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LonDom61 -> RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a nude female sub? (10/28/2012 4:46:08 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Focus50
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ORIGINAL: ScarlettSummer
I just want to know, when your sub is standing fully nude in front of you, what are you looking at?
The nude body form?
The imperfections?
What is it about a completely nude sub that you like. Or maybe you don't like your sub fully nude? Why?
Do scars and imperfections bother you or are you beyond that?
Thank you in advance for your answers.
If you mean the first time (or 2, or 3) well yes, I look at her naked form but not so much to see a naked female (I'm old - been there; done that) but to gauge her reaction about what's happening. And yes, the sadist in me is hoping to see her a little shy and embarrassed etc. Hell, maybe even squirm a little or even motion to cover her modesty in some way so I can be the big bad Dom of discipline etc. By now, I'm mostly looking into her eyes - way, waaaaay into her eyes....
"Imperfections" are a matter of persepective but if she's got body piercings, they'll need to go. But she'll know this before her first time naked, anyway. Scars etc are just life - that some things I just have to accept. Other than that, her being my property means I won't have her being self-conscious about her body. If it's a few too many pounds, I'll make her lose it - because it's *my* body she's wearing.
If she's just shy about being naked, she can expect to spend most of our private time together butt naked etc. I'm not much for wearing clothes at home, myself (just lurv Oz weather), but if I'm acclimatising her to being naked and comfortable with it, I'll usually be fully clothed myself, just to reinforce relationship hierarchy (and drag her deeeeelightful discomfort out a bit further).
Once she's there (naked and comfy with it), I actually prefer my girl wear something skimpy (bikini - or panties and snug top - or just panties) 'cause us fellas like a bit of mystery - and even though I may well be naked myself.
Gotta add, times like this are when I much prefer a newbie to an experienced sub. Telling the latter to strip off - and she just does it and awaits the next instruction - kinda takes the edge off for me....
Focus.
This.
Well, most of it, anyway. I don`t mind a piercing or 2. I`d echo his sentiments about enjoying the vulnerability & shyness. The feeling of power. Depending on the dynamic, ownership. Pride. The reminder of status, being clothed while she`s exposed.
People have been talking about `hey, she`s naked. He`s a guy. He`s lookin at her boobies.` Yes, that`s true. But a Dom (well, this Dom anyway) sees and feels more than just `yum, naked, I`m gonna start there and then...
Not just vanilla lust & anticipation of slaking it. That, PLUS `she`s mine. she`s shy, but naked before me because I ordered it. I have power over this woman. Mmmmm. Shall I have her wait, exposed to me and becoming more self-conscious... Shall I speak reassurance, compliment...or an order? Shall I have her kneel for me? Take a position for me? Crawl to me?
Or yes, maybe bring me a beer?
Sex, sensuality...or sensation play? What is MY impulse? MY pleasure? It will become hers, too.
Aaaaand stuffs like that. Hard to translate thoughts to words. But that`s a taste.
Not just the bits of her. Not just the marks on her. Not just the whole of her. All of that...plus POWER over the whole of her.
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