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DesFIP -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 10:28:05 AM)

I grew up on a nude beach. No problems with nudity here. Except for socks since my feet are always cold.




poise -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 10:30:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50
If you mean the first time (or 2, or 3) well yes, I look at her naked form but not so much to see a naked female, but to gauge her reaction about what's happening. And yes, the sadist in me is hoping to see her a little shy and embarrassed etc. Hell, maybe even squirm a little or even motion to cover her modesty in some way so I can be the big bad Dom of discipline etc. By now, I'm mostly looking into her eyes - way, waaaaay into her eyes....
Focus.


This brings to mind a favorite quote.
He’d noted with interest the blend of reluctance and eagerness she’d displayed,
and the nervous flush this conflict had brought to her cheeks.


I still often feel that sense of vulnerability, but it's not because I am insecure about my body.
It's much more a mental vulnerability than a physical one. Like little red riding hood without her cape.




sexyred1 -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 11:35:52 AM)

Very interesting comments in this thread..

As a BBW, I am expected to be insecure about my body; at least that is what the media and others say.

Like all women, I have body issues, but I never felt insecure about being naked in front of a lover simply because I saw myself through their eyes. They would not have been there if they did not like my body.

I don't find it a dominant or submissive issue, being naked. I find it a human issue.

I don't find vulnerability in being naked with someone; I find if I give my heart to someone, that is what makes me vulnerable.




PrincessBrienna -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 11:39:31 AM)

I call myself a bbw and I dont care what the media says, I look GOOD naked and just like you said I think its an human issue




Hillwilliam -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 11:40:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessBrienna

I call myself a bbw and I dont care what the media says, I look GOOD naked and just like you said I think its an human issue

We're gonna require an extensive collection of pictures to judge the truthfullness of that statement. [8D]




PrincessBrienna -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 11:55:05 AM)

lol NOT happening!




Hillwilliam -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 12:34:50 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessBrienna

lol NOT happening!

Was teasing. I see you're new. Welcome to the discussion side.




PrincessBrienna -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 12:44:07 PM)

Thank you and I knew you were teasing me :)




Bemyprize -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 1:07:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ScarlettSummer

I just want to know, when your sub(MISSIVE EDIT by Michael) is standing fully nude in front of you, what are you looking at?
The nude body form? The imperfections? What is it about a completely nude sub that you like. Or maybe you don't like your sub(MISSIVE) fully nude? Why? Do scars and imperfections bother you or are you beyond that? Thank you in advance for your answers.


NO I am tripping on the expression on her face, the agony she is suffering as she worries that she isn't (see your above). I am delighting in the strength it took for her to offer herself like that, enjoying the power it gives me, relishing in the fact that she is craving my acceptance.

Holding eye contact as the seconds drag on, letting the pressure grow, and then calling her to me, letting her see my acceptance and joy in her offering.

Its not the sexy outfits that make the life work for me. Its not the surrender of her body, rather its the absolute vulnerability of her mind and soul. Her acceptance that she is MINE, that my approval is the most vital approval in the world to her.

She is my prize, my... (here I described this before.. pardon the cut and past).

EDIT
Pygmalion loves his creation BECAUSE she is HIS, he molded and shaped her from her essence. Each detail was the result of thought, consideration and finally WORK. She felt herself taking form, felt her essence being molded. (she isn’t like the prostitutes that he disdains, with their cheap yes sirs and meaningless master this or that)

I like to imagine her (Pygmalion's creation*) longing to become what he saw. I can imagine her saying... “ I could never be this creation you seek, I am still unfinished marble” (or I have scars, my form isn't pleasing, etc).

Thus…dear reader… we arrive at the point. $#$# YOU… if you think you can hand me some carved statue and expect me to rejoice in her beauty. It’s not MINE, she is NOT MINE. ... I don’t know her secret desires, and the words that compel her to her knees. She is a mass produced illusion you wish me to cherish like a bespoke treasure. END EDIT

(That is why some hottie hot who calls me master PISSES ME THE HELL OFF.. she has NOT paid the price that my girl paid. She is a mass produced tart,a velcro collar)

Each Dom is going to see something different inside of you, each one will struggle to mold you into his own creation. (pick the one who's version of you makes you the happiest)

So when we look at you, we rejoice, like Pygmalion, we rejoice in the awakening of our perfect girl. Those aren't scars, that is the grain of your marble, the struggles you went thru, the victories you achieved and the pain you paid to become MINE.

Michael...,


p.s
* use your google-fu for Pygmalion's story.. I am a romantic, read the Greek version where she loves her creator)

Talk to any submissive who is happily owned and they will tell you that they wouldn't trade their Dom for any superhot rich guy in the world. Her Dom will tell you his girl is the most wonderful thing in the world. We are addicted to power and our girl is our bespoke drug of choice.





littlewonder -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 1:10:18 PM)

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wouldn't trade their Dom for any superhot rich guy in the world.


