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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 12:46:15 AM

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My Master has pics of me and him on his profile. As I also have pics of me and him on my profile. But thats because we are looking for another sub girl. We want anyone who sees our profiles to know that we are together.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 6:03:47 AM

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ResidentSadist has toys and boobage on his profile, but he totally carries it off. He uses them to highlight his wit and personality, rather than be the endpoint.

It may highlight some things but those things are not positive things to all viewers.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 6:11:50 AM

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It's a turn off when it's stock photos, or a bunch of old gf pics on a "single" guy's profile.
People who are together posting pictures of fun junk they're doing - hey, have fun.
But it's just weird on a single guy's profile, and I'm inclined to wander away when I see it.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 6:13:37 AM

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I do more than wander away - I put them on Hide.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 6:16:46 AM

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quote:

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ResidentSadist has toys and boobage on his profile, but he totally carries it off. He uses them to highlight his wit and personality, rather than be the endpoint.

It may highlight some things but those things are not positive things to all viewers.

Keeping both quotes for context.

I do see your point, LaT. The other side of it is that I can't tell you how many folks from the forums at one time or another have asked about the toys or the dungeon. For some, it is a topic of conversation. It can also be a matter of convenience. It's way easier to point somebody to a pic of the toys, rather than try to explain what's really in the collection.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 7:47:09 AM

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Is an exquisite piece of modern technological art. What's your point?

This exists because 49% of the population in the civilized world is 15 year-old boys (of all ages).

If we all (men and women) just acknowledged the fact that men's desires don't actually change much from that point in our development, everyone would be a whole lot happier.

[Steps away from keyboard to go watch "Burn Notice" on Roku and have some nachos.]

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 7:50:53 AM

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Men that have the intelligence of a fifteen year old boy and play video games are a big turn off to me too. THUMBS DOWN.

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Is an exquisite piece of modern technological art. What's your point?

This exists because 49% of the population in the civilized world is 15 year-old boys (of all ages).

If we all (men and women) just acknowledged the fact that men's desires don't actually change much from that point in our development, everyone would be a whole lot happier.

[Steps away from keyboard to go watch "Burn Notice" on Roku and have some nachos.]

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 7:54:29 AM

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This thread is starting to make Me wonder if I should check between My legs for a penis.

Kidding..... Kidding.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:04:19 AM

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It's right there, LAdyP.. attached to the leather harness ;)

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:11:44 AM

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I like playing some games on the computer - but Ive known people that log some serious hours playing PS3 - or WoW and do nothing else. I was married to someone who started pulling that shit. I was like wtf?!?! I was out the door.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:37:18 AM

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But it's worth saying here, too, that women do similarly nonsensical things in their profiles photos: the infamous I-will-take-a-photo-from-this-angle-because-I-don't-look-fat-from-here shot, for instance.

Actually, what I always found odd was people that use "fluffy" pictures as their photo....like a rose, or a wolf or a collar with poetry all over it. Blech.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:40:54 AM

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Ive heard stories where people post pics that arnt even THEM - then they turn up for the meeting and the other person is like -who the fuck are you?
I always laugh when I hear stuff like that. Its actually quite amazing the lengths people will go to, because they are so desperate.

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But it's worth saying here, too, that women do similarly nonsensical things in their profiles photos: the infamous I-will-take-a-photo-from-this-angle-because-I-don't-look-fat-from-here shot, for instance.

Actually, what I always found odd was people that use "fluffy" pictures as their photo....like a rose, or a wolf or a collar with poetry all over it. Blech.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:45:32 AM

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But it's worth saying here, too, that women do similarly nonsensical things in their profiles photos: the infamous I-will-take-a-photo-from-this-angle-because-I-don't-look-fat-from-here shot, for instance.

Actually, what I always found odd was people that use "fluffy" pictures as their photo....like a rose, or a wolf or a collar with poetry all over it. Blech.

Or gigantic rooster statues. blech.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:46:16 AM

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I don't mind the fluffy pics so much. I get that some folks are freaked about using actual pics of themselves (although, there are SO many ways to fudge an actual pic, I am baffled as to why they don't use even MS Paint to do so..but hey, not everyone knows how to use photoediting software).

I do agree: single men that are seeking should NOT use stock/ex GF/porn pics on their profiles. It DOES make them look desperate, IMNSHO.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:47:52 AM

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Ive heard stories where people post pics that arnt even THEM - then they turn up for the meeting and the other person is like -who the fuck are you?
I always laugh when I hear stuff like that. Its actually quite amazing the lengths people will go to, because they are so desperate.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: descrite

But it's worth saying here, too, that women do similarly nonsensical things in their profiles photos: the infamous I-will-take-a-photo-from-this-angle-because-I-don't-look-fat-from-here shot, for instance.

Actually, what I always found odd was people that use "fluffy" pictures as their photo....like a rose, or a wolf or a collar with poetry all over it. Blech.

I was already in a LTR when the internet became the primary dating source, so I never experienced a complete photo swap.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:50:08 AM

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LoL - even better yet - when someone photoshops someones elses face or body as themselves - and do a shitty job of it. Thats classic.

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I don't mind the fluffy pics so much. I get that some folks are freaked about using actual pics of themselves (although, there are SO many ways to fudge an actual pic, I am baffled as to why they don't use even MS Paint to do so..but hey, not everyone knows how to use photoediting software).

I do agree: single men that are seeking should NOT use stock/ex GF/porn pics on their profiles. It DOES make them look desperate, IMNSHO.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 8:50:39 AM

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inorite????

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 9:00:41 AM

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I find the replies from some of the men in this thread to be interesting.

Bottom line:

If you are single and looking and you have photos of women, sex toys laid out on a bed or stock photos from porn sites, you are pathetic and misguided.

No one is impressed that you had sex in your life or that you tied a woman up. Ho Hum.

No one is thinking, wow, look at all those toys, he must be a total stud/dom. Sorry, I have my own toys and I would never use your toys that might have been used on someone else. Eww.

No one is thinking that the erotic artwork or stock photos you put up means anything other than you did not want to post your own photo, which is fine.

However, should you write to someone telling them how much you love her photo (as someone did a few minutes ago to me) and I ask you to tell me about yourself and to ATTACH a photo of yourself and you persist in saying, I don't need a photo, I am a DOM, but you ask ME for MORE photos, then you are just a moron.

If you are a couple or if you had past relationships and you feel you want other men to envy you; remember, not everyone views your tastes the same as you do and it is a sign of insecurity that you need to do this.

Maybe it is just me, but I had super attractive partners in my life and I never once showed their past photos on a dating site to make myself look hotter. I use myself to do that.

Some people really need to understand marketing better.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 9:03:52 AM

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Yeah, "chicks I've done" Photos are not all that alluring to me.

But it's a whole thing better than a photo of their dick.

We could use a whole other thread analyzing that one, however.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/6/2012 9:15:38 AM

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You are right; forgot to say posting dick shots is the worst. We have had numerous threads on that one.

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