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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/18/2012 8:03:51 PM

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Cuz, you know, guys who wear wedding rings never cheat, right? Right?

Well we all know the answer to that one, but my earlier comments were if I were single and saw a profile of a guy who, from his profile, appeared to be single but really wasn't, I'd find it suspect. Cuz guys with owned slaves cheat, too. And I've run into enough guys on the profile side who do just that (including my former owner). Hence, my own comfort level in the Mister mentioning me on his profile, rather than looking like a single dude looking for play. As I said before, it's just a personal thing with me.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/18/2012 8:07:05 PM

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I so fail at this thread. LOL.

After reading the exchange between NV and LW, I literally had to go LOOK at My own profile to see what was on it. I was relieved to find that I do mention the husband and the collared sub, even though I don't list them by name.

I'm pretty much in the same camp in not finding it necessary. I could have written what LW said word for word. The folks on the forums and the people from real life know who they are and that's enough for Me. Those that don't, I have no problem informing them.

LOL well there is no pass or fail here, only what people are comfy with of course.

But...I'm curious, if you don't find it necessary and could have written what LW said, why were you relieved about mentioning your relationships in your profile?

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/18/2012 8:55:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
LOL well there is no pass or fail here, only what people are comfy with of course.

But...I'm curious, if you don't find it necessary and could have written what LW said, why were you relieved about mentioning your relationships in your profile?

Because if I was a guy, and didn't mention the other person/people on the profile, I'd be out of whack for that, too.

I was just sitting here joking with the guys about how many things that have been mentioned on this thread that, if I was male, people wouldn't like about the pictures or the profile. It occurred to Me that the only thing I was missing was a penis pic. I'm half thinking of taking a shot of the inserted urethral sounds the next time they are in use. Bahahahahaha.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/18/2012 8:56:50 PM

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I'm half thinking of taking a shot of the inserted urethral sounds the next time they are in use. Bahahahahaha.
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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/18/2012 10:02:20 PM

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LOL well there is no pass or fail here, only what people are comfy with of course.

But...I'm curious, if you don't find it necessary and could have written what LW said, why were you relieved about mentioning your relationships in your profile?

Because if I was a guy, and didn't mention the other person/people on the profile, I'd be out of whack for that, too.

Ah, OK, I didn't think of that, since my experiences have been with men doing that sort of thing.

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I was just sitting here joking with the guys about how many things that have been mentioned on this thread that, if I was male, people wouldn't like about the pictures or the profile. It occurred to Me that the only thing I was missing was a penis pic. I'm half thinking of taking a shot of the inserted urethral sounds the next time they are in use. Bahahahahaha.

Eek!!

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/21/2012 11:31:23 AM

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Sure I don't know what you're here for but I do know at least one thing that you're not into because you've been quite clear about it: "but for me it is a huge turn off." That's what I was commenting on.

OK - So my full statement that you took that from was:
Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the Internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off.

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Then there are the casual players *shrug* it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you.

Speaking of full statements, I seem to recall giving more than that one alternative to what might be going on. The point being that just as you are quick to point out that I don't know you neither do you know these people who's thought process you are explaining to us.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/21/2012 1:02:58 PM

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Whatever = Im sure that the guys that have the pics of women / Belladonna - or the ex-sub or current sub (for that matter) sucking their ding-ding have the phones ringing off the hook and their doors being beaten down by the passionate, horney female subs that are fortunate enough to run across their profile.

Little do these guys know that the guys with the pics of their big raging hard-ons are in high competition with them.

What the fuck do I know?

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/21/2012 1:15:35 PM

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i didn't see this thread originally, nore have i read it all.....although i may get around to it.

however, in answer to the op. i am not looking for guys, but if i were i'd avoid anyone that had pics of other women in their profiles. this is because if i were to be on the look for someone new i have found that i am not good at sharing. in fact i'm really bad at it. so i don't want to get involved with someone who already has other women on the go. i would want someone that is single and having pics of other women doesn't put that over to me. it also smacks of not being over the ex if they are supposed to be now single. she's your ex for a reason, so get over it already and remove the pics. i seriously hate the spread open pussy pics as that is just plain tacky. so ok a guy may find that a turn on, and as a private pic for personal use all cool, but in a profile it's stomach churning for me to see. another thing is that i want to be enough for a man. if he's fucking everything else out there then i'm not i'm just another cunt to add to the list. i want to be everything, not just the random fuck of the day. it makes me feel pretty worthless.

the other thing that would put me off is that if he's willing to put a pic of some ex in his profile without her permission then it shows a huge lack of respect for her. if he has no respect for her how can he have any for me. i also don't want pics of me being used by an ex either. i think using pics of your ex is down right fucking insulting actually both to her and any prospective new partner.

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RE: Master/Doms that have women in their pics - 10/21/2012 6:18:25 PM

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I just want to say, that even though I'm not looking for guys on here... if I *was*... if the first impression I saw of a guy was his previous sub all tied up with her vag exposed.. I wouldn't be very interested in him.

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