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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/21/2012 4:58:19 PM   
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so you maybe in that very low % that it may happen to. however, if it could happen with me and it was used during an arguement i'd be absolutely furious. it's just disrespectful in my eyes.

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No clue what percentage of women who can actually do that....


While there are certainly physical issues that can get in the way of a woman's ability to orgasm (or even cause unwanted orgasms) percentages like the sock puppet and you two are talking about are overwhelmingly the result of mental causes.

In this case the percentage of women that can orgasm on command is pretty much the percentage of women who have had the right conditioning.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/21/2012 8:00:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would not argue that, GS. But I would not dare hazard a guess as to how many women are so trained now, or could be.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/21/2012 8:09:09 PM   
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< Message edited by littlewonder -- 10/21/2012 8:10:28 PM >

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/21/2012 8:16:02 PM   
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Not the pretend kind, the panties soaked, body quivering, skin flushing, eyes dilated kind.


Ok, I'm confused. What then is an orgasm to you? When I orgasm that's exactly what it is for me as you described. Anything less than that is simply arousal to me but not orgasm. An orgasm leaves me with twitches for about 10-20 minutes after and basically not able to even speak for a few minutes.





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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/21/2012 9:32:37 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 1:46:32 AM   
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Not the pretend kind, the panties soaked, body quivering, skin flushing, eyes dilated kind.


Ok, I'm confused. What then is an orgasm to you? When I orgasm that's exactly what it is for me as you described. Anything less than that is simply arousal to me but not orgasm. An orgasm leaves me with twitches for about 10-20 minutes after and basically not able to even speak for a few minutes.






That was more in response to those who believe its faked, which is scattered throughout this thread.


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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 3:55:59 PM   
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Not the pretend kind, the panties soaked, body quivering, skin flushing, eyes dilated kind.


Ok, I'm confused. What then is an orgasm to you? When I orgasm that's exactly what it is for me as you described. Anything less than that is simply arousal to me but not orgasm. An orgasm leaves me with twitches for about 10-20 minutes after and basically not able to even speak for a few minutes.






That was more in response to those who believe its faked, which is scattered throughout this thread.


Ha-the lilone actually involuntarily stops breathing when she's really having a big O. Eyes rolled back in her head, body convulsing, those inner thigh muscles twitching nonstop-yeah, she'd never be able to fake one

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 3:56:51 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 4:10:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ive kinda changed my stance on this since this thread - Everyone is different, and if you can you can. I think I like hearing it from the chicks here that I find to have credibility. Also - after reading about it some more online/other looked up sites, I think it actually does happen.

I think its rare though - and when I hear someone stating that there are MILLIONS OF WOMEN out there that can do it - (eye roll) - thats where I start having problems. I also think that a lot of women fake it too. Both with on command orgasms AND other induced orgasms.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 4:39:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		i'm a skeptic too, janahx. i saw an episode of "strange sex" on tlc that dealt with orgasms induced by thought, and i thought it was a load of bullshit.

however, if you can do this or have experienced it, more power to you. my cupcake doesn't have a voice command feature yet, but i'll keep y'all posted.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 9:52:00 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 10:07:05 PM   
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So ... Ive heard it can be done. Ive read from numerous females that they can cum just by their owners commanding it by voice alone. Ive never heard of a male doing this = or even talked about.

I myself havent - and have never even come close to it.

So - hypothetically - say your owner is on a business trip and he/she calls you and tells you to sit, put both hands, palms down flat upon a table. And then tells you to cum. Could you do it? No stimulation - none.

How does that happen = anyone?
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?




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ORIGINAL: JanahX

So ... Ive heard it can be done. Ive read from numerous females that they can cum just by their owners commanding it by voice alone. Ive never heard of a male doing this = or even talked about.

I myself havent - and have never even come close to it.

So - hypothetically - say your owner is on a business trip and he/she calls you and tells you to sit, put both hands, palms down flat upon a table. And then tells you to cum. Could you do it? No stimulation - none.

How does that happen = anyone?
Can guys/girls cum w/o any stimulation?



I can't quite explain how I can, but I can. Master's voice has always had an effect on me, even when we first got together. The first time I heard his voice, I almost had an orgasm and I was driving at the time, on my way to my first meeting with him. I don't think it's just his voice, but the thought of him, feeling him and hearing him, makes me cum. And, yes, if he were to command me to lay my hands on a table and cum, I could... I would... and I have.


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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 10:36:48 PM   
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I usually avoid threads like these because they're so often filled with women saying other women can't do what other women are saying they can do....and it gets tiresome. And boring.

But I have to say, my past experience with this is much like what Catize has described - it was all mental. Plus he (former dude) was that far into my head.

First, I do know what an orgasm is. I've been having them since I was a kid. They come in all different varieties of intensity for me - some have been so strong I'm just completely spent and worthless for awhile, and others can be so mild I can just continue doing whatever I was doing when they're done. It depends on all sorts of circumstances.

The non-stimulated "on command" orgasms were of a milder nature for me, but on occasion they were very intense.

I don't do them anymore. I'm not sure I could now, if I wanted to (which I don't). I'm getting older and orgasms are a little harder to attain than they once were. I don't automatically discount those who say they can, though. Just because I can't currently do something doesn't mean others can't, either. I once could, but now I'm old and tired lol.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 11:02:16 PM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/22/2012 11:37:16 PM   
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How come there have been no guys on here that have said they cum on demand? WHERE ARE THE MENZ?????


cos in menz it's called 'premature ejaculation'?

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/23/2012 5:03:39 AM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/23/2012 5:13:59 AM   
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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/23/2012 5:39:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		WW can orgasm from me just talking to her. Takes a little while and involves me doing some rather complicated integrals in my head (because maths is sexy) but it can happen.


Obviously that's more to do with her super orgasm powers than my voice, otherwise I'd be hiring myself out.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/23/2012 12:37:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		No one has ever seen a young, awkward boy orgasm just from looking at a beautiful girl or seeing tits and curves? And then he has to walk with something in front of him until he can get to a restroom? LOL

Ya know, wet dreams.

It doesn't seem all that hard to them imo.


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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/23/2012 1:06:38 PM   
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Orgasm for me, as for most females, is far more emotional than it is physical. This is why it is much more satisfying for me to orgasm with my partner than to masturbate.



Sorry, nothing emotional about it for me. Orgasm, for me, is a physical sensation caused by physical arousal. There can be a mental element to it - really dirty talking turns me on, dirty stories turn me on, threats of what pain I am going to endure turn me on - but none of it is emotional. I think it's a bit of a myth that women's pleasure is emotionally centred. I don't deny it's true for some women, but I think it's a rather old fashioned and perhaps outdated idea.

Masturbation is actually more satisfying for me than a partner simply because, like scratching your own itch, you know exactly where you want to be scratched and how much and so you can pull off a bigger orgasm. A lot of it is a question of timing. But then, with masturbation I'll usually stop after one, whereas with a partner I'll keep going and so end up having multiple orgasms, which are pleasurable in their own right.

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