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ORIGINAL: JanahX
So wtf? Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off. It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!"

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
So wtf? Whats up with guys that have women either from real pics they took or pics taken from the internet as their pic gallery in their profiles? I dont know what it is that they think they are trying to prove - but for me it is a huge turn off. It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!"

I don't think it necessarily screams that. You'll find professional riggers over on fetlife who have huge numbers of tied women in their profile pics, they're showing off their work. You can similarly find kinky couples or poly groups who are also proud of their work and showing off what happens within that relationship to the community.

Then there are the casual players *shrug* it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses...

Oh and by the way women do all of the above as well. What I don't get are people who put up porn they found on the internet in their profile

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
I have no doubt that they do - too bad the majority of them are really guys pretending to be women.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
CM and Fetlife are completely different sites. Theyre not set up for the same thing. And mostly - when you see the pics that the guys put up here -9 out of ten times, its not to show off their work.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Im talking about single horny men.

Then there are the casual players *shrug* it's not what you're looking for so it's good that they've clearly labelled themselves to you. But I'd advise against kinksters getting too condescending about the safe/sane/consensual activities of others. I seem to recall this saying about glass houses...

Im not sure what youre talking about in this sentence. First off - you dont know what Im looking for or that Im looking at all. You dont know me.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Secondly - These guys are anything but clear

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
It screams to me, that "I'm a huge stud with the ladies - and I get around....now dont you want to be with a stud like me?? Cause I am the man !!!!"

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
they really dont have a clue about how to attract a woman.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Nope me either - thats where the poopie comes out.
And sometimes it has dingleberries.
Like little desert balls for scat eaters.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he *has* a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot

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Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile.

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You know....I'm not sure that someone pretending to be a sock has a leg to stand on in terms of criticizing others for online roleplaying. I would like it though if they were more segregated so that both groups could do their thing without pissing each other off.

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Sure I don't know what you're here for but I do know at least one thing that you're not into because you've been quite clear about it: "but for me it is a huge turn off." That's what I was commenting on.

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These two statements seem contradictory to me. Either someone is being unclear or they are being so clear that it screams to you.

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT
I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH.

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH.

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I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?"

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ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH.

I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?"

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT
definitely not as bad as the guy who has pics of his insertable toy collection.

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ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase
I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail!

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ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase
Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman.

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Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?"

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he *has* a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot

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Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile.

That would really trouble me if the Mister did that. Knowing the majority of folks on the other side are in a search of some sort and DON'T come to the forums, it would feel weird/dishonest to me. Especially if the profile seemed to be inviting women to contact him. It's obviously an area I have issues with, and fortunately (for me) the Mister felt it was no big deal and took no effort to put a little blurb in there about me.

If I were out there looking, and a guy had an advertising type profile which omitted he owned a slave, it would seem suspect to me.

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ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT


I want to know what it is with men who have pics of themselves holding FISH.

I wonder that, too. I interpret those pictures as, "Ha, lookit me, I outsmarted something with a brain the size of my pinkie nail! Aren't you impressed?" or "Me catch fish, big provider for little woman. Me drag you back to cave by your hair now?"

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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If it's a case of a man putting up pics of his partner, but he doesn't even reference on his profile that he *has* a partner, let alone who she is, I think it's tacky and false advertising (especially if his profile is written in a way that seems to want to attract more women). I actually see that a lot

.

Master has pictures of me on his profile but it does not say anything about him having a slave or anything. Like Master said, all they would have to do is come to the forums and read about him. Most regular people on this side already know we are together and since he's not searching for anything, it just doesn't matter what he has on his profile.

That would really trouble me if the Mister did that. Knowing the majority of folks on the other side are in a search of some sort and DON'T come to the forums, it would feel weird/dishonest to me. Especially if the profile seemed to be inviting women to contact him. It's obviously an area I have issues with, and fortunately (for me) the Mister felt it was no big deal and took no effort to put a little blurb in there about me.

If I were out there looking, and a guy had an advertising type profile which omitted he owned a slave, it would seem suspect to me.

It doesn't bother me because I know he isn't out there looking for anyone and I think he's just lazy about not changing his profile lol. It just doesn't bother him or me. Most people on the other side email him because he knows them in real life or on the forums here. He doesn't get much else. Most men don't on here.

I guess for me it's just not all that hard for either of us just to tell people we're taken. Plus he likes to write funny emails to those people who message him or me because after reading their profile and seeing their pictures It just makes on want to burst out laughing and giving a little "constructive criticism.