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RE: Help - 7/8/2012 9:51:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Lady Pact, the problem with saying someone who wants to be a submissive but has never had such a relationship shouldn't identify themselves as such is that the corollary in my view is that if a virgin said they were straight or gay, then they shouldn't be allowed to identify themselves as such either.

And from my own experience I can assure you it's wrong. I was straight before I had sex and have always known I am. Equally I had always wanted to be in a relationship with a man who would be the primary decision maker. The fact that I hadn't met a man I could turn that power over to didn't change my orientation.

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RE: Help - 7/9/2012 5:27:31 AM   
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psst - slave, not submissive.

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Don't think I'm making noise just because the word is "Master" compared to anything else. I'm the same way with other terms. A person can call themselves a slave all they want, but if they have never lived under the authority of another, I'm not going to take that seriously, either. All of those couples looking for a third, but have never had more than two people in a relationship? Call yourself poly all you want, but it doesn't mean the same to Me as those who have actually lived that way. There's a big difference between something you have really done and something you are wishing to do.


< Message edited by kalikshama -- 7/9/2012 5:28:11 AM >


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