Well he is superhot. [;)]




Bemyprize -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 1:13:28 PM)

Point taken little wonder please insert this if you re-read my post ..

"would't trade her Dom for any OTHER SUPERHOT, FUNNY, WONDERFUL, ARTICULATE, ADONIS in the world."



p.s and before you get mad.. I don't know your Dom so forgive me for missing what I am sure are many more of his salient domtastacial qualities.

POINTS TO the OP.. see.... told ya...




Focus50 -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 1:56:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

Oh Focus you would love me in this aspect! I am fit, eat well and get exercise as well but I am not comfortable naked at all. Sometimes confidence does go pulsing through me I can enjoy being naked, enjoy expressing and experiencing my body but usually no not me.


That's the thing - and as poise has also related - the real "exposed vulnerability" is mental and emotional as much as it's physical. Which is why I'm mostly looking deep into her eyes at this point.

I've had a couple of ex g/f's who had what most might call a hot little body. But as it seems with all women, they were very much aware of some perceived personal imperfection they were self-conscious about. For one, it was freckles...! lol As one who thinks natural redheads (for example) are HOT, freckles aren't something *I* would call an imperfection.

Unfortunately, this wasn't D/s so I resisted messing with her mind about it, anyways. Btw, she wasn't a redhead, just had very fair skin.

Focus.




Focus50 -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 2:06:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

I still often feel that sense of vulnerability, but it's not because I am insecure about my body.
It's much more a mental vulnerability than a physical one. Like little red riding hood without her cape.


Your latest screen pic seems so appropriate in this thread.

Still, while it's sexy and endearing when a fem/sub is tempted to cover her modesty in some way, I think a hat (?) is saying "NO" just a little too loudly. [:)]

Focus.




Hillwilliam -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 2:08:46 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

But as it seems with all women, they were very much aware of some perceived personal imperfection they were self-conscious about. For one, it was freckles...! lol As one who thinks natural redheads (for example) are HOT, freckles aren't something *I* would call an imperfection.

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Your statement reminds me of an ex sub. She used to say "I get intimidated around beautiful women" I just looked at her and said "What the hell do you do when you look in a mirror?"




poise -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 2:21:55 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

That's the thing - and as poise has also related - the real "exposed vulnerability" is mental and emotional as much as it's physical. Which is why I'm mostly looking deep into her eyes at this point.
Focus.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50
Still, while it's sexy and endearing when a fem/sub is tempted to cover her modesty in some way,
I think a hat (?) is saying "NO" just a little too loudly. [:)]
Focus.

But....uhm.. my eyes are nowhere near that hat? [:)]




littlewonder -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 8:07:13 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Bemyprize

Point taken little wonder please insert this if you re-read my post ..

"would't trade her Dom for any OTHER SUPERHOT, FUNNY, WONDERFUL, ARTICULATE, ADONIS in the world."



p.s and before you get mad.. I don't know your Dom so forgive me for missing what I am sure are many more of his salient domtastacial qualities.

POINTS TO the OP.. see.... told ya...


I was joking if you saw my little [;)]




Focus50 -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/24/2012 8:14:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

But....uhm.. my eyes are nowhere near that hat? [:)]


Your eyes? [:-]

Most subs tend to naturally drop their eyes, esp in a formal scene. So I'm thinking yours would definitely be in the vicinity of where that hat (or hand) better not be - least, not if I were giving you instruction. lol

But you raise a point; that since there's no end to what you submissive types might try to get away with, we Doms have consequently developed a heightened peripheral vision. We see all...!

So always believe that when you do get away with something..., ummm..., it's cos we let you that one time, k? [:)]

Focus.




Bemyprize -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/25/2012 8:17:34 AM)

Oh so your Dom is NOT handsome, wink.. I was re=joking your joke, ie. laughing with your joke and joking back.


Sadly most of my jokes turn out to be private jokes, (you need to be me to get them wink.)

Michael...,





JeffBC -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/25/2012 1:50:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessBrienna
lol NOT happening!

This is me pouting in my best domly fashion.




JeffBC -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/25/2012 2:47:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
I pose for artists. I'm a nude model. I'm also a big woman (not as big as 6 months ago, but still big). Artists LOVE my body. They love the shadows and the curves. They realize how awesome my body is - even when I don't.

I'll add on to this. As a photographer I got bored with glamour photography in about 2 months. Oh yay! Yet another picture of a hot 20 something. Seriously, how "special" can such a thing be. I'm MUCH more interested in a craggy, colored, weather-worn face nowadays. There's something to actually SEE in that. It's interesting. Light wraps around all those wrinkles and blemishes in the most fascinating ways. So yes, when I have my art eyes on I'm seeing the world in an entirely different way. It makes me wonder if more women ought to consider posing (nude or otherwise) just to understand that there are other types of beauty than what the glamour industry sells us.




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