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Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 5:59:12 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		So ... Ive heard it can be done. Ive read from numerous females that they can cum just by their owners commanding it by voice alone. Ive never heard of a male doing this = or even talked about.

I myself havent - and have never even come close to it.

So - hypothetically - say your owner is on a business trip and he/she calls you and tells you to sit, put both hands, palms down flat upon a table. And then tells you to cum. Could you do it? No stimulation - none.

How does that happen = anyone?
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:01:30 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:03:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well ... with females, its kind of hard to prove. With guys not so much - thats why I was wondering more about the guys.

Any girl can say she came and no one would know any difference.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:19:18 PM   
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Well ... with females, its kind of hard to prove. With guys not so much - thats why I was wondering more about the guys.

Any girl can say she came and no one would know any difference.


Yeah, there's a few in our community where I'm dubious about it actually happening.


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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:20:00 PM   
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Any girl can say she came and no one would know any difference.


My Hanes Her Way would know.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:21:36 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:27:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Well ... with females, its kind of hard to prove. With guys not so much - thats why I was wondering more about the guys.

Any girl can say she came and no one would know any difference.



Not necessarily. There is a difference between orgasm and ejaculation. Although rare, and usually not without a lot of work/practice, men can cum without ejaculating. That's probably the easiest way to train multiple male orgasms.

As for the original question, I am able to cum without physical sensation (I'm not submissive so it's my own thoughts rather than a commanding voice). It *usually* is not a full ejaculation though it can be, but either way it generally takes me a fairly long time to achieve. I haven't tried training myself to do it fast though and I'm sure it's possible. I recommend learning hypnosis and tantra as well as some resources about male orgasm without ejaculation.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:27:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I cant cum on command but i can have a mental orgasm after much stimulation of my limbic system.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:42:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Here is an arcticle I found about male orgasms - & more or less - men can cum w/o ejaculating - but only under certain circumstances.

http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/male_orgasm.htm

Ejaculation and the Male Orgasm
As noted above, it is possible to have a male orgasm without ejaculation.

•Pre-adolescent boys may experience an orgasm without ejaculation.

•Some men do not have an ejaculation until several seconds after orgasm.

•Some men, who are incapable of ejaculation, are still capable of orgasm.

•Some men, may experience several ejaculations and go on to have further orgasms, but without ejaculation.


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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 6:52:04 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 8:47:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX


How does that happen = anyone?
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?


Speaking as a guy, I couldn't.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 8:50:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope. Its not gonna happen. I need stimulation and the right kind and he knows it.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 8:52:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX

So ... Ive heard it can be done. Ive read from numerous females that they can cum just by their owners commanding it by voice alone. Ive never heard of a male doing this = or even talked about.

I myself havent - and have never even come close to it.

So - hypothetically - say your owner is on a business trip and he/she calls you and tells you to sit, put both hands, palms down flat upon a table. And then tells you to cum. Could you do it? No stimulation - none.

How does that happen = anyone?
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?



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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 9:14:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can do it myself, but not on someones command. I find it sort of pisses me off to have someone think they can just utter a word and boom.. phhht.. lazy. I consider those that want to be in control of something like that are mostly doing it so they don't have to work at giving me any pleasure. But on my own I can bring one up. However it is not without some sort of touch. A very hard pinch on my forearm while clenching my cunt will make me cum.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 9:59:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		yes it is possible, it happens to me everytime one or two words are spoken in a certain tone of voice

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 10:36:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?

I was able to train (I don't really like that word.... more like practice, or modify) my girl over time to be able to orgasm from a command plus very light stimulation (such as nipple pain or pleasure, spankings, throat fucking, or my hand around her neck). I've never tried by command alone, yet. I don't want to have a "miss", if that makes sense. I'm just slowly varying the different stimulation I use, along with the command, over time to get a feel for what works and what doesn't.

As for it having anything to do with being lazy, Missokyst, that's a big assumption on your part. That's like seeing a red card and assuming the driver is a prick. The driver MAY be a prick, but there are many, many other potential reasons for that car being red. Likewise, not everybody who is into orgasm control is into it because they don't want to put any effort into getting their slave off. In fact, it can be quite a bit of work. I've put 4 years into it. It's fun, but it's definitely not a time-saver!

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 10:43:47 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 10:56:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry, but I have known way too many guys that want to accomplish this. You think its a lot of work? Imagine how hard it is for the woman who has to make it happen. And why I ask.. for vanity? What is the purpose unless you are playing with her and bringing her to the point of orgasm and THEN make her fall over the edge. I can do it with pain ONLY because pain can make me cum anyway. And the few .. very few other women I have known who have cum for their owners on command, have admitted having issues with orgasms. Mine are gut wrenching, tear inducing, headache pounding events where the blood pressure rises. So far I have only met women who can have a command induced orgasm and function easily afterward. For me that would be a nice ride, but not an orgasm
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ORIGINAL: wittynamehere


As for it having anything to do with being lazy, Missokyst, that's a big assumption on your part. That's like seeing a red card and assuming the driver is a prick.



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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 10:57:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Ive read from numerous females that they can cum just by their owners commanding it by voice alone.


Numerous? Dubious.

quote:

Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?


Terse answer? No.
Short answer? Yes.
Long answer? No.

How verbosely do you want it?

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/19/2012 11:05:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
You think its a lot of work? Imagine how hard it is for the woman who has to make it happen.

We must be talking about different things. I've put 4 years into it. Research, practice, setting up the right situations, and of course tons of hands on practice and play. It's more than just saying "cum" and surveying the results.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
And why I ask.. for vanity?

Um, no. For control of her orgasms.
Vanity? This is the first time I've ever mentioned it to anyone, and I hope you don't think I'm boasting here in this thread. Somebody asked for info and anecdotes, and I had info and anecdotes, so I contributed. Not trying to gain notoriety.

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