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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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Anybody who doesn't have limits doesn't usually have good negotiation skills, either.

Now, on to this.
I thought about this since you first posted it, trying to find out why I had such a strong desire to state that it was not true. I found the answer, and it actually took another statement from someone else to help me understand it.

I think, for me, it's like NV said

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When I see people adamant about Limits or No Limits, to the point of getting emotional or angry about it, I think they're holding tight to a belief they *have* to have, because they don't know how to process believing otherwise

it's a challenge to my own belief system, so the defensive response was really strong.

I have to admit, those two statement ya'll made, have probably got me thinking more than anything else that was said on this thread. But, those two statements, also, opened up a whole new way of looking at things for me.

Thankyou both.