atursvcMaam -> RE: Your Right To Life Support.... (8/24/2012 7:01:44 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote:
I don't actually fit into those kinky world or definition on a day to day basis. Earlier in my life, pre marriage, pre active kink, and so on, I went to a gentleman's club. The lovely girl who was dancing approached me, took me by the sides of my face and chastised me for not staring at her. Oh for fuck sake... that is not who I meant and you damn well know it. Your information site calls "You are so hot" as wel as other potential compliments as well as threats coercion. I have been accused of undressing a woman with my eyes (some times wiht a smile, sometimes with a glare. I am still trying to sort through your definitions. quote:
In my youth (earlier than this) I had a young woman who was quite well endowed, take the time to explain to me how to approach a lady with large breasts. She explained to talk to the lady's eyes. when she looked away there would be time to check out the rest of her. She told me that was the way she checked out men without embarassing them. I can offer you my respect should you find yourself naked in my presence, and will actually defend your virtue if that is needed. However I have encountered more women lifestyle and mainstream who would consider that quite presumptuous of me. Shakes my head.... and looking is touching how? When telling someone they are gorgeous is Coercion, the look in my eye, or on my face when i see a woman in the nude often says more than my voice will. Anywhere from WOW, to "can i get you a towel?" quote:
Your scenario would require permission from the Dominant woman and my Dominant. It would require my Dominant's permission to defend Her from an offending male. There are pre agreed and pre arranged permissions. She also is quite adept at and gets pleasure out of defending Herself. No real self image problems there. And yet a vanilla woman faced with any male who is determined to have her has what defense other than the word 'no'? You are the perfect example of a man who can resist if he so desires. So why cant others? While I can not control other men, nor explain them, A self reliant vanilla woman, in no particular order, and at the risk of repeating myself, and dropping lethal solutions, can avail herself of restraining orders, taser, pepper spray. self control, mastering the audible fart, pick your nose, scratch your butt, learn to vomit on command, and aim at his shoes, wet yourself or him or both, (although some kinksters might get a kick out of any of this). learn to master martial arts, learn to scream loudly or get one of those canned air boat horns, personal siren with flashing light, staying aware of the local police hang out, dunkin Donuts, or the local 24 hour convenience store, A safety/ICE/safecall mumber on your cell phone, learn to be the designated driver. That protects from your concern about alcohol, as well as putting you in the position if "he" crosses the line, he ends up walking home. I am sure that there are other solutions, but these are a few that I could come up with off the top of my head.
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