it with childish personal attacks.

OP, i've come to the conclusion that it's hard to respect someone's kink when they flash it in your face, and jump up and down and scream because you don't seem to wave the same color BDSM flag as them, with the accredited seal.

oh, and cue some other "sycophant" to glee in a perceived kill, that will just make the both of you seem even more childish and petty, like two little bullies we've all seen and laughed at.

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

If you, in fact, respected everyone one here, you would ignore the replies
that do not actually pertain to the subject, and reply to some of the ones that have seriously discussed the subject.

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ORIGINAL: FemalecumLover

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

If you, in fact, respected everyone one here, you would ignore the replies
that do not actually pertain to the subject, and reply to some of the ones that have seriously discussed the subject.

That is exactly what happened
if you monitored I am discarding a lot of personal insults
and did not reply to every non-objective comment

but I am saying I respect KINKs as in D/s M/s
I did not say I respect fanatics and subjective insults

I am OBJECTIVE not a SAINT coz I AINT

Peace Out!

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

oooops, nevermind, thought you were replying to me, or about me. were you, or was the FR about OP?

if you have something intelligent and constructive to say to me, then just say it. don't keep pussying around, showing up to seem to agree with the same person who was disagreeing with me last time you chimed in in another thread.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

So, OP, you quoted an article that couldn't even get the origin of the definition of BDSM correct, and we're supposed to jump up and down?

(My other half just looked at Me and said, "ut oh, here it comes".)

The fact that you like to fuck in ways that might be different than the average person just ain't that great.  I honestly don't care what your particular kink is.  Having that kink, or even acting on it, doesn't get you kudos in My world.  It's laughable that you think that earns you respect in some way.

When you learn that how you fuck really isn't the tantamount of who you are as a man, THEN you might earn My respect.  Until then, you're just some horny fuck who doesn't see that sexual appetite isn't all that important.

And, yes, it does stand for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism.  That D/s bullshit was added later by people whining about feeling left out.

Yeah, he seems to have missed that point earlier.

I also find it funny that he's praising the two people with no experience. Neither one knows how they would react if they walked into a room and confronted with a kink that horrifies them.....because they've never been in that situation. Until put into practice, it's just lip service.

i don't really know if you're talking about me or not, he did, as you called it, "praise" me.

i find it truly offense if you are talking about me. you have no idea what experience i have, and you incorrectly presume i haven't personally seen kinks that horrify me. under that circumstance, i knew to shut the fuck up.

if you're talking about me, then that's what you should do. if not, then please accept my apology in advance.

now, cut to the resident stalker troll to quote me saying i'm a noob. show us all you still have no clue what i'm about, and cannot fathom the concepts of modesty, privacy, and none of your fucking business what it is that i do, unless i want you to know that.

show us all how much your self loathing insecurity drives you to try and feel superior to someone who doesn't appear to pass your bar of accredited BDSM experience.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

So, OP, you quoted an article that couldn't even get the origin of the definition of BDSM correct, and we're supposed to jump up and down?

(My other half just looked at Me and said, "ut oh, here it comes".)

The fact that you like to fuck in ways that might be different than the average person just ain't that great.  I honestly don't care what your particular kink is.  Having that kink, or even acting on it, doesn't get you kudos in My world.  It's laughable that you think that earns you respect in some way.

When you learn that how you fuck really isn't the tantamount of who you are as a man, THEN you might earn My respect.  Until then, you're just some horny fuck who doesn't see that sexual appetite isn't all that important.

And, yes, it does stand for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism.  That D/s bullshit was added later by people whining about feeling left out.

Yeah, he seems to have missed that point earlier.

I also find it funny that he's praising the two people with no experience. Neither one knows how they would react if they walked into a room and confronted with a kink that horrifies them.....because they've never been in that situation. Until put into practice, it's just lip service.

i don't really know if you're talking about me or not, he did, as you called it, "praise" me.

i find it truly offense if you are talking about me. you have no idea what experience i have, and you incorrectly presume i haven't personally seen kinks that horrify me. under that circumstance, i knew to shut the fuck up.

if you're talking about me, then that's what you should do. if not, then please accept my apology in advance.

now, cut to the resident stalker troll to quote me saying i'm a noob. show us all you still have no clue what i'm about, and cannot fathom the concepts of modesty, privacy, and none of your fucking business what it is that i do, unless i want you to know that.

show us all how much your self loathing insecurity drives you to try and feel superior to someone who doesn't appear to pass your bar of accredited BDSM experience.

