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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

Not having ever contacted any sub on the internet to initiate a relationship and having no intentions of doing so I can only go on what other people have talked about on the threads and subs stating their wants and needs. It has always amused me that many women say they want a certain behaviour from doms but then bash doms on the threads for offering to provide it. It seems to me they want a domesticated dom that they can control which has always baffled me. Though I guess it is not baffling. They want someone they can trust and feel safe with so they can act submissive or be a slut to, which to me is being neither, to me it is just acting the part, which is fair enough. Whatever floats your boat.