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Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 10:32:55 AM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		I was adding a video intro to my profile earlier. This made me realize all of the lifestyle experience that I have. I have appeared in over 100 BDSM videos and served 1 Mistress 24/7 (She was Happy with me , but dismissed me when She moved out of state) Am I too used up ???





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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 11:08:22 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 11:23:47 AM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		Thanks for Your opinion Ma'am , but is there any particular reason why ??
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Yes



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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 11:28:08 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 11:39:04 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66

I was adding a video intro to my profile earlier. This made me realize all of the lifestyle experience that I have. I have appeared in over 100 BDSM videos and served 1 Mistress 24/7 (She was Happy with me , but dismissed me when She moved out of state) Am I too used up ???




Well, what are you expecting? If you want to appear in videos and find somebody 24/7 asap, it might be difficult. So why should you be too used up until you feel too used up?

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 11:56:22 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		"Used up" doesn't play into the equation.

I'd be more concerned that with your experience in BDSM video, you would be more consumed with thinking D/s is about the porn crap that sells, rather than the reality of day to day. I haven't had a look at your profile, but I would suggest to you that you be very up front with your knowledge of the difference.



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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 12:05:07 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I'm not quite sure how a person can be 'used up'.

That said, LadyPact makes a good point about letting potential partners know that you understand the difference between porn-BDSM and real life BDSM.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 12:43:21 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66

Thanks for Your opinion Ma'am , but is there any particular reason why ??
quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Yes





Because I don't answer loaded questions.
You've already phrased your question is such a way that you think you'll get the answers you want. It hardly seems worth for me to put any effort into a reply at that point.


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 12:47:50 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		You Ladies are Right and I never considered the difference between the videos and real life BDSM.

Those videos are in the past now. I never made any money from them. They were just my way of paying Tribute. I would much more prefer a Female Led Relationship instead of making videos.

I don't feel "used up". I have a lot to give. I posted the videos in order to , hopefully , attract a very Sadistic Mistress and begin correspondence to see if we might be a match. I am in no hurry at all. I am slow with everything except the Guitar !

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 12:50:47 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		I never meant to "load" my question. Sorry for the confusion. I was merely wondering if I am "too experienced" because it would take a lot to "break me" , but I am sure someone on here can.
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66

Thanks for Your opinion Ma'am , but is there any particular reason why ??
quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Yes





Because I don't answer loaded questions.
You've already phrased your question is such a way that you think you'll get the answers you want. It hardly seems worth for me to put any effort into a reply at that point.



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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 1:02:04 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 1:08:18 PM   
FrostedFlake


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Status: offline 		Glancing at your photo, if that is recent, (May 2012) there is nothing wrong there.

ETA; Didn't see this part:

quote:

I never meant to "load" my question. Sorry for the confusion. I was merely wondering if I am "too experienced" because it would take a lot to "break me" , but I am sure someone on here can.


I doubt that is a valid concern. Maybe for a few, but not generally. And trying to please everyone is a fools errand.

< Message edited by FrostedFlake -- 7/29/2012 1:12:11 PM >

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 3:23:25 PM   
ARIES83


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

In real life, dominants are not into 'breaking' their companions.


It's no fun playing with broken toys!
When I think "break", I think mental breakdown
and thats not fun for anyone...

-ARIES

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 3:37:16 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Agreed, I want someone that suits me from the get go, and is willing to please me. Who wants broken things?

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 3:57:18 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

In real life, dominants are not into 'breaking' their companions.


Somebody wanting me to break them would be a red flag, I'd pass. It's a bit like the tired old approach "are you strong enough to break me" - why would anybody want the power struggle just to end up with a broken person?

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 4:29:00 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		Maybe I used the wrong term when I said "break" , but that is how I was taught at Mystress World. I quote from one of my lessons

"Incidentally, if a boy
has been bonded to (collared) by another dominant
before, then he will have to be whipped "harder and
longer and more frequently" than his previous Mistress did .. in order to break that prior bond and fuse him to my control.

In conclusion, punishments are never administered as
rewards or entertainment. Spankings, slappings,
whippings, etc., must be delivered, received, and
understood as punishment.

Punishment should hurt.

Punishment must be feared.

Punishment must be remembered."


I have been collared once before . 24/7 and Mistress enjoyed Punishing.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 4:33:21 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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I am going to be wisely silent now.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 4:38:06 PM   
FrostedFlake


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SlaveRobert66

Maybe I used the wrong term when I said "break" , but that is how I was taught at Mystress World. I quote from one of my lessons

"Incidentally, if a boy
has been bonded to (collared) by another dominant
before, then he will have to be whipped "harder and
longer and more frequently" than his previous Mistress did .. in order to break that prior bond and fuse him to my control.

In conclusion, punishments are never administered as
rewards or entertainment. Spankings, slappings,
whippings, etc., must be delivered, received, and
understood as punishment.

Punishment should hurt.

Punishment must be feared.

Punishment must be remembered."


I have been collared once before . 24/7 and Mistress enjoyed Punishing.

?????????????????????!

One of us doesn't understand something.

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 4:44:36 PM   
ARIES83


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when the skin grows back, it will belong to me and
dosen't still contain the lingering touch of previous
master. Mwaa Haa Haaa."

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RE: Has My Shelf Life Expired ??? - 7/29/2012 4:51:55 PM   
SlaveRobert66


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Status: offline 		While I do agree with everything I was taught , I understand that there are different versions of D/s. Depending on the preferences of each individual. I can respect that. I know there are not very many Sadistic Women on this site. Most are "Sensual Domme's" or PRO'S.

To Each Their Own. Doesn't affect Me. I hope we all WIN !

Thanks for all the good advice today. I enjoy these Forums.

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