Wow......that's like saying "no offense" when you know you're about to say something offensive. I've tried to stay somewhat polite during your myriads of ramblings, but whatever. This post says way more about you, than it does anybody else.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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so far i think, when i've used the word "respect", it's as-in i try to respect people and treat them respectfully, even if i disagree with them, or they have some kink that's squicky for me. i.e., i respect their right to their kink. and, i treat them with the same respect (i hope) they show me.

Still disagree with you. I understand the way you are using it and using it in the same context that you are using it, I don't respect everyone respectfully even if I disagree with them. Some things that I disagree with will never ever be respected in any way whatsoever. I don't respect some people's kink and their "right" to it. There are some that squick me to the point that I morally find it wrong. The only reason I don't make a big hoohah about it is because I'd probably be chewed out and/or beat to a pulp for my moral views. And I don't care one tiny bit if anyone else respects my kink.

sigh.

you're kinda taking my concept to the extreme and then disagreeing, so let me be even more explicit.

i treat everyone with respect, and return the same level of respect they treat me with.

of course, if i think something is morally wrong, i usually speak up. and i certainly don't respect their kink (or whatever it is that i disdain). and i'm certainly not all pal-sy with people that i have disdain for.

but yeah, i guess we strongly disagree in that, for me, there's absolutely no reason and no gain (only loss) for me to be the initiator, to treat someone disrespectfully. in fact, spewing out that vitriol and anger is a loss - an unhealthy exercise.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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so far i think, when i've used the word "respect", it's as-in i try to respect people and treat them respectfully, even if i disagree with them, or they have some kink that's squicky for me. i.e., i respect their right to their kink. and, i treat them with the same respect (i hope) they show me.

Still disagree with you. I understand the way you are using it and using it in the same context that you are using it, I don't respect everyone respectfully even if I disagree with them. Some things that I disagree with will never ever be respected in any way whatsoever. I don't respect some people's kink and their "right" to it. There are some that squick me to the point that I morally find it wrong. The only reason I don't make a big hoohah about it is because I'd probably be chewed out and/or beat to a pulp for my moral views. And I don't care one tiny bit if anyone else respects my kink.

sigh.

you're kinda taking my concept to the extreme and then disagreeing, so let me be even more explicit.

i treat everyone with respect, and return the same level of respect they treat me with.

of course, if i think something is morally wrong, i usually speak up. and i certainly don't respect their kink (or whatever it is that i disdain). and i'm certainly not all pal-sy with people that i have disdain for.

but yeah, i guess we strongly disagree in that, for me, there's absolutely no reason and no gain (only loss) for me to be the initiator, to treat someone disrespectfully. in fact, spewing out that vitriol and anger is a loss - an unhealthy exercise.

We'll agree to disagree. I have no desire to hold every single person on the planet in high regard which is what respect means. I simply give them common courtesy. Like I said earlier, I can name on one hand the people who get respect from me.

But hey if you want to put every human being on the planet in high regard, be my guest.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic
you're right, and very well put too. i admire this post.

we can discuss this...

OP, i've come to the conclusion that it's hard to respect someone's kink when they flash it in your face, and jump up and down and scream because you don't seem to wave the same color BDSM flag as them, with the accredited seal.

or you can add your own on topic points, to get er rollin again.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Jeff, you have to remember that you have done that work. Some people don't do that. You don't hear the term very often any more, but there is a certain category of folks who go to a BDSM club who are often known as "tourists". Meaning, they haven't been before and have no clue of what they will see when they get there. Mix tourists and edge players in the same space and you've got a chance of somebody freaking out.

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
That reminds me of the first time I ever played at a play party. I had intentions of being what you have called a "tourist".

"Oh no, I'll just watch!" Hahaha! Before the night was out, I had experienced being tied up and toyed with using a certain implement and I was buzzed. Apparently it isn't usual to go into sub space so easily as a newbie. Would you agree or disagree with that?

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

i most certainly do mean offense, if you were dismissively referring to me as someone who has no experience, and is only speaking theoretically about horrifying kinks.

and if you were not referring to me, then i do sincerely apologize.

that really doesn't say a lot about me, except that i call people when they make asinine assumptions about me.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Noun:
A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

Verb:
Admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

Synonyms:
noun. regard - esteem - reverence - deference - consideration
verb. honour - honor - esteem - regard - venerate - revere

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

It's not the kink that deserves the respect. How a person practices them might. What a person does plays a lot into that.

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feel superior to someone who doesn't appear to pass your bar of accredited BDSM experience.